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The Giving Up/ Cutting Down alcohol support thread - number 11

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  • satchmo1
    satchmo1 Posts: 3,231 Forumite
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    13/10 AF for me, but it was a lost weekend, Friday was planned, Saturday and Sunday were unplanned and regretable. Still, managed a 5k run yesterday afternoon.
    What would you get if all you got was what you were thankful for?
  • CuppaTea
    CuppaTea Posts: 1,387 Forumite
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    edited 17 December 2012 at 9:41PM
    Hi all and welcome to everyone new:j

    Big hugs and huge support to everyone who is needing it at the moment, esp pricey, maman and shaggy.

    I have had two drinking days since last posting, 3 units on one, 4 on the other. The 4 was yesterday, spread over an afternoon/evening, with water and food and in company of my mum, friend and kids(kids weren't drinking). We put up the tree and decs and had a chinese after. Nice day, difficult for me without Bill, but ok ish.

    I am finding myself feeling guilty for having a drink and totting up my units over a week. I worry now about going over 14 units, whereas before I wouldn't have attempted to count or be accountable.

    Week 1 = 0
    Week 2 = 0
    Week 3 = 7

    When I see it like this I feel proud, even if i do say it myself, a massive achievement. I would have easily had 6-8 units a day and food was something I occassionally fitted in! Speaking of which, another 1lb on this week, so i am still heading in the right direction. 6lbs in total now. Seems like I am swapping the units over for calories.

    1 for the SNC and so far i'm on 15/13, thanks.
    Live for the moment and plan for the future
  • Top_Girl
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    tracy_36 wrote: »
    Hi all

    As expected, drank god knows how many units last night as sisters hen do - BUT - I was ok today! My friend was really ill, not all drink related so had to bring her home about 1am.
    Am AF tonight, so got to 7AF, 3 more to go - best be good this week - well, till Fri!
    Works Xmas lunch on Fri, then sis wedding on Sat
    Can't wait for Jan!
    Like Top Girl, I am planning a fully AF Jan, welcome btw :)

    Tracy x

    Thank you, that's kind. I am doing the dryathlon for Cancer Research, decided last night and have 8% of my fundraising target already so... x
  • Top_Girl
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    mackeroo wrote: »
    Roll UP Roll UP .... MON-THURS School Night Challenge (SNC)

    :xmassmileThe last one before Xmas :xmassmile
    Everyone one is welcome to join and so far we have the lovely :-
    Mackeroo -3 nights





    Top Girl - 4 nights.
  • It's 10pm so I am already counting this as AF, Taking me to 5 AF so far this month!

    At 7.30pm I asked my Other Half what time it was as I was willing the night to be over so I could count it as AF! Sad state that I'm willing my night away so I don't drink!

    Hope everyone finding it easier than I currently am.

    {CuppaTea:- well done for doing so well in spite of all that has happened!}

    Stupotstu X
    Quit Smoking 12 years 2 months.
  • mookiepook wrote: »
    Felt so much better when I got up this morning after not drinking yesterday. Won't join in your challenge for now mackeroo - will just take it one day at a time. Will report back tomorrow.

    No problemo just give me a shout if you ever want to join us
    It’s not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts
  • :xmastree:School Night Challenge:xmastree:

    Full Monty


    Top Girl

    CuppaTea
    3 nights
    Mackeroo
    Gien



    It’s not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts
  • stupotstu wrote: »
    At 7.30pm I asked my Other Half what time it was as I was willing the night to be over so I could count it as AF! Sad state that I'm willing my night away so I don't drink!

    I can totally relate to this, at my most desperate, ive even headed to bed before 9pm to stop me from bustin open the vino!!

    9 AF please Shaggy
    It’s not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts
  • I am totally the same, I feel embarrassed and ashamed sometimes that I can't wait for 9pm so I can have a glass of wine.

    I do lots of housework and then I think that I deserve it
    I had to replace my car, I got a tesco interest free cc with 18 months interest free period

    £5600 with 18 months to pay it.
  • Hello all...long time no see :o. I'll be back in January to join you all. This year has been carp, so I'm hoping for a better 2013 x
    LBM Dec 10. Total unsecured debt £41176 :eek: Nov 12 Debt Free Thanks Mum x RIP x

    2013 Savings £250
    2013 OP £3500
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