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The Giving Up/ Cutting Down alcohol support thread - number 11

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  • Lilith1980
    Lilith1980 Posts: 2,100 Forumite
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    rachelww1 wrote: »
    Been thinking a bit about what I want to do alcohol wise in February, but I'm still unsure. I'm not really missing the booze, and like other people have said, I know that some of my 'friends' are uncomfortable with me not drinking. DH is definately up for a few jars on 1st Feb and then he will slip back into daily (or near enough) drinking. I know I don't want to go back to that, but don't necessarily want to give up altogether. Not actually sure If I ever liked the taste of lager now anyway. I always had to have at least 2 pints as the 1st one usually tasted horrible. I've had other friends who've said that I've come this far, that I may as well stop altogether. I'll have a think.........I did stop for 3 years in my 20's and never had a problem with it then

    I am unsure too, also been thinking of quitting all together. Even when I think of upcoming celebrations I think "Why do I have to have alcohol, it's only because it's associated with celebrating?". I wouldn't mind having a 'mocktail' or something like that.

    I will see once we hit February. I know OH is going to have a drink but he doesn't want to get back into bad habits again.

    Another AFD so 20 for me Shaggy please and 25 in total. I am off to bed as shattered :)
  • 12 please, Shaggy, thanks

    I seem to have lost the stop button again. However, it is still early 2013, and I am determined to get back on track again.

    Have a good week everybody xx
  • mackeroo wrote: »
    Roll UP Roll UP FOR THE MON-THURS :ASchool Night Challenge (SNC):A


    Count me in, too, Mackeroo, thanks. Nowadays, I'm only rarely tempted to drink during the week, but completing this challenge will motivate me to perhaps have nothing next weekend either.
  • Chloris
    Chloris Posts: 720 Forumite
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    10 AFD, please Shaggy! x Sunday is getting easier, its Monday I have a problem with!!
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    Mornng :hello:

    I wasn't AF last night. - I had 2 glasses of red wine. Back on the wagon tonight. Put me down for 289f91584d9691a8a61b9dddb3cec1a4_normal.jpeg please mackeroo.

    happy-mopnday.jpg

    Shaggyx
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    January :-

    dance2.gif= 7 Days AF

    yay.gif= 14 days AF

    yay.gif = 21 days AF

    angel-smiley-004.gif = 28 days AF

    smiley-score010.gifyay-smiley-1.gif= 31 days AF

    woohoo-dancing-banana-smiley-emoticon.gif = target achieved



    Barny1979 20/31
    dance2.gifyay.gif

    Cazzyd 1/30

    Chloris 10/23
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    Chocolate Cupcake
    18/31
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    CuppaTea 12
    /18
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    December Baby 6/20

    Flat Eric /31

    Gien 13/20
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    Jak 20/31 dance2.gifyay.gif

    Kiittiej 12/30 dance2.gif

    Lamarsi /31

    Lilith 20/TF

    Mackeroo
    11/12
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    Maman 16/10 dance2.gifwoohoo-dancing-banana-smiley-emoticon.gifyay.gif

    Mari 12/25 dance2.gif

    Mookie Pook 7/29 dance2.gif

    Muchin /31

    Mummy2threeboys 10/31 dance2.gif

    Pinkbrick /25

    Rachel 20/31 dance2.gifyay.gif

    priceySOS
    12/25
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    Satchmo
    20/22 dance2.gifyay.gif

    Shaggy 15
    /17
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    StupotStu 7/TF dance2.gif

    Top Girl 19/31
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    Tracy
    17/31
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    Unself 5/15

    Warbonnet 19/31 dance2.gifyay.gif

    WBF 9/10 dance2.gif

    41 and I know it 15/TF dance2.gifyay.gif



    Everyone Welcome!

    Please highlight your AFDs in Red

    Don't hesitate to let me know if I've got your AFDs wrong!!!!!
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • mackeroo
    mackeroo Posts: 806 Forumite
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    Hi Everyone
    No more AF to report :o We are off on hols this week and have booked to go away for a short break tomorrow for a couple of nights but its looking unlikely at the mo due to the snow, and DH feeling poorly. Will wait to see what tmro brings. Will struggle even more this week being AF due to being on hols so will just go for 2 nights on SNC. Good luck everyone, stay safe and warm
    It’s not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts
  • mackeroo
    mackeroo Posts: 806 Forumite
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    :ASchool Night Challenge (SNC):A
    All Welcome to join


    Full Monty
    CuppaTea
    Barny1979
    Becember Baby
    Tracy_36
    RachelWW1
    Gien
    PriceySOS
    Shaggy
    2 night special
    Mackeroo
    It’s not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts
  • Lilith1980
    Lilith1980 Posts: 2,100 Forumite
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    mackeroo wrote: »
    :ASchool Night Challenge (SNC):A
    All Welcome to join


    Full Monty
    CuppaTea
    Barny1979
    Becember Baby
    Tracy_36
    RachelWW1
    Gien
    PriceySOS
    Shaggy
    2 night special
    Mackeroo

    Love the 'two night special' :)

    Can you put me down for the SNC please Mackeroo? :D
  • 41_and_i_know_it
    41_and_i_know_it Posts: 512 Forumite
    edited 21 January 2013 at 3:00PM
    Hi everyone, I am still alive and well. Too ashamed to post for a while.
    Been on anti-depressants 33 days by tonight's dose.
    Updating my progress, if you can call it that!
    17 days AF not all in row, however.
    Sun, Mon, Tues, Wed AF for last weeks SNC
    So to recap, drank bottle of Bud NYE which was last day of December, and this month drank on 3rd Jan ? what, drank 600mls 11% white gone-off wine on 17th Jan and either 800mls-1 litre of 11% gone-off white wine on 18th Jan. This is my way of coping with it, not bragging or promising anything.
    Please can I join the SNC this week and I'm going for the Full Monty.
    Thanks, mackeroo and shaggy-doo.
    Thanks everyone, I mean it.
    Dadof2 enjoyed your post and all the other new ones.
    Not got any cravings at the moment and not had a drink for 2 days hopefully 3 by end of today.

    Tesco Credit Card £250 £25 DD 0% for next 10 months.

    Barclaycard Initial £241.45 0% for next 7 mths.
    Your parents choose your beginning....
    .... you get to choose the ending.
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