Trying for a Baby Part 8

atton83

Ladies

Today i have mostly been in tears not got any confidence in myself and i am pulling myself down by saying stuff my dad used to say to me.

On the test front to have all the different dyes it the test would be bulky and you have to make it asthetically pleasing so women will pay for it, you would also have to hike up the price so that it made a profit so that more could be made. It would have to give your answer like a litmus test different hormones could create different colours but how many hormones would you like it to know?

I did 3d design so i am asking as i know it coukd be done. The comforting words could be pre programed into the test, so you would need a cpu of sorts. The same kind you get in a computer. So again the deciding factor would be cost.

Cd1 for me today could i be reset please.

The chocolate and wine being dispensed eww but how about they put an order in to a local shop and you get it free as that could be factered into rrp so the test could cost £20 bit steep but a free drink or chocolate bar from a local shop so you could esentially sell advertising space to the highest bidder so to speak

firefly369

Can finally post pics.
This is the cross stitch I started when I first discovered how frustrating TTC was...

and this is a long time project I am trying to get finished before Xmas

I would love to be making a baby birth sampler but I am scared of jinxing it;)

atton83

Rumfeeble i feel the same as you. I have been trying for 11 yrs and i want to give up but oh says to keep trying my reply to that is why i am never going tl b a mom i need to get used to idea. Which rips me apart.

Tmi alert: wiped today and ew goo was in it. I take it that was the egg. Thats come out a lot sooner than normal? Am i clutching at straws to think we might have been close to catching?

I am to stressed to even contemplate being pregnant at the mo and i know that i shoukd get loads more confidence from the uni course but i don't get why they have faith in me!!!

Very wobbly tummy today which i don't normally get. Hope its just the stress.

Just wish i was normal on every aspect of my life

Got the doc writing 3 letters. Got some sodium chloride to stick in my ear and if it sti isnt right by friday i get syringed!!!

Smear test needs to be done in the middle of the cycle else the hormones changes the results. If i remember right. Had too many to remember as i started my periods at 7 1/2 so i need to be checked every 6 months. As im high risk due to starting so early

Can i ask when you trapped her hand how did you relax another. Sorry but i chuckled at that.

Good thing about smear tests at my docs is that they use plastic speculums instead of metal like the hospital. Where they shove it in which shocks you making hou clamp then you get shouted at to relax. Yes cause thats gonna happen

I also seemed to have put weight on this month as didnt work out for two weeks due to high temps

tinkwings

Rumfeeble - Sending Hugs

I am feeling the same way.

And one of the reasons for giving up my job was the take away one piece of stress...

I know that I am very lucky to have 2 amazing kids and that I should be grateful but just one more is all I am asking for.................


Saw my friend today who saw FS last week she has one dd and her hubby has 2 children from his 1st marraige they are having all the treatment for free ........how is this possible when they already have a child together & neither one of them has any issues???

loulou123

Hi everyone - shiny new (ish!) Thread :-)

AF due in next couple of days and I'm having all my usual pmt symptoms, so things are not looking hopeful....but fingers crossed anyway.

I've still got 'feeling' this is never gonna happen, up until last month or 2, my attitude has been when now its become "if."

And I'm putting my life on hold as far as staying in a job I hate, as don't want to find a new one and then get pregnant straight away, but don't want to postpone ttc either! Seems a lot of us are feeling this way at moment.

Anyway congrats to any bfp (as I try to not come on here during 2ww, and hugs to all those who need them xx

mrshappy

Hugs rumfeeble-how did you manage to get inside my head to write all these thoughts that I have been having?:o

tinkwings wrote: »

Saw my friend today who saw FS last week she has one dd and her hubby has 2 children from his 1st marraige they are having all the treatment for free ........how is this possible when they already have a child together & neither one of them has any issues???

That's the type of story that makes me stamp my feet in frustration tink! I'm happy for your friend as she is getting the help, but I get so cross that our issues are purely with mrh, and because I already have a child the NHS won't touch us-if he was with someone else who didn't have children they would be eligible :mad:

JoJoB

Hugs to Rumfeeble and atton, reall hope it happens for you soon.

So excited about Razz's line! Hopefully it will be a big fat one in a couple of days.

Not much to report. Waiting to ttc is frickin boring. Week till af is due but feeling very pms-y. Maybe pms has always started this early but I've only noticed recently due to charting and noticing every little sympton.

mogwai

Hi all - nothing to report as not supposed to be TTCing for a couple of months, though I know I am in 2ww!

Razwaz fingers crossed its a BFP!

TTC is rubbish, Im glad to be taking a break from it all for a couple of months and take a breather from it all - I would recommend a 1 month TTC holiday every 6 months or so!

mogwai

Aw rumfeeble just read your post. Ive only (!) been trying since feb so not ages but I know how you feel, I am getting fed up too.

Im sure it will happen though, and I dont want to spend the next however many months/years it takes being miserable about it, so I would def recommend live your life as if you are not expecting it, ie getting fitted for dresses etc..

I dont know if you have been to see FS but that might be the next step if you've been TTC for a while??

I am on TTC hol til Nov now but last couple months I have stopped taking vitamins, supplements, opking, temping etc as it just creates stress. People get pregnant ALL the time without all this extra stuff, my sis-in-law got pregnant WHILE ON BC! so when it happens I will get all excited about vitamins again, but not til then, and Im sure it won't harm the baby any..

After about 6 months I think you can say you are in it for the long haul so make the journey easier on yourself and dont sacrifice your life/sex life/happiness in the meanwhile!

onlywayisup_2

Hugs Rum. Feel free to vent. Im sure we all feel like that sometimes.

Hugs to you too atton. 7 and a half:eek:

I can see a line Raz! Digi tomorrow maybe?

Love the Christmas one Firefly. that must have taken ages.

Cd2 for me. 40days this time so 5days shorter than last month but very heavy and pain free?! Normally light and painful. What is going on!!