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Trying for a Baby Part 8

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  • TeamLowe
    TeamLowe Posts: 2,406 Forumite
    ooh eck birdie, your husband could do with a swift lesson in tact, he sounds like mine!
    QQ are you late for Ov?
    think my dreams of an early (for me, cd21) were just a dream but i won't tell DH, i don't want to confuse him and get him demotivated lol

    He's still not called about the SA, lazy bones x x
    Little Lowe born January 2014 at 36+6

    Completed on house September 2013

    Got Married April 2011
  • Courgette
    Courgette Posts: 3,242 Forumite
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    I know it's a rather obvious thing to say on this thread but I really really really want there to be a little baby in my tummy and there just isn't. Sigh
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  • Courgette wrote: »
    I know it's a rather obvious thing to say on this thread but I really really really want there to be a little baby in my tummy and there just isn't. Sigh

    You're working on it though courgette x
    Metranil dreams of becoming a neon,
    You don't even take him seriously,
    How am I going to get to heaven?,
    When I'm just balanced so precariously..
  • QQuaver
    QQuaver Posts: 8,444 Forumite
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    TeamLowe wrote: »
    the important point is that for overweight women with PCOS losing weight is the best treatment. a loss of only 10% of bodyweight has been shown to have significant impact on the symptoms, including anovulation
    They say BMI of around 22 is best for conceiving, and I'm that, but I conceived at BMI20.8, so I'm trying to get to that weight:cool:
    Ugh I have what I can only describe as PMT symptoms. Feeling really snappy and horrible. Not a great sign I'm sure!
    PMT and pg symptom is exactly the same, you know that:naughty::D
  • Birdie85
    Birdie85 Posts: 9,330 Forumite
    Hugs courgette, it is an obvious thing but something we all get sad about :o

    TeamLowe, my hubby has no tact whatsoever! I mentioned having cramps on Tuesday and he said, 'Ahhh, are you bleeding again because we're barren?!' He has a bit of dodgy gallows humour about the whole thing, sometimes I go along with it but sometimes I wish he'd shut up and stop covering his feelings with jokes all the time! :p

    I'm also still waiting for him to make a doctor's appointment. Need to make an appointment for myself so I'll just see if I can get one sorted for him whilst I'm at it! ;)
    Overcome the notion that you must be ordinary. It robs you of the chance to be extraordinary!
    Goal Weight 140lb Starting Weight: 160lb Current Weight 145lb
  • TeamLowe
    TeamLowe Posts: 2,406 Forumite
    Courgette wrote: »
    I know it's a rather obvious thing to say on this thread but I really really really want there to be a little baby in my tummy and there just isn't. Sigh

    me too!
    but i'm more greedy than that, i want to be at least 16 weekish so that i can feel kicks and know my baby is ok
    gawd, i feel like i'm jinxing myself saying that, that if i say it out loud it won't happen.
    but maybe i have the opposite problem, i haven't said it out loud enough or to the right people! x x
    Little Lowe born January 2014 at 36+6

    Completed on house September 2013

    Got Married April 2011
  • QQuaver
    QQuaver Posts: 8,444 Forumite
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    Birdie85 wrote: »
    'Look! You're pregnant again!' and I just felt like crying! :(
    Doppelganger:rotfl:
    TeamLowe wrote: »
    QQ are you late for Ov?
    At CD5, not yet:p
    He's still not called about the SA, lazy bones x x
    I suppose you don't want to call on his behalf? That's what I did:D
    Courgette wrote: »
    I know it's a rather obvious thing to say on this thread but I really really really want there to be a little baby in my tummy and there just isn't. Sigh
    Me tooooooooooooo!!!
  • I'm genuinely not ss'ing on the PMT front Q.

    Just feeling crap!
    Metranil dreams of becoming a neon,
    You don't even take him seriously,
    How am I going to get to heaven?,
    When I'm just balanced so precariously..
  • Birdie85
    Birdie85 Posts: 9,330 Forumite
    Bahahaha just made OH's appointment for Tuesday, with his favourite doctor too so he can't complain! The git had better go, I'll send him with a note pinned to his jacket if I have to! ;)
    Overcome the notion that you must be ordinary. It robs you of the chance to be extraordinary!
    Goal Weight 140lb Starting Weight: 160lb Current Weight 145lb
  • mrsj28
    mrsj28 Posts: 1,287 Forumite
    Birdie85 wrote: »
    Hugs courgette, it is an obvious thing but something we all get sad about :o

    TeamLowe, my hubby has no tact whatsoever! I mentioned having cramps on Tuesday and he said, 'Ahhh, are you bleeding again because we're barren?!' He has a bit of dodgy gallows humour about the whole thing, sometimes I go along with it but sometimes I wish he'd shut up and stop covering his feelings with jokes all the time! :p

    I'm also still waiting for him to make a doctor's appointment. Need to make an appointment for myself so I'll just see if I can get one sorted for him whilst I'm at it! ;)

    Birdie I feel bad that I just laughed out loud about what your hubby said.... mainly because that's EXACTLY the kind of thing my DH says... like the time when I was moaning and saying 'WHY am I not pregnant?' and he said 'because there's a problem with your ovaries. Remember, you had that scan?'. I think sometimes you do have to laugh about it, but I also agree about not always covering up feelings with jokes..... (my DH's speciality.. he thinks comedy is the same as romance....)
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