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The Giving Up/ Cutting Down alcohol support thread - number 11

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  • evilsquid1603
    evilsquid1603 Posts: 1,399 Forumite
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    one more for me please :)

    landlord has just sent us 6 bottles of red wine to say thank you for being good tenants. good job i HATE red wine :rotfl:

    going to make a few boozy stews with it i think or give it away as bday presents.
  • bsg
    bsg Posts: 21 Forumite
    It's been a long time coming for me, but I am currently 24hrs AF after an 8 year continued abuse. I have nobody to blame except myself, and nobody to answer to either...


    The circumstances that lead to the initial problem
    are now no longer of consequence, and I have managed a month or so total sobriety in the past, but always found myself falling into the 'social drinker' trap.

    Spiralling health conditions (unrelated to substance abuse) have made me want to fight it harder this time - but one day at a time as the saying goes...
  • missrlr
    missrlr Posts: 2,192 Forumite
    Hello, AF Thursday and also Sunday last week. Can't remember the last time I notified about this - AF all last week but Monday so not perfect but acceptable

    Could all go wrong tonight as friend unexpectedly staying with us.
    Start info Dec11 :eek:
    H@lifax [STRIKE]£13813.45[/STRIKE] paid Sep14 paid 23 months early :T
    Mortgage [STRIKE]£206400[/STRIKE] :eek: £199750 Mortgage £112500
    B@rclays £[STRIKE]25000[/STRIKE] paid 4 years 5 months early. S@ntander £[STRIKE]9300[/STRIKE] paid 2 years 2 months early
    2013 8lb lost 2014 need to lose 14lb. Lost 4 so far!;)
  • maman
    maman Posts: 29,862 Forumite
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    bearacus wrote: »

    SNC will run this week so anyone who wants to join let me know x
    bearacus x

    Just 2 for the SNC this week please Bearacus.
  • bearacus
    bearacus Posts: 824 Forumite
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    edited 26 March 2012 at 7:26PM
    Roll UP Roll UP .... MON-THURS School Night Challenge

    Everyone one is welcome to join and so far we have the lovely :-



    Bearacus
    Maman (2)
    Missrlr (3)



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  • missrlr
    missrlr Posts: 2,192 Forumite
    SNC for me please I will do 3 nights (not sure I will manage tonight and also Friday may be dodgy so hedging my bets)
    Start info Dec11 :eek:
    H@lifax [STRIKE]£13813.45[/STRIKE] paid Sep14 paid 23 months early :T
    Mortgage [STRIKE]£206400[/STRIKE] :eek: £199750 Mortgage £112500
    B@rclays £[STRIKE]25000[/STRIKE] paid 4 years 5 months early. S@ntander £[STRIKE]9300[/STRIKE] paid 2 years 2 months early
    2013 8lb lost 2014 need to lose 14lb. Lost 4 so far!;)
  • tracy_36
    tracy_36 Posts: 312 Forumite
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    falko89 wrote: »
    Hey guys, wonder if I could jump aboard this thread? I am not a big drinker usually a 6 pack on a Saturday night but it worries me in that I am finding it very hard to give it up, I've been doing this for years, I am addicted I guess.

    Agree with maman here, def sounds like a habit - hope you get the inspiration to break it from the peeps on here :)
    bsg wrote: »
    It's been a long time coming for me, but I am currently 24hrs AF after an 8 year continued abuse. I have nobody to blame except myself, and nobody to answer to either...


    The circumstances that lead to the initial problem
    are now no longer of consequence, and I have managed a month or so total sobriety in the past, but always found myself falling into the 'social drinker' trap.

    Spiralling health conditions (unrelated to substance abuse) have made me want to fight it harder this time - but one day at a time as the saying goes...

    Congrats on the 24 hours, can I jump in with my usual reply to newbies (considering I am still one!) - Buy the Allen Carr book, it is so worth the £8 or whatever it was. I have now not had a drink for 35 days, previously unheard of(apart from pregnancies)

    Wishing you all the luck in the world x

    26 AF please Shaggy

    I did go to the beer garden with the kids yesterday evening, had a boring lime and soda :j Need to find a new drink, fizz keeps me awake :(
  • mackeroo
    mackeroo Posts: 806 Forumite
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    Hi Everyone
    17 AF please Shaggy
    For the first time in a long time i dont have any plans this weekend so i plan to have a good run of being AF. I only have 4 pounds to get to target. I lose the weight at the start of the week :Aand then at the weekend, when the wine comes out so does the munchies and bang goes my willpower :o
    Going to up up my exercise for the next few weeks too, see if that helps.
    A big welcome to the newbies, hope you stick around, there is loads of support here by the bucketful
    It’s not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts
  • beckseven
    beckseven Posts: 877 Forumite
    14afds for me please shaggy.
    HSBC Visa-High interest-£2349.23 Nat West £2605.18
    My Overdraft-£1500
    Barclaycard-1089.77
    Marks and Spencer card- 3331.30 next 92.67
    Total was 11066.29 now £10,968.15
  • maman
    maman Posts: 29,862 Forumite
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    Good to see so many successes on the thread:T and :Tto everyone who's resisted the pull of the beer garden (unless you stuck to lime and soda;)).

    11AF for me and 1 for the SNC please.
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