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  • grannyx2
    grannyx2 Posts: 3,455 Forumite
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    Thanks Missrlr

    They are being told the money is coming from a relative so no worries there. I'm just hoping once they're only getting £1pm, they'll be more amenable to F&F pay offs.

    Sorry to hear about OHs problem.

    Now bl00dy 3gg are pratting about. As OH has failed to pay them the agreed amount this month they are going to restart the interest charges, like that's going to help. Email sent to them again, just hoping it's an auto generated letter as they haven't responded to the last email yet, although it's been forwarded to the relevant dept x
    Targets
    Trip to Australia (On hold until 2022 now) to meet new grandson born jan 21!

    Lose 84lbs. Update (minus 65lbs mostly during lockdown as of 18.05.21)

    LBM : July 11 - £56,962
    DEBT FREE 21-05-21
    MORTGAGE FREE 13-06-18

    Loving my kitty cat

    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/3958715/return-to-solvency/p1
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,599 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    Wow, great weight loss :j :j
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • grannyx2
    grannyx2 Posts: 3,455 Forumite
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    Had a bad day today because OHs been in one of those moods. Tried to stay out of his way but the inevitable 'words' happened this evening.

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    Last weekend he complained because I was away yet again with my mum, this weekend he clearly doesn't want me around. I can't win really can I. Find it stressful today on top of trying to sort out this debt hole we're in at the moment.

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    I'm ok though, I just needed to vent a bit and needed to clear my head before bed

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    Granny x


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    Targets
    Trip to Australia (On hold until 2022 now) to meet new grandson born jan 21!

    Lose 84lbs. Update (minus 65lbs mostly during lockdown as of 18.05.21)

    LBM : July 11 - £56,962
    DEBT FREE 21-05-21
    MORTGAGE FREE 13-06-18

    Loving my kitty cat

    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/3958715/return-to-solvency/p1
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,599 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    Hope today was better.
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • Dropping off some hugs. Hope today has been better Xx
    Debts @ LBM £23,729.31. Debts @ 08/04/2016 £0 :j
    Best win so far - holiday to Florida
  • grannyx2
    grannyx2 Posts: 3,455 Forumite
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    Thanks both,

    I met a friend for coffee so he could watch the rugby and have some alone time. I came home to find him sitting in complete silence, TV off, glass of water by his side.

    He's acted like a wounded animal all afternoon. I've got little patience tbh

    Granny x
    Targets
    Trip to Australia (On hold until 2022 now) to meet new grandson born jan 21!

    Lose 84lbs. Update (minus 65lbs mostly during lockdown as of 18.05.21)

    LBM : July 11 - £56,962
    DEBT FREE 21-05-21
    MORTGAGE FREE 13-06-18

    Loving my kitty cat

    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/3958715/return-to-solvency/p1
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,599 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    Am often very glad that I am on my own.
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • grannyx2
    grannyx2 Posts: 3,455 Forumite
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    We watched a film of his choosing and I really enjoyed it and said so when it finished. To which he responded 'it was OK I suppose!' :mad:

    I know he has his problems but honestly I'm so looking forward to my time without his moods next Feb, (even though I will worry about him too) :o

    I'm fairly patient most of the time, fitting my life to suit him but every now and then I could just throttle him. :cool:

    I hope you'll all still 'visit' me :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:
    Targets
    Trip to Australia (On hold until 2022 now) to meet new grandson born jan 21!

    Lose 84lbs. Update (minus 65lbs mostly during lockdown as of 18.05.21)

    LBM : July 11 - £56,962
    DEBT FREE 21-05-21
    MORTGAGE FREE 13-06-18

    Loving my kitty cat

    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/3958715/return-to-solvency/p1
  • poohbear59
    poohbear59 Posts: 4,866 Forumite
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    Have you thought of getting a big dog instead of throttling him? :D




    It must have been one of those days yesterday......

    I hope you can sort out the predators very soon and have a settled few months.
    business mortgage £0))''(+ Barclay's business kitchen loan £0=Total paid off was £96105 PPI claimed and received £13527
    'I had a black dog, his name was depression".
  • grannyx2
    grannyx2 Posts: 3,455 Forumite
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    edited 13 October 2014 at 3:44PM
    ^^ :rotfl:

    Finally had the written confirmation from Mr T that they've accepted £1pm for 6 months.

    Still to hear from 3gg, H3llifax and M&5

    OMFG OH just gets worse. He bought me a bracelet from ebay. When it arrived it was not as described. Plus ebay have removed the listing as it didn't conform with their terms. OH cannot request a refund via ebay as the item doesn't exist anymore. I tried to help him open a dispute in paypal but cannot look at his account as he's bought me something else and doesn't want me to see it. I've tried to talk him through by looking at my account but have just had my head bitten off. Apparently I wasn't helping properly, as he doesn't understand my instructions! Like that's my fault - as I made a move I told him to do the same and he just sat there looking at me. How is him not being able to navigate a website my fault? I've told him in the past he needs to be careful when buying from there as if it's for me and goes wrong I can't help.

    Sorry, I'm ranting a bit but for an intelligent person he drives me F-in potty at times

    Off out for a massage & facial plus express nails tomorrow, courtesy of work colleagues. In need of some relaxation I think.

    Granny x

    Why is my signature full of !!!!!!'s?
    Targets
    Trip to Australia (On hold until 2022 now) to meet new grandson born jan 21!

    Lose 84lbs. Update (minus 65lbs mostly during lockdown as of 18.05.21)

    LBM : July 11 - £56,962
    DEBT FREE 21-05-21
    MORTGAGE FREE 13-06-18

    Loving my kitty cat

    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/3958715/return-to-solvency/p1
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