When I asked for luck I didn't mean the bad variety!!!

please-let-me-be-lucky

Cheers Robin, will do. A sense of calm about it all has settled today. Hopefully that will continue and we won't be told the benefit has been stopped!

DS1 threw up last night about 10pm . He then proceeded to sleep all night and is bright as a button today but I kept him off anyway. DS2 was awake from 2-4am saying he couldn't sleep and I was awake most of the rest of the night in pain with my back. I can't lie on my right side at all and can only manage on my back or front for a minute or two. My right hand side is more bearable but still painful. This morning the pain went round to the front and I was worried it could be something else to do with the bleeding I've been having, so I went to the Doctor's AGAIN. Felt I had to apologise for taking up their time yet again. . They did lots of tests and they think it's muscular so hopefully it will disappear soon. Not looking forward to work tonight though!

please-let-me-be-lucky

I dealt with DS1 being sick last night.
I saw to DS2 when he couldn't sleep.
I didn't sleep anyway.
I'm in a lot of pain.
I'm at work soon.

DH slept all night.
DH says he is tired and has been having a 2 hour lie down while I deal with battling kids as well as everything else.

I feel sorry for myself.
I feel a cow for feeling sorry for myself and not being more sympathetic towards DH being tired.
I want to cry.

Mara_uk7

Big Hugs to you, About time you had a girly day out/ Girly Duvet day methinks !

Stop feeling guilty, Youre entitled to emotions same as everyone else. Can you call in sick to work ? Tell DH to get up and entertain the boys, You need a rest woman. x

HeadAboveWater

If you wanna cry, then cry! I know I always feel better after I've blubbed. And if you can get a hug too, then all the better

Here's one from across the water...

debtfreewannabe321

A good cry always helps xxx I hope you're feeling a little brighter soon, big hugs hun xxxx

please-let-me-be-lucky

Thanks everyone, you are all 'geet lush!'. All hugs and kind words greatly appreciated.

I think the saying is 'be careful what you wish for'. DH has come downstairs totally panicked and confused. He couldn't even process what I was saying. I rang my MiL who also panicked and we decided it would be best if I called work to say I couldn't go. First thing my boss said when I said it was me was 'please don't say you aren't coming in!', but when I explained she was ok with it. DH visibly relaxed when I said I was staying with him but he is still panicky and feeling sick, just not as confused. I was doing lego with DS2 when he came downstairs so I asked him to do it with us, and it seems to have been a good thing to give him something to focus on. He keeps huffing and puffing though and you can see he isn't right. I've moved away from the lego to watch him and document how he is incase I need to refer to it later on.

I suddenly don't need to cry anymore, adrenaline has kicked in!

HeadAboveWater

please-let-me-be-lucky wrote: »

.....adrenaline has kicked in!

Woooooooo!! Superwoman to the rescue!!

You take care of yourself too please!!

grannyx2

Oh honey, obvious you needed the evening off but not because you have yet more worrying about OH to go but because YOU needed it

(((((Hugs)))))

Wish I could do something to ease the pressure on you

Granny x

Buffythedebtslayer

hope everything is ok mate. your last post is a bit worrying. but I have migraine so may not be reading it right


hugs XXX

*Robin*

Hope you're fast asleep in your own bed right now, Lucky, after an uneventful evening..

(((Hugs)))
Rx