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MSE Pregnancy Club 25
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I think what you are feeling is completely normal moneypuddle - I haven't been through it yet but a few people have said in the last few weeks they suddenly think !!!!!! have I done? Re work, I found the same, I was desperate to leave but the closer it got the more I was dreading it. Being off last week massively helped, made me realise I was ready to finish, and made me feel more organised about the baby.
StrepB - at least you know about it and there is plenty that can be done while in labour based on my limited understanding. What is the plan for that? Do you know?0 -
Norabatty thank you so much for your post, it was sooo interesting and useful. I didn't think the hospital provided maternity pads, do you think that's the same everywhere? Sorry you've had awful problems with breastfeeding- that's my main worry at the moment.
The board was so quiet at the weekend and it's busy again today yeyyy.
Moneypuddle I know what you mean- after reading Nora's post I'm freaking out a bit- this time next week I'll be a mummy and I just don't know if I'm ready- baby for us was a total surprise and unplanned.
CL you said you're 27 weeks but wish you were 37- believe me you will be before you know it- it goes soooo fast!
I think a lot of babies are going to be born this week
Happiness can be found in even the darkest of places, if one only remembers to turn on the light - Albus Dumbledore
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Baby #1 Sept 2012
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hugs moneypuddle. I am no expert either but from chatting to friends and you all here, this seems so natural. Dont be so hard on yourself. People forget that having a baby is a long process (those not having one that is) and the pressure is immense on us. I was warned about being scared towards the end as well as the MW said everyone gets scared, so try and not be scared please?
I was chatting to my friend today about not working as well and i feel i would like to work part time after bubba is born. everyone has different views and you know how your bubba was planned and wanted so dont be hard on yourself. once he/she is here, you will see.
have you got those cds you can listen to or perhaps some meditation too that will calm your nerves a bit? Youare doing the right thing by chatting to someone about it anyway. and we are always here. I am sure i will go through the same fears. i am forever scared of losing my baby.
xx Became Mrs H on the 1st of October 2011!!
Little Kung fu bubba due on the 24th of December 2012. :j
Cutie pie Andre born on the 3rd of January 2013 via C-Section. :-) :j0 -
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- Bellola - 7th September 2012 ?
- twinklie - 10th September 2012 :male:
- emsbet - 11th September 2012 :male:
- The Next Verse - 12th September 2012 ?
- MissMonkeyMoo - 12th September 2012 ?
- kittycat1977 - 16th September 2012 :male:
- MummyOfTwo - 17th September 2012
- Mishkanorman - 19th September 2012 :male:
- SamW - 21st September 2012 ?
- sexymouse - 23rd September 2012 :male:
- milliebob - 24th September 2012 :male:
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- tigerwhite - 26th September 2012 ?
- fozpot - 27th September 2012 ?
- Candycane - 29th September 2012 ?
- will-be-debt-free - 1st October 2012 ?
- ikkle87 - 3rd October 2012 :male:
- toni_ - 3rd October 2012 :female:
- moneypuddle - 4th October 2012 :male:
- Carrie80- 5th October 2012 :female:
- snowbean - 6th October 2012 ?
- KatyLiz - 5th October 2012 :female:
- Snowyz81 - 13th October 2012 ?
- bikelesschick - 19th October 2012 ?
- shery - 22nd October 2012 ?
- izzydogsam - 24th October 2012 :male:
- Taadaa - 24th October 2012 :female:
- scottishchick27 - 27th October 2012 :male:
- Twinkle - 31st October 2012 ?
- Dribblekitten 5th November 2012 ?
- punkpink - 8th November 2012 :female:
- alamaya - 8th November 2012 :male:
- Maddie - 12th November 2012 :male:
- catbag - 12th November 2012 ?? (twins)
- CherryDrop - 12th November 2012 :male:
- LittleMoog - 13th November 2012 ?
- Kimmilew - 14th November 2012 ?
- dizsiebubba - 17th November 2012 :male:
- Cake4brains - 18th November 2012 :female: :female:(twins)
- kavics17 - 23rd November 2012:female:
- savageHK - 26th November 2012 ?
- missbunbury - 26th November 2012 ?
- Sa-ra-ra-ra - 30th November 2012 :female:
- Myatt - 1st December 2012 ?
- cazza1973 - 3rd December 2012 :male:
- jonno7 - 3rd December 2012 ?
- colli - 4th December 2012 :male:
- DayDreamBeliver - 4th December 2012 :female:
- got-to-spend-it - 6th December 2012 ?
- LadyMorticia - 7th December 2012 :male:
- martafdz - 8th December 2012 :female:
- CL - 10th December 2012 ?
- mlbarrett - 10th December 2012 :male:
- Rups32 - 24th December 2012 ?
- lozzy88 - 24th December 2012 :male:
- bezzyk - 26th December 2012 :male:
- Aida - 26th December 2012 :female:
- Canucksfan - 3rd January 2013 ?
- mayforher - 4th January 2013 :male:
- maddnessandmayhem- 10th January 2013 ?
- hngrymummy - 10th January 2013 ?
- Jenjenf21 - 13th January 2013 ?
- Missus Aka- 15th January 2013 ?
- walby1993- 15th January 2013 ?
- cali77 - 19th January 2013 ?
- Elisabeth854 - 22nd January 2013 ?
- mintedby30 - 24th January 2013 ?
- Nephthys - 25th January 2013 ?
- zcrat41 - 30th January 2013 ?
- ellionic - 30th January 2013 ?
- morocha - 1st February 2013 ?
- b_girl - 11th February 2013 ?
- countrybum - 12th February 2013 ?
- tattoo - 13th February 2013 ?
- jwil - 20th February 2013 ?
- ellie1788 - 1st March 2013 ?
- Sarahs999 - 12th March 2013 ?
- MrsHaworth2b - 13th March 2013 ?
- lkmc01 - 15th March 2013 ?
- 2ba3c -17th March 2013 ?
Supplement list and dosage here
BIRTH LIST
:female: Rebekah - 16th July 2012, 2:22pm - 5lbs 13oz
:male: Elj2287 - 19th July 2012 - 7lbs 4oz
:male: silly moo - 24th July 2012 - Ben
:male: Robyn - 25th July 2012, 21:17 - Joshua
:male: AMC1979- 27th July 2012 - Luke Wynn Preston, 6lbs 5oz
:male: Chrissy1981-2nd August 2012, 2:30pm - Daniel William 9lbs 6oz
:female: jen77 - 3rd August 2012
:male: Clarissa - 3rd August 2012
:female: Gillybean - 7th August 2012, Mia Rose
:male: I Luv Freebies -8th August 2012 - Josh, 6lbs
:male: MrsExcited - 10th August 2012, 7:11pm
:male: JediQuigley - 11th August 2012, 7:07am - Niall Daniel Fox, 9lbs
:female: GemmaE - 12th August 2012, 2:33am - Megan Bette Everitt, 6lbs
:female: GRIGGSY - 17th August 2012, 2:54pm -7lb 2oz
:male: divorcingjack - 17th August 2012, 9.43pm - Rory James, 6lbs 14oz
:male: vic_rich - 20th August 2012, 4:41am - Jack William Thomas, 1.5lbs (born 10w and 6d early)
:female: Ferrety - 20th August 2012 4:19pm - Heidi - 6lb4oz
:male: little_miss_moneysaver - 22nd August 2012, 1:39am - Zachary James - 6lb1oz
:male: Kayalana - 22nd August 2012, 3:41am - Jake David - 6lb8oz
:male: Student_Mrs - 22nd August 2012, 2:35am - 8lb10oz
:male: NBirdy - 26th August - 4lb 12oz
:male: Breast Cancer Survivor - 27th August 3:55pm - Harvey Stephen John 7lb12oz
:female: Kitten_Pie - 28th August 2012 - Naomi Lily - 7lb 2oz
:male: rjh090384 - 29th August 2012, 1:08 am - 10lb 10oz
:female: beanymagoo - 31st August 2012 - Amy - 8lb 13oz
:male: Elelyn - 4th September 2012, 1:20pm - Theo Henry, 7lb 13oz
:female: emweaver - 6th September 2012, 11:07pm - Isabelle, 6lb 15oz
PROBABLY GIVEN BIRTH BUT TOO WORN OUT TO LOG ON LIST
allow 2 weeks after EDD before transferring to this list
stephimoon - 27th July 2012
the3musketeers - 3rd August 2012 :male:
Agscully-11th August 2012 ?
betty101 - 16th August 2012 ?
tashmartin - 21st August 2012 ?
jjbargaingal - 22nd August 2012 ?
happy8178 - 27th August 2012 :female:
CONTRACTION MASTER TIMER
Please post your birth stories here when you
have time/energy
Hi, I am Marta. Adding myself at number 52, EDD 8th December, baby girl, first child
Giving birth in Manchester, water birth if possible. I do not have a clue about pretty much anything related to children, babies, birth, labour and so on. This is my first and all my family had children like 30 years ago, so things have changed a lot since. To be honest, I might be the only one on this board not getting any kind of advice from family or friends, so anything you might recommend is very useful for me!!
Quit smoking *1st January 2010*
13/12/2012, baby girl!!!0 -
can anyone advise on swimming please? I know i have asked before. i want to go to my local leisure centre but they do no aqua natal classes. if i just want to swim, can i just do anything in relation to the type of swimming/strokes? I normally do breast stroke/front crawl. dont want to do something OTT!!! thanks xxBecame Mrs H on the 1st of October 2011!!
Little Kung fu bubba due on the 24th of December 2012. :j
Cutie pie Andre born on the 3rd of January 2013 via C-Section. :-) :j0 -
CL you said you're 27 weeks but wish you were 37- believe me you will be before you know it- it goes soooo fast!
With my first I wasn't so impatient, because I was busy shopping for all the stuff I needed (wanted!) and was reading up on all things baby related. With this one I have all the stuff I need and think I read everything baby related on the internet last time, so as soon as I was pregnant I just wanted the baby to be here.
I'm not one who loves being pregnant either. I just see it as a means to an end. Don't get me wrong, I'm very lucky not to have any sickness and was able to work full-time until 39 weeks last time, with a 45 minute commute each way, but I feel like I need to be careful and would love to have a night out on the town with the girls.
Also my two BFs are 41 weeks now and I'd love to be up there with them!0 -
- shell_girl - 30th August 2012 ?
- Bellola - 7th September 2012 ?
- twinklie - 10th September 2012 :male:
- emsbet - 11th September 2012 :male:
- The Next Verse - 12th September 2012 ?
- MissMonkeyMoo - 12th September 2012 ?
- kittycat1977 - 16th September 2012 :male:
- MummyOfTwo - 17th September 2012
- Mishkanorman - 19th September 2012 :male:
- SamW - 21st September 2012 ?
- sexymouse - 23rd September 2012 :male:
- milliebob - 24th September 2012 :male:
- emsaint - 24th September 2012 :male:
- tigerwhite - 26th September 2012 ?
- fozpot - 27th September 2012 ?
- Candycane - 29th September 2012 ?
- will-be-debt-free - 1st October 2012 ?
- ikkle87 - 3rd October 2012 :male:
- toni_ - 3rd October 2012 :female:
- moneypuddle - 4th October 2012 :male:
- Carrie80- 5th October 2012 :female:
- snowbean - 6th October 2012 ?
- KatyLiz - 5th October 2012 :female:
- Snowyz81 - 13th October 2012 ?
- bikelesschick - 19th October 2012 ?
- shery - 22nd October 2012 ?
- izzydogsam - 24th October 2012 :male:
- Taadaa - 24th October 2012 :female:
- scottishchick27 - 27th October 2012 :male:
- Twinkle - 31st October 2012 ?
- Dribblekitten 5th November 2012 ?
- punkpink - 8th November 2012 :female:
- alamaya - 8th November 2012 :male:
- Maddie - 12th November 2012 :male:
- catbag - 12th November 2012 ?? (twins)
- CherryDrop - 12th November 2012 :male:
- LittleMoog - 13th November 2012 ?
- Kimmilew - 14th November 2012 ?
- dizsiebubba - 17th November 2012 :male:
- Cake4brains - 18th November 2012 :female: :female:(twins)
- kavics17 - 23rd November 2012:female:
- savageHK - 26th November 2012 ?
- missbunbury - 26th November 2012 ?
- Sa-ra-ra-ra - 30th November 2012 :female:
- Myatt - 1st December 2012 ?
- cazza1973 - 3rd December 2012 :male:
- jonno7 - 3rd December 2012 ?
- colli - 4th December 2012 :male:
- DayDreamBeliver - 4th December 2012 :female:
- got-to-spend-it - 6th December 2012 ?
- LadyMorticia - 7th December 2012 :male:
- martafdz - 8th December 2012 :female:
- CL - 10th December 2012 ?
- mlbarrett - 10th December 2012 :male:
- Rups32 - 24th December 2012 ?
- lozzy88 - 24th December 2012 :male:
- bezzyk - 26th December 2012 :male:
- Aida - 26th December 2012 :female:
- Canucksfan - 3rd January 2013 ?
- mayforher - 4th January 2013 :male:
- maddnessandmayhem- 10th January 2013 ?
- hngrymummy - 10th January 2013 ?
- Jenjenf21 - 13th January 2013 ?
- Missus Aka- 15th January 2013 ?
- walby1993- 15th January 2013 ?
- Jules68 - 18th January 2013 ?
- cali77 - 19th January 2013 ?
- Elisabeth854 - 22nd January 2013 ?
- mintedby30 - 24th January 2013 ?
- Nephthys - 25th January 2013 ?
- zcrat41 - 30th January 2013 ?
- ellionic - 30th January 2013 ?
- morocha - 1st February 2013 ?
- b_girl - 11th February 2013 ?
- countrybum - 12th February 2013 ?
- tattoo - 13th February 2013 ?
- jwil - 20th February 2013 ?
- ellie1788 - 1st March 2013 ?
- Sarahs999 - 12th March 2013 ?
- MrsHaworth2b - 13th March 2013 ?
- findingmyownway - 15th March 2013 ?
- lkmc01 - 15th March 2013 ?
- 2ba3c -17th March 2013 ?
Supplement list and dosage here
BIRTH LIST
:female: Rebekah - 16th July 2012, 2:22pm - 5lbs 13oz
:male: Elj2287 - 19th July 2012 - 7lbs 4oz
:male: silly moo - 24th July 2012 - Ben
:male: Robyn - 25th July 2012, 21:17 - Joshua
:male: AMC1979- 27th July 2012 - Luke Wynn Preston, 6lbs 5oz
:male: Chrissy1981-2nd August 2012, 2:30pm - Daniel William 9lbs 6oz
:female: jen77 - 3rd August 2012
:male: Clarissa - 3rd August 2012
:female: Gillybean - 7th August 2012, Mia Rose
:male: I Luv Freebies -8th August 2012 - Josh, 6lbs
:male: MrsExcited - 10th August 2012, 7:11pm
:male: JediQuigley - 11th August 2012, 7:07am - Niall Daniel Fox, 9lbs
:female: GemmaE - 12th August 2012, 2:33am - Megan Bette Everitt, 6lbs
:female: GRIGGSY - 17th August 2012, 2:54pm -7lb 2oz
:male: divorcingjack - 17th August 2012, 9.43pm - Rory James, 6lbs 14oz
:male: vic_rich - 20th August 2012, 4:41am - Jack William Thomas, 1.5lbs (born 10w and 6d early)
:female: Ferrety - 20th August 2012 4:19pm - Heidi - 6lb4oz
:male: little_miss_moneysaver - 22nd August 2012, 1:39am - Zachary James - 6lb1oz
:male: Kayalana - 22nd August 2012, 3:41am - Jake David - 6lb8oz
:male: Student_Mrs - 22nd August 2012, 2:35am - 8lb10oz
:male: NBirdy - 26th August - 4lb 12oz
:male: Breast Cancer Survivor - 27th August 3:55pm - Harvey Stephen John 7lb12oz
:female: Kitten_Pie - 28th August 2012 - Naomi Lily - 7lb 2oz
:male: rjh090384 - 29th August 2012, 1:08 am - 10lb 10oz
:female: beanymagoo - 31st August 2012 - Amy - 8lb 13oz
:male: Elelyn - 4th September 2012, 1:20pm - Theo Henry, 7lb 13oz
:female: emweaver - 6th September 2012, 11:07pm - Isabelle, 6lb 15oz
PROBABLY GIVEN BIRTH BUT TOO WORN OUT TO LOG ON LIST
allow 2 weeks after EDD before transferring to this list
stephimoon - 27th July 2012
the3musketeers - 3rd August 2012 :male:
Agscully-11th August 2012 ?
betty101 - 16th August 2012 ?
tashmartin - 21st August 2012 ?
jjbargaingal - 22nd August 2012 ?
happy8178 - 27th August 2012 :female:
CONTRACTION MASTER TIMER
Please post your birth stories here when you
have time/energyEnjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things.I married Moon 8/4/2011, baby boy born 26/9/2012, Angel Baby Poppy born 8/11/15, Rainbow baby boy born 11/2/20170 -
Hi Marta - welcome to the thread. Sorry I redid the list, but if you quote the list, you lose the numbers if you don't remove the quote part.
Well energy levels have dipped dramatically now, as I've transferred the sheets from the spare room bed (where we "slept" last night) to our bed and put the dirty ones from our bed in the laundry basket ready for washing. I've also dusted all the furniture and the window sill in our bedroom and started to move my stuff back in from the spare room. Everything is nice and clean now, and the hoover needs emptying as it's full from my efforts, so will ask Moon to sort that out when he gets home around 5pm. Think I'm going to have to have a little nap now.
Moneypuddle your feelings are completely natural, particularly as you conceived so quickly so you didn't have time to get used to the trying part before it became a reality. The feelings will pass, and you'll start to get more excited the closer you get to the birth. I've had many tears over the losing my income and having to be completely dependent on Moon, as well as the fact that I'll be virtually a single parent for most of the time as he'll be working. It's another thing that scares me about breast feeding, that I'll then be completely responsible for all of the feeding in the house too. I'm sure that everything will become easier as time goes on though. Hugs xxEnjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things.I married Moon 8/4/2011, baby boy born 26/9/2012, Angel Baby Poppy born 8/11/15, Rainbow baby boy born 11/2/20170 -
Hi Ladies, I am going to be brave and come and join you. I am 21 weeks on Fri and all is going ok so far:)
Those who know me from other threads know that this has been a tough journey, 4 mcs of which one was at 18 weeks. Still does not seem real TBH. Just taking each day at a time. All the scans have shown that this one is doing ok, and as far as they can see has no deformities that my little boy had that miscarried at 18 weeks
I am due 18th january
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Yay! Congratulations Jules - I'm so pleased to see you on here after the tough time you've had. I'll edit the list above to add you on. Have you found out the sex of this one or are you keeping it a surprise? xxEnjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things.I married Moon 8/4/2011, baby boy born 26/9/2012, Angel Baby Poppy born 8/11/15, Rainbow baby boy born 11/2/20170
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