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  • fluffnutter
    fluffnutter Posts: 23,179 Forumite
    Well! I saw a doctor today, not a consultant (what's the difference??)

    Doctors specialise, so you'll have surgeons, and GPs, and gynaecologists etc. In each discipline, in terms of fully qualified doctors you'll have registrars and consultants. Consultants are just the ones with the most training, typically you'll see anybody - they're all qualified. They're all called 'doctors'.

    I assume you've seen the obstetrician registrar, rather than the actual consultant (they're very busy people and typically do less clinical work anyway - lots of golf though I've heard ;)).

    Either way, it's not important. What is fantastic is that you've clearly seen someone who's got a great way of explaining things and has put your mind at rest :)
    "Growth for growth's sake is the ideology of the cancer cell" - Edward Abbey.
  • fluffnutter
    fluffnutter Posts: 23,179 Forumite
    When's your actual due date, turtlemoose? I can't see you on the list...
    "Growth for growth's sake is the ideology of the cancer cell" - Edward Abbey.
  • MrsManda
    MrsManda Posts: 4,457 Forumite
    rjh090384 wrote: »
    Question for you girls. At my 26 week midwife appt she said I was measuring 31 but only wrote 29 in my notes. I don't have another appointment until 34 weeks but I was wondering I should ask for an appointment before that as I measured myself today and at 29 I'm measuring 33 weeks. This is above the 90th centile in my notes chart. Any advice ?

    Did she write 29 cm or 29 weeks?
    You could've measured 31cm and be on the 90th percentile for 29 weeks
    Or she could've measured you as 29cm and be between the 10th & 50th percentile for 31 weeks - unlikely at 26 weeks without them deciding you needed a growth scan but who really knows how midwives' minds work :p

    The fundus height thing is very subjective and not particularly accurate so I wouldn't worry about your own measurements as it's likely you did it in a different way to your midwife.
    However if you are worried there's no harm in giving your midwife a ring and asking her, they're there to help and it's better than fretting.

    Out of curiosity (if you don't mind) how did you measure it yourself?
    Mine has always been measured while I've been lying flat on my back and there's no way I could measure from top to bottom in that position by myself.
  • rjh090384
    rjh090384 Posts: 2,224 Forumite
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    She marked 29 on my fundal height chart. My chart has a line across the bottom where it says how many weeks you are then the other axis is the measurement they take. But she told me verbally she measured 31. Either way it's still giant lol

    I did mine exactly same way as midwife. My fundal height is very obvious as baby is carrying quite low. And I did it lying down in sane position she did.
    love you lots like jelly tots :o
  • MrsBryan_2
    MrsBryan_2 Posts: 221 Forumite
    Thats great turtlemoose! Bet you wanted to hug her! Glad she reassured you.

    fluffnutter, I think turtle was 40 weeks yesterday? Sorry if I'm wrong!

    Had a busy couple of hours, OH woke up about 1pm (he's on nights) so I've hoovered the house top to bottom, cleaned the bathroom, mopped the floors and put 2 loads of washing on.

    Then my brother came round with an anniversary card for us so stayed for a bit and had a cuppa. Then we got a massive bunch of flowers delivered from my mum and dad! :D So lovely of them, they are so thoughtful. Now I'm having a 10 minute rest, OH is playing COD (loser!) before I start dinner as he is back in work for 6pm!
    Attitude is a little thing that makes a big difference :)
  • BB1984
    BB1984 Posts: 1,039 Forumite
    That's great to hear, turtle.

    Fluffnutter, we haven't found out the sex of our little one either, and I've had 6 scans now, four of which were in the last few weeks. I just tell the sonographer that we don't want to know. To be honest I can't decipher a damn thing any more, baby is so huge that it just looks like a series of big blobs, with the odd hand or foot sweeping across the screen in a rather ominous fashion...! I'm not sure I'd notice a willy or fanny amongst it all! ;)

    BB x
    :love:"Live long, laugh often, love much":love:
  • fluffnutter
    fluffnutter Posts: 23,179 Forumite
    Can I just say that I'm getting SO EXCITED ABOUT MEETING MY BABY, that I physically start vibrating :D
    "Growth for growth's sake is the ideology of the cancer cell" - Edward Abbey.
  • Triangle
    Triangle Posts: 1,044 Forumite
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    You certainly can say that Fluff! :j:j:j
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  • turtlemoose
    turtlemoose Posts: 1,704 Forumite
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    edited 31 May 2012 at 4:38PM
    Yes mrsbryan is right fluff, I was due 30th May. Not deliberately not on the list, just never got added, think my joining post got missed, it was a while ago :)

    Thanks fluff for the registrar/consultant etc explanation. What you've said makes sense then - and she looked around my age-ish (I'm 27 this year), whereas my actual consultant is a man who must be in his 50s, late 40s at a push.

    She did an internal too, which while unpleasant was not painful at all and I'm not sore now - whereas the (older) woman who did it last week felt like she shoved half her arm up there!! :eek:

    BB1984 I know what you mean about big blobs - I was so excited at getting an extra sneak preview, and I made a big deal before I was even on the table that I did not want to know the gender so tell me if they're going anywhere near etc - but it's just so BIG compared to those little fingers and toes you see on the 12 and 20 week scans. you do get to see the heart in more detail, and baby rolled over while she was zooming out so I got a good (but weird!) shot of spine/ribcage - but really I want to see the face, I mean the real face not the scan face...come on baby...get out!!

    Daddy did tell bump this morning to hurry up, it kicked him but not sure if it'll do as it's told....fingers crossed!!
  • turtlemoose
    turtlemoose Posts: 1,704 Forumite
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    oh and mrsbryan, sympathies to you, I personally am a F1 widow (the ps3 game). it's so lame.... but it does mean I get the ipad to myself so can't complain too much :)
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