When I asked for luck I didn't mean the bad variety!!!

Brightspark87

lucky you are doing an amazing job. Look at what YOU thats you have achieved in the last few years, you are an inspiration and always such a happy person including when you have been through so much heart ache personally.

Perhaps ( i know this isnt easy) you need some lucky time. Youve not mentioned your sister much recently either - do you miss her? you need to take time ( not ideal with half term looming up) for yourself. This is not easy but try please? Will do you the world of good x

liltdiddylilt

I really do not need to add anything here. October got it so spot on.

Just know that everything everyone has said is so very true. We all adore you, and wish we had an ounce of the strength & compassion that you have. When you look in the mirror, you are looking at everything you have achieved over the last few years. And whilst it may not look like much to you, you are a beacon amongst many around you.

Huge hugs. xx

please-let-me-be-lucky

You all made me cry! Thank you all for being so lovely :A.

October, you've managed to make me sound half decent! Thank you for that (though it sounds like I'm reading about someone else! Someone way better than me!).

DH is sitting looking like a puppy that has been kicked. I'm not in the mood to make him feel better. That makes me sad.

I do feel better overall though. The Beavers lifted my spirits, it's hard to be miserable around a bunch of excited 6 and 7 year olds!

Thanks again everyone for being so kind Xx

Sun_Addict

I also agree with October and everyone else. You have done and are still doing an amazing job despite all that life throws at you. Your boys and hubby are very lucky to have you. There is no way you have failed at anything - and I'm not just saying that to make you feel better. Big hugs and I hope you feel more positive by tomorrow xx

please-let-me-be-lucky

Brightspark87 wrote: »

Perhaps ( i know this isnt easy) you need some lucky time. Youve not mentioned your sister much recently either - do you miss her? you need to take time ( not ideal with half term looming up) for yourself. This is not easy but try please? Will do you the world of good x

Thanks for thinking of me Sparky. My sister has got a lot on her plate with her partner being so poorly, and even though we keep in touch every day, I haven't seen her since her birthday at the end of September. They have a meeting with the transplant team in a fortnight.

I've been thinking over the last few days how nice it would be to have a girls weekend away. It's never going to happen but it's a nice thought! I have paid a deposit for a Christmas night out recently, so I shall look forward to that instead Xx

Knit_Witch

Another agreeing with October here!

satchmo1

RESPITE is what Lucky needs. Have you explored this?


Hugs


Mr L knows he lashed out unfairly, in response to seeing how much his world has shrunk and how much less he can do. He knows you have his welfare and wellbeing at heart, and he knows he needs your constant loving vigilance. Vigilance is not the same as being controlling.


Hugs x

grannyx2

Popping in to drop off this:



Granny x

*Robin*

satchmo1 wrote: »

RESPITE is what Lucky needs. Have you explored this?

Hugs

Mr L knows he lashed out unfairly, in response to seeing how much his world has shrunk and how much less he can do. He knows you have his welfare and wellbeing at heart, and he knows he needs your constant loving vigilance. Vigilance is not the same as being controlling.

Seconded.

Hope tomorrow is a good day, Lucky. :grouphug:

StressedSteph

Hi PLMBL


You know what......We always take out our frustrations on the ones that are closest. Its because we know we are loved and accepted by our closest family and can occasionally lash out when it is usually ourselves we are frustrated with.


Try not to take hubby's explosion too personally. Think you were just on the receiving end of his tiredness and irritation at not being able to be the man he used to be.


No excuse really, but you mustn't let it beat you down.


You are no less than amazing and we all love you dearly.


It sounds like you are the one that needs the weekend away, don't suppose you have a group of girlies that might want a cheap weekend somewhere?, I'm sure MIL would move in for three days to run the show.


Either way, please do something for yourself and soon. You need a recharge xxxxx