Revenge tips /tricks

londonsurrey

heartbreak_star wrote: »

It's a reference to the film Fatal Attraction, where the jealous woman boils a bunny alive.

HBS x

Thank you.

I do not advocate violence towards the innocent, and that includes those of all species!

I_wanna_live_for_free

MeganKate wrote: »

!!!!!!??????

Hardly the crime of the century! LOL!

No but to the unsuspecting partner who loves and trusts, it is incredibly painful.

And that also impacts on future relationships.

benb76

londonsurrey wrote: »

I'm a tad confused as to why you seem to be introducing the subject of bestiality?

I think you know exactly what I meant ;-)

Anyway. I don't know if you're married, in a long term relationship or whatever, but wouldn't you prefere to know that your spouse/partner was faithful to you because he loved you and that you gave him everything that he needed, and not out of fear of barbaric punishment for cheating?!

londonsurrey

benb76 wrote: »

I think you know exactly what I meant ;-)

Anyway. I don't know if you're married, in a long term relationship or whatever, but wouldn't you prefere to know that your spouse/partner was faithful to you because he loved you and that you gave him everything that he needed, and not out of fear of barbaric punishment for cheating?!

No, actually, I didn't.

Think about it. Why does he need to be in fear? Why can't he be a man, and live up to his word, and if need be, behave like an adult in accordance with the law, and file for divorce?

Is society supposed to think "Oh diddums, the nasty paperwork was too much, wasn't it? Of course you can't man up, make a decision, tell your wife, and then wait all that long long time. After all, we can't expect little sweet you to control yourself for that long!"

Pollycat

I've just had a scan of some of your other threads and I think you're well rid of him.

BLUEBIE wrote: »

Doea anyone have any good revenge tips and tricks I can use on th ex and the other woman. Nothing too bad I'm just looking at ways to have a laugh, like booking double galzing appts etc, I might go on the insurance sites with her name and phone number so she gets loads of calls that sort of thing. Anyone got any good / funny ideas?

Thanks

xx

Don't blame the OW - he knew he was married, he knew it was wrong to have an affair.
Even if she handed it to him on a plate, he should have said 'No'.

I agree with the majority of the other posters.
Move on - even if your heart and mind aren't ready to do that right now, try to put a brave face on it so they don't have the satisfaction of knowing you are still hurting.

I know this has already been mentioned but you could get yourself into trouble if you start bombarding her with appointments & phone calls from salespeople.

newcook

It always makes me laugh that people always blame the one their partner is having an affair with – blame your partner!!
Yes, it sucks to be cheated on (been there, got the t-shirt etc) but the blame should be with the person in the relationship doing the cheating – after all, its them making the decision to cheat (and probably making up all sorts of lies in an attempt to justify it).

MeganKate

newcook wrote: »

It always makes me laugh that people always blame the one their partner is having an affair with – blame your partner!!
Yes, it sucks to be cheated on (been there, got the t-shirt etc) but the blame should be with the person in the relationship doing the cheating – after all, its them making the decision to cheat (and probably making up all sorts of lies in an attempt to justify it).

I once read a letter on a website from a woman who's husband had cheated, she talked about him like he was a poor little boy who's life had been ruined by this 'awful woman'. Apparantly her whole familes lives had been blown apart because of 'her' actions and her poor poor husband will never get over it.

Hilarious!

Pollycat

I think it makes it easier to blame the OW and believe your husband was 'led astray' by some femme fatale rather than face the reality that he more than likely chose to have sex with someone else.

mintymoneysaver

Totally agree. My husband cheated on me, it was his fault not hers. Yes, I don't think very much of her ( to say the least!)that she carried it on once she realised he was married, but she wasn't.

FatVonD

BLuebie, not only is she lumbered with a partner with a propensity to cheat (from your other thread) she also knows that you know, she has offered to let him move in, yet he's still chosen to stay in your house until the last possible moment. I doubt that makes her happy at all.

As for revenge, it's a dish best served cold and with a bit of luck by the time an opportunity presents itself you'll find you can't actually be bothered and that's the best revenge of all