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Trying for a Baby Part 8

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  • niknok_2
    niknok_2 Posts: 228 Forumite
    RazWaz wrote: »
    *hugs niknok* want some of my chocolate?

    I'd love sme thanks :-(
    DFW - Feb 2016 £19k
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    Working towards my 30th and have a 3 year plan to be debt free, business built and own our house!
  • niknok_2
    niknok_2 Posts: 228 Forumite
    :-o I've just remembered!! Last night after BDing I went and wiped and there was literally 1 spot of blood. I put it down to rough and tumble.... But could this be implantation spotting??
    DFW - Feb 2016 £19k
    Mortgage Savings - £500
    Baby 2 on Board - 7 Weeks
    Working towards my 30th and have a 3 year plan to be debt free, business built and own our house!
  • Come on ladies - smile and eat chocolate and laugh as that always makes you feel better :D

    I am now on the countdown to my doctors appointment - am very nervous :( but v excited at the same time that we are going to be trying for a family!

    Am bored at work today :cool:
  • time2deal
    time2deal Posts: 2,099 Forumite
    Hugs lilymay.

    I agree with Mrs(non)J - maybe a 'natural' cycle is the way to go. Apart from the normal temping... OPK's... folic acid... etc! :)

    And fingers still crossed Razwaz and niknok, not out yet.

    I have been reading everything, but not quite in the mood to join in the chat. I am still in this month, and am right in the symptom phase - which means I have all the pregnancy symptoms to get me hopeful, but they are also AF signs.

    Rumfeeble, I totally understand where you are coming from, and feel the same. I feel like everything is on hold until I (hopefully) get pregnant, and it influences everything I do. Constantly at work I think - well, that's no problem, I probably won't be around when x,y,z happens anyway... and now I have been here a year and not looking like going anywhere soon.

    I also cancelled a Christmas holiday in March, as I suddenly realised I may not be able to fly if I got pregnant that month. I had to re-book at £1000 extra cost, and can fly of course. I also keep thinking of how I could tell people at Christmas on said holiday, but of course, I may just still be in this silly limbo.

    On another note, QQ - can you update me to 36. Another milestone that I planned to be pregnant at!

    Anyway, back to chocolate! Sometimes I wish I could convince myself to give up on TTC, and allow myself to descend into regular wine and chocolate sessions, and put on as much weight as I want!
  • time2deal
    time2deal Posts: 2,099 Forumite
    littleme82 wrote: »
    Come on ladies - smile and eat chocolate and laugh as that always makes you feel better :D

    Agreed!

    Plus I console myself with my lovely garden at the moment. We have our first rose which will hopefully bloom in a few days. Looking very beautiful. :)
  • Im so bored waiting for something to happen lol.

    i keep thinking what if i am? how would i tell OH... which then got me thinking.... how would people tell thier OH's they are pregnant?

    I think i would go out for something to eat then tell him well thats what i would LIKE to do - reality is dont know if i could wait that long, id want to tell him as soon as he came through the door lol
    xx
  • RazWaz
    RazWaz Posts: 1,070 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    I'm cheering myself up by playing my favourite game online :D there was a huge update today with lots of new things to do in it, so I'm rather happy :p
  • tea_lover
    tea_lover Posts: 8,261 Forumite
    RazWaz wrote: »
    I'm cheering myself up by playing my favourite game online :D there was a huge update today with lots of new things to do in it, so I'm rather happy :p

    I'm cheering myself up by looking at knitting patterns online.
  • Birdie85
    Birdie85 Posts: 9,330 Forumite
    Hugs for the BFNs and AF :( We're not having a good month!

    I like the PMA though, lots of nice things to cheer us up!

    I went to the doctor yesterday expecting to be referred for a scan but they won't do anything else until OH has had his test, which of course he'll be dragging his feet about. He's at the GP on Friday to get some stitches removed (got headbutted at rugby on Saturday and split his eyebrow open!) and he said he'd mention it whilst he was there, but I know already that he'll 'forget' then he'll 'not have the time' to go back. The doctor looked sympathetic when she told me that I had to send him in to see her as she knows how reluctant men can be about all of this!

    I don't think it helps that one of OH's colleagues has been moaning about his kids cramping his style, think he's starting to wonder why he wants to turn his life upside down for a baby to puke and poo all over him! :p
    Overcome the notion that you must be ordinary. It robs you of the chance to be extraordinary!
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  • QQuaver
    QQuaver Posts: 8,444 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Testing list

    Tue 7th Aug - Gemmzie
    Tue 21st Aug - niknok
    Fri 24th Aug - Coops
    Sat 25th Aug - COMP

    August graduates - Winner of July BFP predictions (7) vesper, razwaz :T

    Helenlk (30) TTC#1 since 03/12 BFP 16/08/12:j


    August BFP predictions

    Applepie - 6
    Gemmzie - 6
    Abis21 - 7
    Mogwai - 7
    Razwaz - 7
    Definately Blonde - 7
    Birdie - 8
    Good vibes - 8
    MrsJ - 8
    Maire - 8
    QQuaver - 8
    Lilymay - 9
    Time2deal - 9
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