MSE Newborn to 1 year Baby Club 1

Gillyx

Flower08 wrote: »

I keep having dreams that I have LO in bed with me and I roll over and squash him, I quite regularly wake with a fright checking he isnt in our bed (god knows how he would of got there because I never get him into bed with us!).

My OH is having the exact same dreams, we bring Aaron into bed to settle him after a feed in the middle of the night as it can take 30/40 minutes, but he goes straight back into his crib (when he's behaving anyway ) afterwards.

Flower08

Gillyx wrote: »

My OH is having the exact same dreams, we bring Aaron into bed to settle him after a feed in the middle of the night as it can take 30/40 minutes, but he goes straight back into his crib (when he's behaving anyway ) afterwards.

When Noah had a cold a few weeks ago we had him in bed with us because its the only way he would settle so im guessing thats why I keep thinking hes there! Its scary though I wake in such a panic really thinking i've suffocated him when hes sleeping soundly in his crib.

Kira000

Mozzy, Congrats! Sorry not been able to get on before now! Sorry you had a tough time. Your first stage sounds like mine was- fast and fierce, and all in my lower back. Owwy.

Well done for persevering with BF despite the difficulties. It is amazing how many of us have had problems with it in the early days/weeks, so please don't take it to heart or feel like a failure if it isnt smooth sailing, it isnt you! Just keep trying and try and stay calm, and remember every breast feed you manage is giving him a great start, even if you have to supplement.

And i'm not far away, so if things get really tough, and you need some support (albeit with a grizzly LO in tow!), just shout!

*Ro*

In my hosp ok for oh to stay whilst in labour in the labour suite but when Uve had him supposed to go at 9pm which he did but had bubs at 1:25pm so was lucky but we kind of were abandoned for 5 hours in the labour suite after birth think they were busy
Seems like hosps are dif dep on where u live
Jenjade hello!

*Ro*

Re the dreams have not had many (don't think I get to the dream stage often) but have had the crush him in bed one actually woke up feeling up hubby's face thinking it was baby!
One thing u do get us if go in shower constantly think I can hear LO crying even if he is asleep very weird..

mozzyc

Kira000 wrote: »

Mozzy, Congrats! Sorry not been able to get on before now! Sorry you had a tough time. Your first stage sounds like mine was- fast and fierce, and all in my lower back. Owwy.

Well done for persevering with BF despite the difficulties. It is amazing how many of us have had problems with it in the early days/weeks, so please don't take it to heart or feel like a failure if it isnt smooth sailing, it isnt you! Just keep trying and try and stay calm, and remember every breast feed you manage is giving him a great start, even if you have to supplement.

And i'm not far away, so if things get really tough, and you need some support (albeit with a grizzly LO in tow!), just shout!

Ah thanks Kira! I'm struggling a bit now with my stitches. Pain has got worse, cant really sit, and def can't go to toilet for nbr.2! So might need to make doc appointment. So very painful

*Ro*

Hugs Mozzy the v cushion and pain relief (. I had diclofenac and paracetamol on top) got me through stitches/cut but sympathies the things us women have to go through eh! Think they can prescribe ... Softeners to help with other probs. think someone mentioned plenty of water to drink and did that too as stings less when wee

Am 33 today :eek: hubby and I are going shopping and for a meal and mum is being left in charge if Scott :eek:

Gillyx

Happy birthday Ro! Hope you have a fantastic day :j


Sympathys mozzy, i remember wincing when realising I'd have to sit down, then spending 10 mins lowering/positioning myself. Hopefully you have some good pain meds, I had paracetamol only, although be aware codeine can make you constipated. It does get easier though. Hugs xx

mozzyc

*Ro* wrote: »

Hugs Mozzy the v cushion and pain relief (. I had diclofenac and paracetamol on top) got me through stitches/cut but sympathies the things us women have to go through eh! Think they can prescribe ... Softeners to help with other probs. think someone mentioned plenty of water to drink and did that too as stings less when wee

Am 33 today :eek: hubby and I are going shopping and for a meal and mum is being left in charge if Scott :eek:

Happy Birthday Ro! Woohoo! Hope you have a great day xxx

Gillyx wrote: »

Happy birthday Ro! Hope you have a fantastic day :j


Sympathys mozzy, i remember wincing when realising I'd have to sit down, then spending 10 mins lowering/positioning myself. Hopefully you have some good pain meds, I had paracetamol only, although be aware codeine can make you constipated. It does get easier though. Hugs xx

Thanks Gilly x

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happy birthday roo . x