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The Giving Up/ Cutting Down alcohol support thread - number 11

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  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    edited 1 July 2012 at 9:04AM
    June :-

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    Bearacus 26/TF ok.gifgold-star-smiley.gifsmiley_rockon.gif

    Cleggie /TF


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    Chocolate Cupcake
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    Furry /20

    Gardenanna 14/26 ok.gifgold-star-smiley.gif
    Gien 7/28 ok.gif

    Ladybird /20

    Mackeroo 8/16 ok.gif

    MarkMan /TF
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    Miss P /TF
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    Mummyto3boys 6/9
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    Stupot
    7/TF
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    Pricey SOS 23/25 ok.gifgold-star-smiley.gifsmiley_rockon.gif

    Tracy_36 9/20 ok.gif

    3less 2/29

    40somethingMum /6


    PLEASE PUT YOUR AFDs IN A BOLD RED FONT and good luck! (and if I've made any mistakes, don't be shy, please let me know!)

    EVERYONE WELCOME
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    JULY 2012

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    Everyone Welcome.
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    edited 1 July 2012 at 9:05AM
    July :-

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    Bearacus /TF


    CuppaTea


    Chocolate Cupcake
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    Delamo
    /27


    Gardenanna


    Gien

    hr_money /TF

    Mackeroo

    Maman /10

    MarkMan

    Mari /20

    Miss rlr /21

    Mummyto3boys /25

    OlderButNotWiser /15

    Shaggy /17


    Stupot


    Pricey SOS

    Tracy_36 /TF

    3less

    40somethingMum /31


    PLEASE PUT YOUR AFDs IN A BOLD RED FONT and good luck! (and if I've made any mistakes, don't be shy, please let me know!)

    EVERYONE WELCOME
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • mummy2threeboys
    mummy2threeboys Posts: 1,009 Forumite
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    shaggy well done on the weight loss! Do you have a weight goal in mind? Ive got half a stone left and its getting so hard, i lost 3lbs this week too, i changed to a low carb diet.i have to be careful as im still breast feeding but all that intial constant weight loss after his brth stopped at 6 months and ive lost about oohh 4lbs in 4 months lol

    1 af to repost for last night ..ive not done very well on this no booze for 3 months have i lol. but i have cut down so much and this past week or so , its not been ooh kids are in bed i need a glass of vino . im now enjoying flavoured fizzy water..a hot cup of tea, hot choc

    please could i be put down for 25 for next month thanks
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  • 40somethingmum
    40somethingmum Posts: 2,513 Forumite
    Morning everyone:wave:

    The sun is shining for once :T Long may it continue.

    Shaggydoo please can you put me down for 31 in July :eek:. Yes I'm going for it big time;)

    Have a good day everyone.

    40SMxx
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    edited 1 July 2012 at 9:06AM
    shaggy well done on the weight loss! Do you have a weight goal in mind?

    No, anything will do :D Before I lost the 3 pounds I had just touched on my heaviest weight ever :eek: It is an never-ending battle boxing.gif .

    I don't want to put on loads of weight on holiday, so I'm going to try to be very good with the eating and drinking. I just had to spend a load of money on new shorts because I couldn't get into my old ones :cool:......which is also totally annoying:(

    Anyways, I shouldn't be too negative 'cos at least I have managed to lose some weight so I know I can do it...I need to stay away from alcohol (and chocolate and carbs!) - too many calories.

    Shaggyx
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • bigdrinker
    bigdrinker Posts: 27 Forumite
    I'm afraid I've had to come back here with my tail between my legs - some people may just about remember that I started posting in here around the beginning of the year, and I even managed to take all of January off drinking!

    I hoped I could just go away and become a 'normal' drinker, but if anything I've got a lot worse over the last few months :(

    Therefore I'd like to rejoin this thread, and hopefully stick with it as long as it takes me to become one of these fabled 'normal' drinkers! I find it difficult to talk about this, and I haven't really talked about it in detail with anyone in real life, except some jokey comments about never drinking again after a big night out.

    Anyway for the time being I'm going to try and set a realistic target of 20 AFDs for July please shaggy. Fingers crossed I can do it this time - the fridge is full of fruit juice instead of beer and wine so I hope so!
  • heath480
    heath480 Posts: 341 Forumite
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    Happy July everyone.Good luck to everyone,

    twenty questions.



    1. Do you lose time from work due to your drinking?
    2. Is drinking making your home life unhappy?
    3. Do you drink because you are shy with other people?
    4. Is drinking affecting your reputation?
    5. Have you ever felt remorse after drinking?
    6. Have you gotten into financial difficulties as a result of your drinking?
    7. Do you turn to lower companions and an inferior environment when drinking?
    8. Does your drinking make you careless of your family's welfare?
    9. Has your ambition decreased since drinking?
    10. Do you crave a drink at a definite time daily?
    11. Do you want a drink the next morning?
    12. Does drinking cause you to have difficulty in sleeping?
    13. Has your efficiency decreased since drinking?
    14. Is drinking jeopardizing your job or business?
    15. Do you drink to escape from worries or troubles?
    16. Do you drink alone?
    17. Have you ever had a complete loss of memory as a result of your drinking?
    18. Has your physician ever treated you for drinking?
    19. Do you drink to build up your self-confidence?
    20. Have you ever been in a hospital or institution on account of drinking?

    If you have answered YES to any one of the questions, there is a definite warning that you may be an alcoholic.

    If you have answered YES to any two, the chances are that you are an alcoholic.

    If you have answered YES to three or more, you are definitely an alcoholic.
    Sobriety delivers everything Alcohol promised.


    Alcohol free since May 23rd 2003.:D
  • mackeroo
    mackeroo Posts: 806 Forumite
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    Morning everyone
    Shaggy can you put me down for 16 AF for July please only managed 12 AF in June which im disappointed with but its a brand spanking new month and i plan to make more effort this month.
    Nice to hear from you Bearacus, sorry to hear life pretty rubbish for you at the mo sending you hugs ((( )))

    Shaggy well done on weight loss, its so easy to put weight on but a real challenge to get it off. After being all inclusive on hols in May we have decided that its not for us when we holiday just the 2 of us. Me and DH felt we ate and drank too much, just because its there and as a result oveindulged on both fronts frequently. So have booked another wee trip away later in the year, B&B this time.
    Maman ~ what a great achievement for you,:T at times i think 'im normal' then i blow it big time, which is a reminded of how much i need this board for the ongoing support.

    Ive got fresh bread baking in the oven at the mo, the smell is wafting around the house and making me drool! have a lovely Sunday everyone and good luck for the week ahead.x
    It’s not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts
  • PriceySOS
    PriceySOS Posts: 855 Forumite
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    Total of 24 for June, and target of 21 for July, please, Shaggy, thanks[/B

    Happy Sunday, everybody
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