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  • SamW
    SamW Posts: 347 Forumite
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    Well, talking of confusing advice how's this...

    Saw MW about 2 weeks ago now, and was told... if you have any problems or concerns or worries of anything ring maternity triage at the hospital. She then asked her colleague for the number because she didn't have it and her colleague said 'oh no I don't have that one' so then the MW said to us... Oh well, just ring any old number for the hospital, you'll get through to the right place in the end! My OH was less than impressed and came out saying 'so when you're screaming the place down and I don't know why, I'll ring the arthritis department shall I'!!!!!!!!!!!!! This is the quality of care I get!!!

    Oh, and I only know about needing to feel movement everyday from you guys. They've NEVER said anything to me about doing anything if I don't feel baby move and I'm 34 weeks now! :j

    Sam x
  • beanymagoo
    beanymagoo Posts: 210 Forumite
    If you were booked in for a c-section in 21 days time and your husband announced he had to go to London on business next week when you would be approx 15 - 18 days away from giving birth do you think it would be reasonable or unreasonable to ask why he had to go? Also bearing in mind that you would need someone to look after your 4 other children and your nearest relative was 40 mins drive away. Am I being unreasable to ask if he really has to go?????
    My opinion is neither copyrighted nor trademarked, and it's price competitive. If you like, I'll trade for one of yours.
  • jwil
    jwil Posts: 22,081 Forumite
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    Hello everyone, can I join you please?

    I've had my dating scan today and am 12+2 with an EDD of 20th February 2013. I've got to go back next week for another scan as baby wouldn't post for the nuchal testing measurements.

    It's my first and I'm terrified and clueless but it now seems real after seeing it on the scan.
    "Good financial planning is about not spending money on things that add no value to your life in order to have more money for the things that do". Eoin McGee
  • jwil
    jwil Posts: 22,081 Forumite
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    beanymagoo wrote: »
    If you were booked in for a c-section in 21 days time and your husband announced he had to go to London on business next week when you would be approx 15 - 18 days away from giving birth do you think it would be reasonable or unreasonable to ask why he had to go? Also bearing in mind that you would need someone to look after your 4 other children and your nearest relative was 40 mins drive away. Am I being unreasable to ask if he really has to go?????

    If you are unreasonable, then I would be too. IMO it's too close to the delivery date and I wouldn't be happy either. I'd be asking him to see if there was any way it could be switched.

    How far away is London from you?
    "Good financial planning is about not spending money on things that add no value to your life in order to have more money for the things that do". Eoin McGee
  • savageHK
    savageHK Posts: 1,253 Forumite
    1. stephimoon - 27th July 2012
    2. jediquigley - 30th July 2012 ?
    3. divorcingjack - 2nd August 2012 ?
    4. MrsExcited - 3rd August 2012 ?
    5. the3musketeers - 3rd August 2012 :male:
    6. GRIGGSY - 7th August 2012 :female:
    7. Agscully-11th August 2012 ?
    8. GemmaE-11th August 2012 ?
    9. rjh090384 - 15th August 2012 :male:
    10. i luv freebies - 15th August 2012 :male:
    11. betty101 - 16th August 2012 ?
    12. tashmartin - 21st August 2012 ?
    13. Student_Mrs - 22nd August 2012 :male:
    14. jjbargaingal - 22nd August 2012 ?
    15. happy8178 - 27th August 2012 :female:
    16. shell_girl - 30th August 2012 ?
    17. beanymagoo - 31st August 2012 ?
    18. ferrety- 3rd September 2012 :female:
    19. Bellola - 7th September 2012 ?
    20. Elelyn - 8th September 2012 :male:
    21. Breast Cancer Survivor - 8th September 2012 :male:
    22. twinklie - 10th September 2012 :male:
    23. emsbet - 11th September 2012 :male:
    24. The Next Verse - 12th September 2012 ?
    25. MissMonkeyMoo - 12th September 2012 ?
    26. Little miss moneysaver - 13th September 2012 :male:
    27. kittycat1977 - 16th September 2012 :male:
    28. Kitten_Pie - 16th September 2012 :female:
    29. MummyOfTwo - 17th September 2012
    30. NBirdy - 17th September 2012 :male:
    31. Mishkanorman - 19th September 2012 :male:
    32. SamW - 21st September 2012 ?
    33. sexymouse - 23rd September 2012 :male:
    34. milliebob - 24th September 2012 :male:
    35. emsaint - 24th September 2012 :male:
    36. tigerwhite - 26th September 2012 ?
    37. fozpot - 27th September 2012 ?
    38. Candycane - 29th September 2012 ?
    39. will-be-debt-free - 1st October 2012 ?
    40. ikkle87 - 3rd October 2012 :male:
    41. toni_ - 3rd October 2012 :female:
    42. moneypuddle - 4th October 2012 :male:
    43. Carrie80- 5th October 2012 :female:
    44. snowbean - 6th October 2012 ?
    45. KatyLiz - 5th October 2012 :female:
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    47. bikelesschick - 19th October 2012 ?
    48. izzydogsam - 24th October 2012 :male:
    49. Taadaa - 24th October 2012 :female:
    50. scottishchick27 - 27th October 2012 :male:
    51. Twinkle - 31st October 2012 ?
    52. vic_rich - 4th November 2012 ?
    53. Dribblekitten 5th November 2012 ?
    54. punkpink - 8th November 2012 :female:
    55. alamaya - 8th November 2012 :male:
    56. Maddie - 12th November 2012 :male:
    57. catbag - 12th November 2012 ?? (twins)
    58. CherryDrop - 12th November 2012 :male:
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    60. Kimmilew - 14th November 2012 ?
    61. dizsiebubba - 17th November 2012 :male:
    62. Cake4brains - 18th November 2012 :female: :female:(twins)
    63. kavics17 - 23rd November 2012:female:
    64. savageHK - 26th November 2012 ?
    65. missbunbury - 26th November 2012 ?
    66. Sa-ra-ra-ra - 30th November 2012 :female:
    67. Myatt - 1st December 2012 ?
    68. cazza1973 - 3rd December 2012 :male:
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    70. colli - 4th December 2012 :male:
    71. DayDreamBeliver - 4th December 2012 :female:
    72. got-to-spend-it - 6th December 2012 ?
    73. LadyMorticia - 7th December 2012 :male:
    74. CL - 10th December 2012 ?
    75. mlbarrett - 10th December 2012 :male:
    76. Rups32 - 24th December 2012 ?
    77. bezzyk - 26th December 2012 :male:
    78. Aida - 26th December 2012 :female:
    79. maddnessandmayhem- 10th January 2013 ?
    80. hngrymummy - 10th January 2013 ?
    81. Jenjenf21 - 13th January 2013 ?
    82. Missus Aka- 15th January 2013 ?
    83. walby1993- 15th January 2013 ?
    84. cali77 - 19th January 2013 ?
    85. mintedby30 - 24th January 2013 ?
    86. zcrat41 - 30th January 2013 ?
    87. morocha - 1st February 2013 ?
    88. tattoo - 13th February 2013 ?
    89. jwil - 20th February 2013 ?
    90. lkmc01 - 15th March 2013 ?
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    BIRTH LIST


    :male: rakkibeth - 12th June 2012, 07:59am - Oscar, 6lbs 9oz
    :male: whowants2brich- 14th June 2012, 22:21- Ryan Jacob 5lbs 7oz
    :male: ladylegs - 15th June 2012, 10:09am - Joel Thomas, 9lbs 1oz
    :male: MrsManda - 15th June 2012 - Alexander, 7lbs 5oz
    :female: SallyCinnamon - 16th June 2012, 12:52am - Josie, 8lb 7oz
    :male: Triangle - 16th June 2012, 5:50pm - Joseph Arthur, 7lbs 8oz
    :male: Lixi - 17th June 2012
    :male: BB1984 - 18th June 2012, 2:54am - William, 8lbs 3oz
    :male: museumworker - 18th June 2012, 2:58am - 7lbs 9oz
    :female: choclover - 19th June 2012, 21:52 - Emily, 7lbs 10oz
    :male:
    kelda_shelton - 22nd June 2012, 10:08am - 9lbs 10.5oz
    :male: MrsBryan - 25th June 2012, 2:14pm - Teddy Michael, 8lbs 14oz
    :female: SaliMali - 27th June 2022
    :male: nikkikayj - 2nd July 2012
    :male: fluffnutter - 6th July 2012, 7:58am - Freddie James, 8lbs 14oz
    :female: Rebekah - 16th July 2012! 2:22pm - 5lbs 13oz
    :male: Elj2287 - 19th July 2012 - 7lbs 4oz
    :male: silly moo - 24th July 2012 - Ben
    :male: Robyn - 25th July 2012, 21:17 - Joshua
    :male: AMC1979- 27th July 2012 - Luke Wynn Preston, 6lbs 5oz
    :male: Chrissy1981-2nd August 2012, 2:30pm - Daniel William 9lbs 6oz
    :female: jen77 - 3rd August 2012
    :male: Clarissa - 3rd August 2012
    :female: Gillybean - 7th August 2012, Mia Rose

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    Weekendpants - 14th June 2012 ?
    jordanchaos - 17th June 2012 :female:
    Cheetara - 24th June 2012 :female:


    CONTRACTION MASTER TIMER


    Please post your birth stories here when you
    have time/energy


    To join the Facebook group please PM mishkanorman, Triangle or little_miss_moneysaver with your real name

    xx
  • beanymagoo
    beanymagoo Posts: 210 Forumite
    jwil wrote: »
    If you are unreasonable, then I would be too. IMO it's too close to the delivery date and I wouldn't be happy either. I'd be asking him to see if there was any way it could be switched.

    How far away is London from you?

    London is 380 miles away from where we live. It would probably take him the best part of 7 or 8 hours (if lucky) to arrange transport and get here if something happened. Earlier this year he had to work in plymouth and we had an emergency at home. The hospital phoned him in the morning and told him he had to get home asap as our 8 year old son was critical in intensive care and he never got to the hospital until after 11 at night. Thankfully son is back to 100% health but it may explain even slightly why I am not keen on him going. :eek:
    My opinion is neither copyrighted nor trademarked, and it's price competitive. If you like, I'll trade for one of yours.
  • rjh090384
    rjh090384 Posts: 2,224 Forumite
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    My oh is meanttogo for an interview on Monday four hours away by public transport two days before due date. He has decide he not going and they are arranging to come here to interview him instead.
    love you lots like jelly tots :o
  • Kitten_Pie
    Kitten_Pie Posts: 1,961 Forumite
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    beanymagoo wrote: »
    If you were booked in for a c-section in 21 days time and your husband announced he had to go to London on business next week when you would be approx 15 - 18 days away from giving birth do you think it would be reasonable or unreasonable to ask why he had to go? Also bearing in mind that you would need someone to look after your 4 other children and your nearest relative was 40 mins drive away. Am I being unreasable to ask if he really has to go?????

    I don't think it is unreasonable. My OH works occasionally in Cardiff which isn't that far away but we have discussed it with his work that he doesn't have to go until after the baby is here and if urgent work comes up they can come to London. I wouldn't be happy him being away if it can be avoided at all.
    jwil wrote: »
    Hello everyone, can I join you please?

    I've had my dating scan today and am 12+2 with an EDD of 20th February 2013. I've got to go back next week for another scan as baby wouldn't post for the nuchal testing measurements.

    It's my first and I'm terrified and clueless but it now seems real after seeing it on the scan.

    Welcome, it is terrifying throughout but we are all here to help with the fears and to support. No question is silly or tmi so ask whatever you need to.
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  • savageHK
    savageHK Posts: 1,253 Forumite
    Hello jwil, I've added you to the list (hopefully!)
  • twinklie
    twinklie Posts: 5,176 Forumite
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    I feel lost today. I'm swollen, achey and sore...normal pregnancy aches and pains. But it's left me feeling really tired and not up to doing much. I just don't know what to do with myself. Feeling a bit grumpy. Wish this hot weather would get lost. :(
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