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  • Eventually he will ask "what the f**k are you doing?"

    No...it'll be "What the f**K are you doing c$*t?"

    Sorry OP:o:D;):rotfl:
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  • Boots888 wrote: »
    I still can't understand why anyone would be attracted to such a fowl mouthed person in the first place.

    This is not just your own personnal dilemma, this is antisocial behaviour and yet another fowl mouthed youth the rest of us are going to have to contend with over the years to come.

    What on earth made you want to mate with such a person???

    Survival of the fittest??? Oh, I don't think so.

    Boots...I do think this is a little harsh. The OP knows there is a problem and thats why she's posted for advice.
    To repeat what others have said, requires education, to challenge it,
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  • CH27
    CH27 Posts: 5,531 Forumite
    Have you tried speaking to him in the way he speaks to you?
    I did this to my son & he hated it & his attitute changed pronto.
    Try to be a rainbow in someone's cloud.
  • Boots888
    Boots888 Posts: 367 Forumite
    Boots...I do think this is a little harsh. The OP knows there is a problem and thats why she's posted for advice.

    Yeah but if you read my post No 31!! you'll see I've taken a different stance, having given it some thought.

    Then I get told told "!!!!!! he's not a murderer"":T

    Hope the OP takes it on board though
  • ClareEmily
    ClareEmily Posts: 931 Forumite
    Boots888 wrote: »
    Oi! Oi! Oi! Calm down.
    Other than that, yes, you've hooked your sail to a really bad ship and will most probably end up sinking, but you knew that 6 years ago.:o

    What a lovely person you are to be sure :p
  • j.e.j.
    j.e.j. Posts: 9,672 Forumite
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    I like the idea of a swear box. Mind you, he'll be bankrupt by the end of the week, by the sounds of things :rotfl:

    Not being funny, but when a child's that young, they're not really able to question things. Mum and dad are the child's archetypal examples of what human beings should be like! Daddy saying the f-word and the c-word and telling mum to shut her head will be normal to him.

    I'm not saying hubby should speak the Queen's English, lol, but using that type of language in front of a toddler is way out of line, and I'm surprised he can't see that.
  • Wickedkitten
    Wickedkitten Posts: 1,868 Forumite
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    Boots888 wrote: »
    Oi! Oi! Oi! Calm down.

    I'm trying to help you realise he might be suffering a mental breakdown. That does NOT suggest he's going to go out killing anyone. It wouldn't be unusual for you to be the last to recognise what's going on, depression doesn't always manifest itself in someone falling down in tears all the time.

    Just trying to give an outside opinion and give you some foresight as I've some knowledge of this with hindsight.

    Other than that, yes, you've hooked your sail to a really bad ship and will most probably end up sinking, but you knew that 6 years ago.:o

    a mental breakdown because he swears? Are you serious?
    It's not easy having a good time. Even smiling makes my face ache.
  • ClareEmily
    ClareEmily Posts: 931 Forumite
    Boots888 wrote: »
    Yeah but if you read my post No 31!! you'll see I've taken a different stance, having given it some thought.

    Then I get told told "!!!!!! he's not a murderer"":T

    Hope the OP takes it on board though

    I actually said OMG not !!!!!!, I replied to your unhelpful response then thanked your other one so there.
  • tescobabe69
    tescobabe69 Posts: 7,504 Forumite
    CH27 wrote: »
    Have you tried speaking to him in the way he speaks to you?
    I did this to my son & he hated it & his attitute changed pronto.
    Dont try this.
  • ClareEmily
    ClareEmily Posts: 931 Forumite
    Thanks for all the helpful suggestions folks x
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