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Taking one step at a time-after death, before birth

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  • QQuaver
    QQuaver Posts: 8,444 Forumite
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    Massive hugs (((hugs))).
  • abis21
    abis21 Posts: 1,120 Forumite
    Awwww, Kavics. I just heard the news. So sorry for your loss.

    You are such a lovely lady. I'm sure your daughter will love to look back at the memory box you are keeping for her in years to come.

    Wish you all the luck in the world with clearing your debts and through the rest of your pregnancy etc.

    Big hugs xxxxxx
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  • claire16c
    claire16c Posts: 7,074 Forumite
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    Hi Kavics. I remember you from the TTC posts. Im ever so sorry to have to read this.

    I just wanted to say good luck with the rest of your pregnancy, and like lilmissup said above, soon you'll have a part of your OH back with you.

    You seem like a very strong and inspirational person for your daughter.
  • mrshappy
    mrshappy Posts: 982 Forumite
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    Hi Kavics,

    I also remember you from the ttc thread, so sorry for your loss. You are coming across as an amazingly strong lady and I wish you all the best with the rest of your pregnancy.

    xx
  • ikkle87
    ikkle87 Posts: 8,449 Forumite
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    I understand that you don't feel up to posting on the pregnancy thread hun, none of us can know how your feeling, just know that if you ever need a chat about anything, pregnancy related or not, there are lots of us here who are willing to listen. xx
    You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have.

    xx Mama to a gorgeous Cranio Baby xx
  • emsbet
    emsbet Posts: 5,237 Forumite
    I'm so so sorry for your loss Kavics

    xx
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  • Kitten_Pie
    Kitten_Pie Posts: 1,961 Forumite
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    Kavics,

    I have just heard the news and wanted to let you know how sorry I am and that mine and my OH's thoughts are with you and your daughter.

    If you ever do want to come back to the pregnancy thread you are always welcome but I can understand your apprehension.

    Lots of love you both.
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  • mrsj28
    mrsj28 Posts: 1,287 Forumite
    Kavics - I remember you too from the ttc thread, and am so sorry to read of your loss - thinking of you.
  • kavics17
    kavics17 Posts: 2,235 Forumite
    Thank you Ladies. I just saw that the thread was linked to the TTC thread...

    Back at work after a week off, I, for once, can't wait. Lots to do this week, will keep me busy hopefully.
  • Dinah93
    Dinah93 Posts: 11,466 Forumite
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    Hey love. You're right to say you don't have any choice but to be strong, babies have an amazing way of making you do the right thing to take care of them, when really all you want to do is fall apart. What you have had a choice in is how you've composed yourself, continued to act with dignity and personality, not lost the woman your OH loved so much along with him. You should be proud of the way you've managed and continue to strive to always do the best for your baby girl. I wish more than anything he could still be here with you, but as he can't just know your little girl will go through life with a guardian angel always walking beside her x
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