Jsa doubt about past job

DCFC79

BrettMorganxD wrote: »

To be fair to everyone (and this is being very effin fair) people may just be using it to vent their real life frustrations

If MB is a social worker or something in real life she would not get away with talkin to her clients like this, so maybe we on here are her targets

Maybe so but they should use another way to vent the frustration. I dont bother getting into heated arguements with fellow members.

marybelle01

BrettMorganxD wrote: »

To be fair to everyone (and this is being very effin fair) people may just be using it to vent their real life frustrations

If MB is a social worker or something in real life she would not get away with talkin to her clients like this, so maybe we on here are her targets

I did not accuse anyone of posting under a fictitious user name, as you did. I did not resort to personal slandering and name calling as dandelionclock30 did. And I have accused neither of you lying about who or what you are with no evidence, which both of you did. And in neither case for the first first time either.

I have talked to nobody "like this", whatever that means. I did not start the abuse - you did. Completely out of the blue, and with no relevance to anything, you started saying that I was someone else and a fraud. Why was that? What relevance did it have to my opinions? Am I the only person who isn't allowed to have opinions here because BrettMorgan and dandelionclock30 are in charge of the site and who is allowed to post what? Where does it say that?

I am not venting anything - I happen to believe, as I have clearly stated, that people who are dismissed through their own fault should not be claiming benefits at my expense. I am entitled to that view. Parhaps you think social workers are just for tea and sympathy. They are not. We expect people to take personal responsibility for their actions. And that includes people who get themselves dismissed through their own conduct at work.

BrettMorganxD

DCFC79 wrote: »

Maybe so but they should use another way to vent the frustration. I dont bother getting into heated arguements with fellow members.

I don't unless it is really needed no point really..

I know sometimes (and this is wrong) I may argue with my dad after a long 14 hour shift at work. Because no matter how much a resident or collegue annoys me I can't say anything back so any little snipe my dad unintentionally throws my way I will react coz ive built it up

BrettMorganxD

marybelle01 wrote: »

I did not accuse anyone of posting under a fictitious user name, as you did. I did not resort to personal slandering and name calling as dandelionclock30 did. And I have accused neither of you lying about who or what you are with no evidence, which both of you did. And in neither case for the first first time either.

I have talked to nobody "like this", whatever that means. I did not start the abuse - you did. Completely out of the blue, and with no relevance to anything, you started saying that I was someone else and a fraud. Why was that? What relevance did it have to my opinions? Am I the only person who isn't allowed to have opinions here because BrettMorgan and dandelionclock30 are in charge of the site and who is allowed to post what? Where does it say that?

I am not venting anything - I happen to believe, as I have clearly stated, that people who are dismissed through their own fault should not be claiming benefits at my expense. I am entitled to that view. Parhaps you think social workers are just for tea and sympathy. They are not. We expect people to take personal responsibility for their actions. And that includes people who get themselves dismissed through their own conduct at work.

Your meant to help the ones who are in a bad place wether or not they put themselves in said place.

I was more aiming at the fact of you saying "I heard on the grapevine you are not very clever and need advice on what to have for breakfast" I am far from being thick

Besides thick people also have things they are good at.

marybelle01

BrettMorganxD wrote: »

Your meant to help the ones who are in a bad place wether or not they put themselves in said place.

I was more aiming at the fact of you saying "I heard on the grapevine you are not very clever and need advice on what to have for breakfast" I am far from being thick

Besides thick people also have things they are good at.

Helping people is about them taking personal responsibility.

And I would point out that you were the one who started this all with "you heard on the grapevine" that I was SarEl. I was pointing out that lots of people can hear things "on the grapevine", and that was one of the things I heard. You started this with your false accusations and insults. Then you call in the nasty brigade to back you up when you get in too deep, and can't deal with what you started.

BrettMorganxD

Excuse me, apart from when we end up on the same thread me and dandi have little to no communication outside in way of pm's so I never called him in.

He obv just has my opinion

heartbreak_star

Hmm, a few questions on this post and several others.

1) Who's Miss Conduct?
2) What's an indentity?
3) Where can I find this "great vine"?
4) Why can't people learn some spelling and grammar *sigh*

Top and bottom of it is, we can't really form an opinion till we get an idea of the "personal circumstances" involved.

Even if worst comes to worst and you're sanctioned, OP, you can fight your corner and appeal provided you can back up your claim.

HBS x

BrettMorganxD

heartbreak_star wrote: »

Hmm, a few questions on this post and several others.

1) Who's Miss Conduct?
2) What's an indentity?
3) Where can I find this "great vine"?
4) Why can't people learn some spelling and grammar *sigh*

Top and bottom of it is, we can't really form an opinion till we get an idea of the "personal circumstances" involved.

Even if worst comes to worst and you're sanctioned, OP, you can fight your corner and appeal provided you can back up your claim.

HBS x

You are also paid hardship whilst appealing are you not? Also sorry I misspell things when I get worked up.

heartbreak_star

I believe so, yes - or you can apply for a crisis loan. A lot, of course, is going to depend on the "personal circumstances".

Do not type when peeved, young Grasshopper, as you may mis-spell Ha ha! It wasn't just you and admittedly it's a pet peeve of mine!

HBS x

BrettMorganxD

heartbreak_star wrote: »

I believe so, yes - or you can apply for a crisis loan. A lot, of course, is going to depend on the "personal circumstances".

Do not type when peeved, young Grasshopper, as you may mis-spell Ha ha! It wasn't just you and admittedly it's a pet peeve of mine!

HBS x

I do get wound up with SarEl/MB quite easily though, they (she) are both really nasty when they are supposed to be giving advice this is a forum you come to for help.

I think they would give hardship and crisis loans anyway. If it was 100% the persons fault, they can't leave someone with nothing at all to live on. People need to keep warm (gas n leccy) pay their rent and eat