Trying for a Baby Part 8

codemonkey

ok. This is going to sound just dreadful but I'm hormonal and tired and fed uo of not being pregnant and I need to get this out there.

Something about this cycle just feels great. Combination of soy and maca seems to be working. My cm is textbook and the moon is full ( before anyone calls me a crazy hippy research has been done that shows more conceptions at full moon). So all I need is some sperm. DH comes home with a vomiting bug, pukes in the toilet as soon as he's through the door then goes to sleep so it's all a big waste.

I know it's not his fault but I'm just so fed up of him not wanting to BD. Ok I'm not a supermodel but I'm not Susan Boyle either. I must have the only man in the UK who would rather watch tv than have sex. In fact the last time we did have sex he was watching the big bang theory over my head. I know this because Penny came on screen and he went "Phwoar".

I am never going to get pregnant! Might as well just give up on the idea.

tinkwings

Hum Brown dis-charge looks like AF is finally on her way been It's been 7 long weeks since my MC..................

time2deal

I do know the feeling. I want to BD tonight, but I am scared to ask DH. We were told last Friday to wait 5-10 days, but that goes straight into the 4 weeks ban. So suddenly I was told to go 5-6 weeks without BD!

So, I'm fine to do it tonight, but I know DH will use any excuse to get out of it. I always initiate, and he regularly says no. Once we get going it's fine, just convincing him to get off the sofa is a mission. I'm secretly hoping that stuff he is doing to improve his SA will also increase his libido. It is supposed to.

I must admit, first thing I thought with the maca root was - can I serve it secretly to him in food! I am a bad person.

codemonkey

time2deal wrote: »

I do know the feeling. I want to BD tonight, but I am scared to ask DH. We were told last Friday to wait 5-10 days, but that goes straight into the 4 weeks ban. So suddenly I was told to go 5-6 weeks without BD!

So, I'm fine to do it tonight, but I know DH will use any excuse to get out of it. I always initiate, and he regularly says no. Once we get going it's fine, just convincing him to get off the sofa is a mission. I'm secretly hoping that stuff he is doing to improve his SA will also increase his libido. It is supposed to.

I must admit, first thing I thought with the maca root was - can I serve it secretly to him in food! I am a bad person.

must admit, thought has crossed my mind. He doesn't eat much of my cooking though as he has big lunches at his work cafeteria. :rotfl:

I get annoyed cause I take all these supplements, sleep in total darkness like a freakin chicken, stick my fingers in my foof to check cm and pee on things and all he has to do is , well, me and he won't even do that.

rumfeeble

A full moon, a lunar eclipse and my second high on the cbfm..... surely that's some kind of 'cosmic' sign......... surely!

time2deal

Hugs code.

Edit: I google codemonkey s3x for an appropriate comedy image, and found this! Not quite what I was after, but suitable I suppose!

second edit: I do think you should change your avatar to this though:

codemonkey

rumfeeble wrote: »

A full moon, a lunar eclipse and my second high on the cbfm..... surely that's some kind of 'cosmic' sign......... surely!

apparently a very good sign for conception. BD like crazy. S

rumfeeble

Hugs code, I would totally sneak it into my hubbys food without a second thought if he didn't like to take tablets and I wouldn't feel bad about it either LOL

codemonkey

time2deal wrote: »

Hugs code.

Edit: I google codemonkey s3x for an appropriate comedy image, and found this! Not quite what I was after, but suitable I suppose!

second edit: I do think you should change your avatar to this though:

wow. You found my photo on the internets.

becca0417

rumfeeble wrote: »

Hugs code, I would totally sneak it into my hubbys food without a second thought if he didn't like to take tablets and I wouldn't feel bad about it either LOL

Me too. And if that makes me a bad person, I don't care.
Code I'm totally with you, I had a meltdown & told dh I'm fed up of doing all this stuff & him not even wanting to bd. makes me mad!!! Xxx