MSE Pregnancy Club 25

savageHK

Ah Littlemoog, sorry things haven't kicked off properly for you yet!
Although apparently all the labour hormones are highest at night so fingers crossed for tonight

savageHK

Aw morocha, that's terrible. Hope it all works out for you in the end xx

Rups32

morocha so sorry to hear that. have you just sat him down and explained? or does he not listen? i know men can be so stubborn. at this time it is so crucial to be looked after. try and speak to him honey. but so sorry that it happened. hope you are ok. xxx

thanks for the advise regarding the pump. xx

Bamama

I have to have bloods done this week. Will have had enough of needles, flu jab done, whooping cough Tuesday and bloods Friday!

Morocha...*hugs*

Rups32

how come you having bloods this time? i had my injections thankfully. just have that nasty bruise from this week when i gave bloods. hate needles with a passion. god knows during labour what will happen and esp if end up down the epidural route with all the stuff they strap you in? lol

DayDreamBeliever_2

*hugs* morocha, hope however things work out you're happy x

Well my bp was raised again on Thursday so I had the delight of an overnight stay at the hospital having it monitored every 4 hours & it dropped and maintained a 'normal' level so I was allowed home promising I'd do nothing but rest and having it checked daily by the community team - *touchwood* its been ok this weekend - really would like to avoid induction which seemed to be what all staff were suggesting should it rise to similar levels again!

My mum and oh have laid the flooring in bubs room so it is finally totally finished - keep going in and just looking at it lol, can't wait to have her here now!

Have ordered carpet for the landing/stairs/hall/living room so going to pay the outstanding balance for that tuesday as am staying at my parents overnight and the shop is near them - my oh is looking forward to getting back to north london and seeing his friends especially with it being his birthday on wednesday so he can go out & I'll stay in and be spoilt by mum and dad :rotfl: carpet will be fitted on Friday so need to avoid labour that day!

Hope everyone is well and you're holding your little one very soon littlemoog!

morocha

I have spoken to him, he thinks we are too different and want different things in life ? Also he thinks i am not the one for him, after all the things i went through for him and he says that.
Iam heartbroken but i know he is selfish and i will not be a doormat or beg for him to love me. I feel alone, his family thinks we should make it work and im trying to ring my mum in Argentina to tell her the news, i have kept it for a long time that things were not good.
Everytime he had a good time and things were good i thought, we have done, finally reached some point in our lives, but it was never meant to be, he suffers from depression and instead of needing me and love, he pushes me away and acts like a pig.

Rups32

oh how exciting DDB. i still go into little ones room to have a look. hopefully tomorrow i can start in there and sort out the clothes. exciting week ahead for you hey?

Rups32

oh morocha, so sorry. we feel your pain. do what makes you happy and if being around him doesnt make you happy, then you know what to do. it is easy for us to say chat to him or whatever but only you know how it is. at this time in your life, you cant get stressed over him as it is not good for you or the baby so make that tough decision and look after yourself. really feel for you hon. xxx lots of hugs. we are all here for you. xx

Bamama

They want to check my iron because I'm on tablets.

DDB unlucky about the hospital stay. How exciting with the decorating though we aren't doing any as the room is already neutral and we are currently only renting.

Morocha... as Rups said, do what makes you happy. Don't rule out that his feelings/attitude may change once baby is here.