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Coco114

Ah thanks everyone - it's been a busy week & I wasn't getting any notifications of replies .... So have just seen all your lovely messages Thanks.

So , looks like Ex is out of a job , along with 150 other poor people - and not been paid anything poor thing. This in turn, of course, means he can't pay me - but there is nothing I can do except do the best I can. Weirdly, I am feeling quite positive - what will be will be

Won't know what's happening until the end of next week so worrying is postponed until then ! Once we know what's going on - I will rebook my CAB appt and see what they say.

This week I will be listing on eBay like crazy and only buying what we need .... This is going to be a long month but I can do it :T

Ex house mate has told him he will cover everything this month which is a big relief to me - I don't want that worry hanging over my head as well !

Right shower and must get on - thanks again to you all.

Back later xx

Coco114

Weirdly , have just had a text from ex to say he has transferred some of my money into my account (about a third) so at least he is trying. Cant say fairer than that really

Aamberle

Morning Coco- Just catching up on your diary. Wow never a dull moment..lol. XX

asparagus1968

ooh,sorry to hear about ex OH job loss, thats awful,but so common atm.
Hope he finds something really soon.
what a worry for you too,like you say,there is not a lot you can do.
fingers crossed for the ebaying:)
good luck poppet,we are all behind you :A

Coco114

Thanks as always guys

No further forward really - another week or so before he knows what's happening ...... A waiting game !! I will stall the sec loan until I know what's what - but in the meantime , I am not worrying about it

Friday night :T Already have jim jams on and wine in the fridge I will get my act together tomorrow and do a money update ..... Oh hang on a minute - that's easy - I haven't got any :rotfl:

Gotta keep smiling xx

Coco114

Finally sat evening :j

Didn't need a massive shop today £51 (got my fuel voucher !) and will just need meat in the week. Tonight's going out has been cancelled which I am quite pleased about - going to clear up from dinner , put some washing on and get in my pjs

Need to make a new To Do list tomorrow , my brain cannot seem to cope with trying to remember 100 things so need to write it down ! Sold about £30 on eBay this week so need to list more tomorrow - need to make some extra pennies

Finally it's March !!! It's been a loooooonnnnnnnnngggggg winter ! I feel like I am gradually coming out of hibernation at long last. Have booked to have highlight & cut in two weeks. I have just enough in pay pal and for once , will spend it on myself. Haven't had hair done properly since October so it's badly needed ! Hopefully it will help me feel a bit better if I look a bit better ?

Boys have been super good this week - long may it last :T

Need more Sains* tea bags so that can be first on my to do list x

asparagus1968

Coco114 wrote: »

Finally sat evening :j

Didn't need a massive shop today £51 (got my fuel voucher !) and will just need meat in the week. Tonight's going out has been cancelled which I am quite pleased about - going to clear up from dinner , put some washing on and get in my pjs

Need to make a new To Do list tomorrow , my brain cannot seem to cope with trying to remember 100 things so need to write it down ! Sold about £30 on eBay this week so need to list more tomorrow - need to make some extra pennies

Finally it's March !!! It's been a loooooonnnnnnnnngggggg winter ! I feel like I am gradually coming out of hibernation at long last. Have booked to have highlight & cut in two weeks. I have just enough in pay pal and for once , will spend it on myself. Haven't had hair done properly since October so it's badly needed ! Hopefully it will help me feel a bit better if I look a bit better ?

Boys have been super good this week - long may it last :T

Need more Sains* tea bags so that can be first on my to do list x

the sainsbos teabags have shot up to 35p!!!

good idea making a list,i do this constantly, and i've made myself a wipe-clean menu planner (did i mention i have no life??)

enjoy your wine:beer:

Coco114

35p ?!?!?!?! Blimey - still it's my one luxury :rotfl:

Nice peaceful evening - caught up on tv rubbish and in bed by midnight , but didn't get up until 9.00 today !!!
Boys still soundo so enjoying quite cup of tea.

Have run out of moisturiser and my skin feels awful - need to find a cheap one that's good on sensitive skin - baby lotion just isn't quite enough. E45 I have in abundance but its too heavy. As I am 40 ish i need a decent one. Any suggestions ?

Forgot toothpaste & deodorant yesterday so must get that today.

Ex was here yesterday morning - I know he is worried sick & I really feel for him but , Blimey it brings me down being around someone so pessimistic ..... Just keeping my fingers crossed for him this week.

Need to get on today - being behind on housework really gets me down and goes against my nature

About 3 years ago I went onto a mild anti-depressant for 3 months. I fought it for a long time but eventually I went to the doctors - it really did help and I am wondering if I should go again ...... I know the winter hasn't helped me but I am really struggling to keep on top of life at the moment. Will give it some thought.

So on with the first load of washing and on with some music I think ! That always makes me smile - music while I work

Have a good day all x

Georges_Mum

Hi
I buy the moisturiser from AL*i and love it. Not heavy and soaks in lovely. Cant remember the price, but about £3/4 ish...:cool:

macpumpkin

Hey Coco,

I am a long time lurker coming out of lurkdom to say "Hi". I have followed your thread from the start and it is always entertaining and you are doing really well even though things have been difficult for you. Wilkinson's have a half price sale on Oil of Olay and I bought some for a fiver at the weekend.