New Dmp Mutal Support Thread

hunteress

hi all
i had a phonecall tonight for capital one confirming they had recieved my letter about dmp and were just waiting for info from cccs now nice guy:A . spent about 2 hours on free fivers doing clicks and sign ups to free newsletters for cash back.
should help in coming months and i had a no spend day as well:j

teecee152

well done huntress, nice to hear about it when someone has a good day.
keep it up!:j

lol
teecee xx

Ex-Spendaholic

That's excellent Hunteress. :j It's nice to speak to someone nice. Why some of them have to be so nasty is beyond me. Surely they are humanbeings underneath it all?

teecee152

Ex - not convinced about that one!!

95kelly

When i have a nice person on the phone or a letter accepting, that also makes me cry at the moment!!!
I think i am an emotional wreck!!! LOL!
Thanks for the chat everyone! x x

teecee152

I thought i was the only one who did that!
i'm so touchy at the mo i'm sure DD knows somethings wrong (she's only 8)
sometimes i just can't hold it in anymore all the worry and uncertainty really gets me down, i'm strong i know i am but sometimes i wisg i could just disappear!

Ex-Spendaholic

Kelly and Teecee I'm the same. If it wasn't for you guys on here I would have lost it big time by now as there is no-one else I can/will tell.

Bluediamond

Evening all....Hope you are okay

Kelly - Don't worry about that call..I know it is easy for me to say but A) She has no right to call you at work and the best thing to do is to say you are at work and the call is not convenient - Then terminate the call
She is paid to get results and her being harsh to people like us is all in a days work for her. Or perhaps she gets off on it ! Ha ! Ha!
C) You are strong and need to remain so...CCCS are taking you through this difficult time and we all have to repeat ourselves and say " I am sorry but CCCS/Payplan are helping me right now and this is my reference number..." If they get difficult terminate the call. If they persist in calling you, turn you mobile off or dont answer unrecognisable tel nos. Although I expect like me you rercognise the baddies every time !
D) YOU AE AMONGST FRIENDS HERE, ALL GOING THROUGH THE SAME AND ALL LEANING ON EACHOTHER FOR SUPPORT...

There, keep smiling as the stress these eejits give us is not worth worrying about. It won't be long and things will even our like they have for me..Well apart from Rip Off Merchants HSBC and We want your money Lloyds TSB

Yeah I reckon these banks pay someone to read our threads !!

Sally x

95kelly

Thanks everyone for all your help tonight, would have just sat and cried if not you guys! I hope tomorrow is a better day, just kinda dreading the phone calls now!
Any ways off to bed now, gota be up extra early for work. Talk to you all tomorow. Have a good evening!!
x x x

teecee152

EX-me neither

I found this site compltely by accident (googling "money saving tips").
It was reading everyones thoughts and advice that gave me the courage to face my demon debt and take steps to sort it. I am humbled every day by all the genuine, lovely people on this site who despite their own troubles are always there to make others feel better and offer support.
Don't know what i would do without you guys now!!

Look i'm getting soppy again, but i do mean every word
Thank you all!