Struggling but determined... Mostly!

Wellyboots6

Thanks rising

Just got to get on with getting myself back on track now I guess

I am determined to get these debts shifted!!

Wellyboots6

And now I have a dilemma....

When I was with 'he who shall not be mentioned' I bought two festival tickets.

I now can't decide whether to go and enjoy myself as the tickets have been paid for and have now sold out, or whether to re-sell the tickets for more than I bought them for and almost clear my overdraft.

Advice please!!

rising_from_the_ashes

Probably not the answer you want to hear but if it was me - I'd sell them.

2 reasons really - 1 the thought of being able to nearly clear the OD is a fantastic one but also ..... if I'd been planning to go with someone who was shall we say no longer around / had done the dirty on me - even if I did go, I'd probably spend a lot of the time there thinking "xx should've been here", "that basterward did xx" etc and wouldn't enjoy it anyway. HTH

Wellyboots6

Thanks rising

I agree with point number 1 and I should probably focus on that as it really does make sense.

I think with point number 2 I would probably be too busy enjoying myself without him to spend long thinking about him!

Skint_yet_Again

Dont suppose you could sell one to a friend and go with them. At least then you regain some of money spent and still get to go.

I think I agree with you about enjoying it despite whats happened.... you could go with the thought that he is missing out on you (and the festival) what a fool he is to lose you !!

Wellyboots6

I decided to sell them in the end. Common sense won for once! I am making more than I bought them for so will pay off most of my overdraft.

I am then going to go to one of the smaller festivals close by which will be a lot cheaper and I can nip home for a shower! Win win situation I think!

I am also going to a dog show and camping there for the weekend with one of my friends so that should be nice.

Even if I don't go to the festival he is still missing out

Wellyboots6

Well I may end up going to the festival after all. Tried selling the tickets on ebay and the first winner had no intention of paying. Re-listed and haven't heard anything from the winner and they live abroad. This is not going to plan at all!

Skint_yet_Again

Oh dear sorry to hear that Katy! I thought you were on to a win win situation there.

Wellyboots6

The second winner has now emailed saying that they will pay me tomorrow. I am not holding my breath!

It really would be a great help if I could sell these tickets, but it isn't looking promising

Skint_yet_Again

will keep everything crossed for you about time you had something good happen for you x