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The Giving Up/ Cutting Down alcohol support thread - number 11

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  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    Morning :hello:

    I was AF last night! What a difference a diet makes :) My OH even joined me (he's not a big drinker - usually quiet happy with one pint). We just watched a movie (Unknown - Liam Neeson - a good saturday night film). Happy Days :)

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    Shaggyx
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
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    edited 22 January 2012 at 8:39AM
    Ha Ha :rotfl:No idea what that smiley is waving.... :D

    Miss P so glad that your Mum is feeling better and it sounds like you had a wonderful day....

    Rachel glad your Mum has perked up too....
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    edited 22 January 2012 at 8:57AM
    January :-

    happy-smiley-thumbs.gif = 7 Days AF

    smiley-happy0005.gif = 14 days AF

    cheerleader-108.gif = 21 days AF

    angel-smiley-004.gif = 28 days AF

    10.gif = 30 days AF

    :j = target achieved


    Bearacus 19/TF
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    Beckseven 12
    /17
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    Bigdrinker 18/25 happy-smiley-thumbs.gifsmiley-happy0005.gif

    Caramelcaron 11/18 happy-smiley-thumbs.gif
    Cheezypeas 16/27 happy-smiley-thumbs.gifsmiley-happy0005.gif

    Chloris
    7/22
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    Cleggie 13/TF happy-smiley-thumbs.gif
    Crazymum 21/25 happy-smiley-thumbs.gifsmiley-happy0005.gifcheerleader-108.gif
    dprovan 16/31 happy-smiley-thumbs.gifsmiley-happy0005.gif

    Evilsquid 13/20 happy-smiley-thumbs.gif

    Fakeplastictwee 7/30 happy-smiley-thumbs.gif

    Flat Eric 8/25 happy-smiley-thumbs.gif
    Gardenanna 17/TF happy-smiley-thumbs.gifsmiley-happy0005.gif

    Gien 3/23

    Idristhedragon 11/TF happy-smiley-thumbs.gif

    Jevvers
    5/21


    Legsand 9/18 happy-smiley-thumbs.gif

    Lizzyb 10/22 happy-smiley-thumbs.gif
    Mackeroo 15/16 happy-smiley-thumbs.gifsmiley-happy0005.gif

    Maman
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    Mari 12/TF happy-smiley-thumbs.gif

    May 12
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    Mrs Vimes 6/20

    Nettttie 8/23 happy-smiley-thumbs.gif
    Shaggy 15/17 happy-smiley-thumbs.gifsmiley-happy0005.gif

    Peterbunny 9/20 happy-smiley-thumbs.gif

    Pinkprincess /21
    Pricey SOS 14/25 happy-smiley-thumbs.gifsmiley-happy0005.gif

    Rachel 7
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    WBF 9/13 happy-smiley-thumbs.gif




    PLEASE PUT YOUR TARGET AFDs IN A BOLD RED FONT and good luck! (and if I've made any mistakes, don't be shy, please let me know!)

    EVERYONE WELCOME
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • Morning :)

    21 AFD please Shaggy
    (thankyou for keeping scores)

    Cleggie well done :) I think this thread is amazing - we both seem to have got there in different ways, just wanted to say :T

    Rachel (((hugs))) just keep smiling :)

    Thankyou everyone for putting up with me and helping me get this far....
  • cleggie
    cleggie Posts: 2,169 Forumite
    True crazymum, i really feel like i have achieved what i set out to; not letting alcohol affect my life and ruin my weekends :)
  • I had AF last night. It is true the difference it makes. I actually got up at 6. So far I have put on 3 washes and the dish washer. I am no way going to hit my target but will persevere. 7/20 in total so far this month. Oops.
  • cleggie wrote: »
    Morning all!
    Its 7am on a Sunday morning and i am up and awake!! The difference not drinking heavily makes is amazing!

    I was pretty irritated to wake up with something that felt like a hangover this morning :-/ Must have been the alcohol-free beer and Szechuan food. Still, this'll probably go away much quicker than a real hangover!
  • I wasn't AF last night and am really regreting it this morning:mad:. I'd been 15 days AF in a row and was feeling great - cheerful, energetic and the bells were getting fainter ad fainter. It's been a h*ll of a week though and my d-i-l is in a very bad way and taking it out on everyone close to her. She's a herion addict and heavy drinker and after she'd been very nasty again yesterday afternoon I came home and opened the wine. It helped at the time - a lot - but I feel sick and dizzy this morning and very sad that I did it:(.

    I always thought I was aiming to cut down but I'm beginning to wonder if I'm happier not drinking at all. Crazymum - you said something about being free and I like that. This morning the first thing I thought about when I woke up was drink - how much did i have, will I drink tonight etc which was how it was every day and I'm thinking now it would be good to lose those chains. The hard bit is going to be tonight - I always want to drink the next day - send me some "Don't Do It Anna" vibes - pleeese
  • bearacus
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    Gardenanna - big hugs to you (((( hugs))) and sending lots of dont do it vibes for tonight xx
    Rachel- Sorry you have such a crappy week (((hugs))) . hoping the car doesnt cost to much and so glad to hear your mum is feeling a little better :) x
    Missp- glad you mum is feeling better too :) x

    21 af please shaggy x

    Finally watched the last episode of sherlock :) with AF koppaberg last night x Dont know whats happened to my diet though - all i seem to eat is burger king and chippies at the minute :o I dont even really like them grrrrr
    And with my holiday fast approaching in 7 weeks its not doing my holiday wardrobe any good :( So aim this week is just to cook and eat healthly like i normally would and cut out the rubbish :D wish me luck x

    Happy sunday everyone
    bearacus x

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  • lizzyb1812
    lizzyb1812 Posts: 1,392 Forumite
    12 AF please Shaggy, and thanks for keeping tabs on us

    The longer I go without a drink the better I feel but there are still some problems to overcome. At the moment the biggest is that I'm bored in the evening. I have lots of things that I enjoy and that I could do, I just can't be bothered to do them :( Last night I found myself waiting to go to bed! Today I'm going to decide what my pastime will be for the evening and do it whether I feel like it or not - sometimes a kick up your own bum is the only way :D Boredom is NOT a good reason to have a drink, or ten.
    "Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass...it's about learning how to dance in the rain." ~ Vivian Greene
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