MSE Pregnancy Club 25

dizsiebubba

ikkle87 wrote: »

I don't want my OH to take bubs out without me lol. He says things like when you go to xxx and me and Jakey are at home.... and I'm like you mean I have to leave him home with you I want to take him with me lol.

I don't get on with the MiL AT ALL so they will be going to her house without me! x

ikkle87

dizsiebubba wrote: »

I don't get on with the MiL AT ALL so they will be going to her house without me! x

haha see that I can understand, we don't really have any family close though except my grandparents (and mother) and we would probably all go there or just me and bubs.

Not sure whether will want to visit my mum too often though as mean as that sounds, I wouldn't mind if she came up to my nans to see us though (they only live a few doors away).

Would have my auntie to visit lots and she was going to be godmum till she dropped the bombshell she was going back to Oz x

KatyLiz

I don't need to worry about a changing bag DH can use, he doesn't do nappies. In the end I made the decision not go for the college evening course because I didn't think he would manage to cope for 4 hours with a baby. He's good once they are over 1, but just doesn't like the practicalities of the baby stage.

fluffnutter

I was quite relieved to have the OH take Freddie out without me. The first week we were home he took him to Waitrose to give me a break. I had a long soak in the bath and washed my hair without having one ear listening out for screams. Bliss!

Rups32

hmm sounds nice. think iwould love to also let DH look after bubba. why not? just had one of those health and safety assessment thingies at work. everything was wrong at my desk lol

dizsiebubba

fluffnutter wrote: »

I was quite relieved to have the OH take Freddie out without me. The first week we were home he took him to Waitrose to give me a break. I had a long soak in the bath and washed my hair without having one ear listening out for screams. Bliss!

My baby is due 17/11 and on 28/12 I am taking my mum out for a matinee performance up town for her xmas present so out from about lunch til dinner time... my oh will have to deal with baby on his own then...who should be about 6 weeks old (going by edd)

fluffnutter

dizsiebubba wrote: »

My baby is due 17/11 and on 28/12 I am taking my mum out for a matinee performance up town for her xmas present so out from about lunch til dinner time... my oh will have to deal with baby on his own then...who should be about 6 weeks old (going by edd)

You'll probably be well glad of the break by then! If you're booby-feeding you'll need to do a bit of forward planning but by six weeks it will be fine to give expressed milk in a bottle. Although you might want to make sure bubs takes it first! Imagine the day your OH would have if your baby refused... Yikes!

dizsiebubba

Can you drink alcohol when breast feeding? I was really ill last xmas so am looking forward to a drink this year!

And the work xmas party...

Rups32

i thought you couldnt drink as if you bf it will pass through with milk? thats what a friend said.

yay home time. cant wait. am tired.

dizsiebubba

Rups32 wrote: »

i thought you couldnt drink as if you bf it will pass through with milk? thats what a friend said.

yay home time. cant wait. am tired.

See i heard this but wasn't sure?