Real life MMD: My ex paid for the hol, should I keep the refund? 12 April 2012 at 12:07PM edited 17 April 2012 at 3:06PM in MoneySaving polls 195 replies 34.5K views

tdawber

1. Has he asked for the money back?
2. He shouldnt have used your name and address as the lead traveller.

Simples

fvb59

Of course not!! It's not your money!

bluebird

Give the money back,its not yours and never will be.He will be waiting on the refund take it and risk a theft charge.
silly girl for even thinking to keep it!

rozeepozee

Your moral compass is seriously awry if you even have to ask this question (although I realise that's the point of the exercise )

bess1234_2

I haven't a problem with the poster- if you are asking whether you should steal, you need to go and have a really good think about who you want to be, and your answer will come.

I have a problem with this being a money saving expert.com issue! I didnt realise you had stealing as a money saving option.OOOh that gives me ideas ...

Can I be next weeks dilemma- my elderly neighbours have really nice stuff, and no dependants so its a bit wasted on them really so can I wait till they are asleep and break in? Please, I want nice things too.

purple.sarah

tdawber wrote: »

1. Has he asked for the money back?
2. He shouldnt have used your name and address as the lead traveller.

Simples

Clearly he made a mistake putting her as the lead passenger but she should give his money back, not wait for him to ask for it back because it's not her money. Simples.

lucys_mum

Absolutely no way :eek:

helsmith78

No, I think this is very clear.

Your ex paid for the holiday, it's therefore his money. It would be extremely dishonest to keep it.

chudies

what goes around, comes around
:A

money back to the chap i think

gailcarty

Sorry, but that would be sneaky and wrong! So he got carried away, that's not a crime - keeping the money would be!