The Giving Up/ Cutting Down alcohol support thread - number 11

mackeroo

:ASchool Night Challenge:A

:AFull Monty:A

Shaggy

Mackeroo

Gien ~ (how many days would you like to sign up to?)

mackeroo

Morning everyone
No more AF to report so wont achieve my target this month, but will try to rack up as many AF's days before the month is out.
Congrats to you Shaggy on achieving your target :T:T:T:T
and ((((((HUGS)))))) to you Cuppa

Any late takers for the SNC this week just let me know and i will add you to the list

unself

Morning

Mackeroo can you put me down for 3 nights school challenge please. I need to keep some cash this week, and for the run up to christmas, so an added incentive.

Hugs to you too Cuppa, I've been there. :grouphug:

mrsrainman

CuppaTea wrote: »

The man i love and created our children with doesn't want me, doesn't love me enough and this hurt is unbearable.

I'm taking each minute at a time

Oh Cuppa, I'm so sorry to hear that :grouphug:
MrsR xx

mrsrainman

Morning All!

Mackeroo, completely agree about the doubling up. It's just so irresponsible. I thought offers like that were banned/discouraged in Scotland?

Maman, your comment about jeans did make me chuckle!

Well guess what. MrR hasn't phoned the doctors to get his results. :wall: His arguement is that if there was anything to worry about they would have phoned him. So it's fair to say nothing has changed. I looked at going to a group for people who support alcoholics. Unfortunately it's only on 1 day a week and it's an evening I work.

Hope you all have a good week. This time next week we'll be on Window number 3 of our Advent calanders!!! :xmassmile

MrsR xx

maman

mrsrainman wrote: »

Oh Cuppa, I'm so sorry to hear that :grouphug:
MrsR xx

Same from me cuppa. I'm sure you have the help and support of friends and family but you can and come and vent on here if it helps at all. And then try to pamper yourself a bit. I know you've got the children to think about but you must think about your needs too, it'll make you a stronger person.

Of course MrsR, you know that MrR is being irresponsible over his test results and I'm sure he knows that too. You must feel so powerless. Sending a hug for you too.

mackeroo wrote: »

Any late takers for the SNC this week just let me know and i will add you to the list

Put me down for the full monty please mackeroo. It won't be easy but I'm going to try. High expectations??

antonic

According to my calculations its now 58 weeks AF for me.

idristhedragon

I am joining the SNC this week please. I want 3 AF days as I am drinking every day again and have put on 5.5lbs this month

satchmo1

CuppaTea wrote: »

until recently I would get texts ending in "LUL xxxxxxx" and he was still showing me an element of affection when he left the house last weekend.

...this hurt is unbearable.

I'm so sorry to hear your pain Cuppa. Be kind to yourself. xx

satchmo1

shaggydoo wrote: »

Oh dear bet that hurt your head!

Yes, and more shamefully, it meant I wasn't on top of my game at work.