Trying for a Baby Part 8

TeamLowe

lots of love Abis, we have our good days and bad days, just sometimes the bad days are really bad
i love this letter from stephen fry, i think it's a really good attitude to have, not dismissing or belittling the bad days, but still recognising that they are bad days and the good days will come again
http://www.lettersofnote.com/2009/10/it-will-be-sunny-one-day.html
hope it helps you too x x

becca0417

!!!!!! spotting so guess cd1 today. Great.

lemonmelon_2

Big big hugs abis. That's a great letter TL, It will be sunny one day x

time2deal

abis21 wrote: »

Oh, thank you so much fannyanna. I was thinking I needed to get on with doing it, but struggling so much again today. Ended up being 1.5 hours late to work as couldn't stop the big, can't catch yr breath type sobs

Oh Abis - sending lots of hugs (and wine for later!)

firefly369

Abis - Just wanted to send big squishy hugs and tell you I am thinking of you -x-

Tink - Love the cupcakes_party_. I bet they were as yummy as they looked.

Teamlowe - Love the letter from Stephen Fry. He has a nice perspective.

Nic - Hello and welcome to the forum:wave:. I hope you make some great friends and get you BFP as quicly as possible. I lurked for a long time too before starting to post.;)

Metranil_Vavin

Afternoon all.

Only 8 days left of November :T, so hang in there everyone.

Thanks for updating the list Fannyanna x

I know how you are feeling abis. I couldn't stop myself from crying yesterday when I was talking to the reflexologist. Really not great to cry at work as you have to go back to your desk with puffy eyes, and it isn't something that people from work know about.

I honestly feel at the moment as if this is never going to work out for me, that I may well get another BFP, or 2 or 3, but I'm not going to be able to hang onto the pregnancy and I'm wasting my time (and killing myself emotionally)

Not much PMA happening today!

Btw - heard from Q, she is doing ok, still lurking and wishing us all well, and going to see her OH soon, so fingers crossed things can be resolved there.

becca0417

Mv thanks for update on qq x hope she is ok
Hugs to you, roll on a happy December

fannyanna

Metranil_Vavin wrote: »

Btw - heard from Q, she is doing ok, still lurking and wishing us all well, and going to see her OH soon, so fingers crossed things can be resolved there.

Brilliant. Thanks for the update MV.

QQ if you are lurking - I think it's safe to say that most people have a special place for you in their hearts as you've supported so many of us. I'm wishing you all the best x

fannyanna

MV - I'm sorry that you're having a hard time of it. I don't think there are any words that can offer support so please accept some virtual hugs x

lemonmelon_2

Mv I can really really empathise with that feeling. I feel it doesn't actually mean anything anymore to get pregnant and it will just end in sadness but I have decided, even if they always end in mc, even if I have to go through this hell again and again, whilst there's even the teeniest tiniest chance that we might be able to have a baby then I'll take that chance. I couldn't give up whilst there might still be a chance, however small and however much heartache ensues. Thinking of you my dear, sending big hugs