We'd like to remind Forumites to please avoid political debate on the Forum... Read More »
Debate House Prices
In order to help keep the Forum a useful, safe and friendly place for our users, discussions around non MoneySaving matters are no longer permitted. This includes wider debates about general house prices, the economy and politics. As a result, we have taken the decision to keep this board permanently closed, but it remains viewable for users who may find some useful information in it. Thank you for your understanding.
📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!
Nice people thread part 5 - nicely does it
Options
Comments
-
lemonjelly wrote: »Leftfield question for the nice peeps.
This afternoon, a female friend visited, & in general chatter mentioned that they are finding it difficult to find somewhere that sells skirts. I am aware said friend has been looking to update their skirts for a little while, with little/no success. Que todays grumble session.
Is this a fashion trend? Are other ladies finding similar difficulties? Can anyone recommend suitable options?
Friend tends to favour Evans, Asda, Matalan, Bon Marche style places I believe. Not looking for flash going out stuff, just normal, affordable skirts for everyday wear, like at work etc. Full length too - they're not a fan of short or even 3/4 length AFAIK.
We're quite lucky here, we have a ladies shop that does skirts of all descriptions, unfortunately they are not a chain.
My last two skirts have come from there, one reduced down from £80 to a fiver and the other reduced from £100 to £8.We made it! All three boys have graduated, it's been hard work but it shows there is a possibility of a chance of normal (ish) life after a diagnosis (or two) of ASD. It's not been the easiest route but I am so glad I ignored everything and everyone and did my own therapies with them.
Eldests' EDS diagnosis 4.5.10, mine 13.1.11 eekk - now having fun and games as a wheelchair user.0 -
At DDs school the girls can chose skirts or trousers (unfair I think as the boys can't chose skirts). With DDs still quite young and not yet stupid and me being quite traditional I am happy for them to wear skirts but when they reach the 'hitch up skirt so hem is at belt level' age I suspect I will suddenly see the benefit of trousers.
Skirts are great for little girls at the "growing out of everything every five minutes" stage. Trousers can so easily look ridiculously too short or too long, but skirts have a much more generous margin of growing room.
I've no idea whether buying skirts has got harder recently. I bought one that I'm happy with last autumn, which was something of a relief - I usually find it very difficult to find clothes that fit properly, and since I also want them to be to my taste, that makes the whole "shopping for clothes" experience more frustrating than enjoyable.
I am going out tomorrow night to somebody's 80th birthday - it'll be a big bash with lots of people of all ages. I'll be wearing a dress that I bought for a friend's 40th birthday - said friend has recently turned 53.Do you know anyone who's bereaved? Point them to https://www.AtaLoss.org which does for bereavement support what MSE does for financial services, providing links to support organisations relevant to the circumstances of the loss & the local area. (Link permitted by forum team)
Tyre performance in the wet deteriorates rapidly below about 3mm tread - change yours when they get dangerous, not just when they are nearly illegal (1.6mm).
Oh, and wear your seatbelt. My kids are only alive because they were wearing theirs when somebody else was driving in wet weather with worn tyres.0 -
I think I just found a niche business.... I'd need a shed and 6 months' practice to get it right. I'll put that one on the backburner....
Cost of materials: £2
Time: 1 hour max
Selling price: £30-40 up to £100.
And... nobody else is doing it as a primary product. And I don't think that's because there's no market. I'd only need to do a day a week of 'work'.... learning curve is "it's a bit arty farty, so I'd need to practice with some materials and stuff..."0 -
lostinrates wrote: »Lj, depends what sort of skirt they are after. Straight skirts are about the easiest thing possible to sew.
I know I'd c0ck it up completely!0 -
PasturesNew wrote: »Except you'd need: the knowledge, the skills, the equipment.
I know I'd c0ck it up completely!
As easy a jewellery for simple skirt with a straightorward fabric. Once you get more complicated its harder...i wouldn't try sewing anything stretchy personally, or pleated:eek:. At schopol they made a point of talking about patrerns matching on seams etc, but the cheap imported clothing retailers don't worry.0 -
lostinrates wrote: »As easy a jewellery for simple skirt with a straightorward fabric. Once you get more complicated its harder...i wouldn't try sewing anything stretchy personally, or pleated:eek:. At schopol they made a point of talking about patrerns matching on seams etc, but the cheap imported clothing retailers don't worry.0
-
lemonjelly wrote: »Is this a fashion trend? Are other ladies finding similar difficulties? Can anyone recommend suitable options?
Friend tends to favour Evans, Asda, Matalan, Bon Marche style places I believe. Not looking for flash going out stuff, just normal, affordable skirts for everyday wear, like at work etc. Full length too - they're not a fan of short or even 3/4 length AFAIK.
I think there are two issues here. First, if the friend in question shops at Evans, we have to assume that they are not the smallest of women. This rules out a lot of leading fashion retailers as they only go up to a 14 or 16, often not even an 18. If she is larger than an 18 she will struggle to find very fashionable clothes in her size. This isn't a function of size, its more the way the fashion industry works. A lot of the maxi skirts on the market at the moment are through this kind of retailer.
The second issue is that a lot of the maxi-length clothes in shops are dresses, not skirts, so unless she is on the petite side she probably won't be finding skirts long enough. I'm 5'6" and like maxi length but find it hard to find the length except in dresses. My aunt who is much shorter can buy what would be a calf-length skirt on me and it's a maxi on her.
Both Marisota and Simply Be have maxi skirts on their websites, but they aren't particularly cheap. If she's no bigger than an 18 New Look have some nice maxi skirts. I quite like this one:
http://www.newlook.com/shop/womens/skirts/kushi-cotton-blue-tietodye-tiered-skirt_254728749
Alternatively, would she consider wearing maxi dresses? The choice then is huge. Tesco, Asda, Matalan and a whole host of others would have items that fit the bill.Please stay safe in the sun and learn the A-E of melanoma: A = asymmetry, B = irregular borders, C= different colours, D= diameter, larger than 6mm, E = evolving, is your mole changing? Most moles are not cancerous, any doubts, please check next time you visit your GP.
0 -
Arrggghhhh and Grrrrrr
Sorry, I had to let it out, a thread is winding me up.We made it! All three boys have graduated, it's been hard work but it shows there is a possibility of a chance of normal (ish) life after a diagnosis (or two) of ASD. It's not been the easiest route but I am so glad I ignored everything and everyone and did my own therapies with them.
Eldests' EDS diagnosis 4.5.10, mine 13.1.11 eekk - now having fun and games as a wheelchair user.0 -
Arrggghhhh and Grrrrrr
Sorry, I had to let it out, a thread is winding me up.
LOL
Which thread?“The great enemy of the truth is very often not the lie – deliberate, contrived, and dishonest – but the myth, persistent, persuasive, and unrealistic.
Belief in myths allows the comfort of opinion without the discomfort of thought.”
-- President John F. Kennedy”0 -
In the benefits section....a woman wants her husband written off permanently from working because she believes he has autism.We made it! All three boys have graduated, it's been hard work but it shows there is a possibility of a chance of normal (ish) life after a diagnosis (or two) of ASD. It's not been the easiest route but I am so glad I ignored everything and everyone and did my own therapies with them.
Eldests' EDS diagnosis 4.5.10, mine 13.1.11 eekk - now having fun and games as a wheelchair user.0
This discussion has been closed.
Confirm your email address to Create Threads and Reply

Categories
- All Categories
- 351.1K Banking & Borrowing
- 253.1K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
- 453.6K Spending & Discounts
- 244.1K Work, Benefits & Business
- 599K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
- 177K Life & Family
- 257.4K Travel & Transport
- 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
- 16.1K Discuss & Feedback
- 37.6K Read-Only Boards