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No idea how I got here but need to get out of this place!

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  • missrlr
    missrlr Posts: 2,192 Forumite
    Well the trip opened more questions than answered but it is clear time is of the essence.
    We are now back in the UK. Endured Black Saturday travel through France and survived. And some stunning thunderstorms of several hours duration Friday
    We have to reconsider our finance as there will be more expense coming shortly and unavoidably
    I am sad it is a nasty thing knowing someone you love has limited time. Poor DH is so upset so trying to keep him upright too.
    Back to the horror of work tomorrow oh deep joy
    Start info Dec11 :eek:
    H@lifax [STRIKE]£13813.45[/STRIKE] paid Sep14 paid 23 months early :T
    Mortgage [STRIKE]£206400[/STRIKE] :eek: £199750 Mortgage £112500
    B@rclays £[STRIKE]25000[/STRIKE] paid 4 years 5 months early. S@ntander £[STRIKE]9300[/STRIKE] paid 2 years 2 months early
    2013 8lb lost 2014 need to lose 14lb. Lost 4 so far!;)
  • missrlr
    missrlr Posts: 2,192 Forumite
    We have a lodger
    So that is a few hundred a month better off!
    Just as well the in law trip cost a whole lot more than thought ....

    Work is as dreadful as I remember

    Doglet seems ok so far but we shall see

    DH is upset and I can do nothing and say nothing to help him. I feel utterly useless
    Start info Dec11 :eek:
    H@lifax [STRIKE]£13813.45[/STRIKE] paid Sep14 paid 23 months early :T
    Mortgage [STRIKE]£206400[/STRIKE] :eek: £199750 Mortgage £112500
    B@rclays £[STRIKE]25000[/STRIKE] paid 4 years 5 months early. S@ntander £[STRIKE]9300[/STRIKE] paid 2 years 2 months early
    2013 8lb lost 2014 need to lose 14lb. Lost 4 so far!;)
  • *Robin*
    *Robin* Posts: 3,364 Forumite
    Tenth Anniversary 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker Stoptober Survivor
    edited 8 August 2013 at 2:36PM
    Hello Missrlr, :hello:

    Welcome home! :)
    missrlr wrote: »
    We have a lodger
    So that is a few hundred a month better off!

    Well done - hope you've found another Good 'Un! :)
    missrlr wrote: »
    Just as well the in law trip cost a whole lot more than thought ....

    ..They always do, one way or the other. :o
    missrlr wrote: »
    Work is as dreadful as I remember

    Oh; what a shame...
    missrlr wrote: »
    Doglet seems ok so far but we shall see

    Keeping fingers crossed for you and Doglet (CD also seems to have responded well :)).
    missrlr wrote: »
    DH is upset and I can do nothing and say nothing to help him. I feel utterly useless

    (((Hugs))). Am certain you are far from useless - your simple presence will be a comfort. :heart2:

    Has DH spoken to his Macmillan Nurse yet? Talking through his anger and grief may help, and the nurse will know of other resources in your area where you and DH can both find RL support to get through this.

    I am so, so sorry to read that you must follow the path I have trodden - wouldn't wish it even on Worst Enemy - am here in the Box for you any-time, if you need to vent or rant against cruel fate..

    Rxx
  • missrlr
    missrlr Posts: 2,192 Forumite
    Thanks Robin
    Start info Dec11 :eek:
    H@lifax [STRIKE]£13813.45[/STRIKE] paid Sep14 paid 23 months early :T
    Mortgage [STRIKE]£206400[/STRIKE] :eek: £199750 Mortgage £112500
    B@rclays £[STRIKE]25000[/STRIKE] paid 4 years 5 months early. S@ntander £[STRIKE]9300[/STRIKE] paid 2 years 2 months early
    2013 8lb lost 2014 need to lose 14lb. Lost 4 so far!;)
  • grannyx2
    grannyx2 Posts: 3,455 Forumite
    Ninth Anniversary 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    So sorry to hear of your troubles, lots of hugs, love and support winging its way to you both

    Granny x
    Targets
    Trip to Australia (On hold until 2022 now) to meet new grandson born jan 21!

    Lose 84lbs. Update (minus 65lbs mostly during lockdown as of 18.05.21)

    LBM : July 11 - £56,962
    DEBT FREE 21-05-21
    MORTGAGE FREE 13-06-18

    Loving my kitty cat

    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/3958715/return-to-solvency/p1
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