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OH's best mate looking at photos of me on PC!!

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  • go_cat
    go_cat Posts: 2,509 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    I would be more worried about him going through my underwear drawer :eek:
  • raven83
    raven83 Posts: 3,021 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    go_cat wrote: »
    I would be more worried about him going through my underwear drawer :eek:


    That's what I was thinking, or worse!;)
    Raven. :grinheart:grinheart:grinheart


  • Errata
    Errata Posts: 38,230 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    go_cat wrote: »
    I would be more worried about him going through my underwear drawer :eek:
    And the adult toys drawer ;)
    .................:)....I'm smiling because I have no idea what's going on ...:)
  • Gloomendoom
    Gloomendoom Posts: 16,551 Forumite
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    go_cat wrote: »
    I would be more worried about him going through my underwear drawer :eek:

    Or the dirty washing basket...

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  • Jinx
    Jinx Posts: 1,766 Forumite
    Debt-free and Proud!
    I think Im old fashioned, my computer contents are private, ie photos (not dodgy lol), spreadsheets re finances, letters re debts when I was paying them off etc To login as me on my pc is the equivalent of reading my non-existent diary and I would only give a guest a guest login due to this.....
    Light Bulb Moment - 11th Nov 2004 - Debt Free Day - 25th Mar 2011 :j
  • meritaten
    meritaten Posts: 24,158 Forumite
    butterfly72 have you spoken to your OH?
  • butterfly72
    butterfly72 Posts: 1,222 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker Car Insurance Carver!
    They have only just got in so havent had the chance. OH has had such a great day at the olympics.. I dont want to spoil his day so not sure what to do. I have managed to put a password on the pc tho!! I think i might mention something to his mate... What do you think?
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  • Stephb1986_2
    Stephb1986_2 Posts: 6,279 Forumite
    If you've put a password on the computer it's pretty obvious that you know to his mate so just leave it as that but have a word with your OH.

    Steph xx
  • thommy
    thommy Posts: 581 Forumite
    i'd suggest - You're cross and angry now. you need an outlet for that but you're doing the right thing biting your lip. wait till the friend is gone and then talk to your hubby about it.
  • milliemonster
    milliemonster Posts: 3,708 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped! Chutzpah Haggler
    If you know he has done this before and it clearly upset you, why did you go out leaving him alone with your computer which was obviously switched on, not password protected and so easily able for him to possibly be tempted to do it again (which he has)?, having been bitten once in this way, if this had happened to me and it had upset me so much I would have made damned sure that he couldn't access my private files again
    Aug GC £63.23/£200, Total Savings £0
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