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The Giving Up/ Cutting Down alcohol support thread - number 11

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  • missrlr
    missrlr Posts: 2,192 Forumite
    Morning, another AF night for me last night. Can someone tell me how many that is now please? I can't count - well I can but I make a different number every time. It's a recurrent theme this week

    Planning my day of pampering for next week (it's a celebration day and I don't work on celebration days) as MSE as possible, but combining this with the need for haircut and so on.
    Start info Dec11 :eek:
    H@lifax [STRIKE]£13813.45[/STRIKE] paid Sep14 paid 23 months early :T
    Mortgage [STRIKE]£206400[/STRIKE] :eek: £199750 Mortgage £112500
    B@rclays £[STRIKE]25000[/STRIKE] paid 4 years 5 months early. S@ntander £[STRIKE]9300[/STRIKE] paid 2 years 2 months early
    2013 8lb lost 2014 need to lose 14lb. Lost 4 so far!;)
  • bsg
    bsg Posts: 21 Forumite
    Thanks for the welcome and the words of advice, 5 tea time means 72 hours for me :)

    I'm currently reading the Allen Carr book (god bless my Ebook reader and debit card) but will hold judgement on that until a few more chapters in.

    Yesterday started off a little bit iffy, with slight withdrawal symptoms. I was a bit concerned so phoned my GP who (luckily) wasn't working. The locum couldn't authorise a course of Chlordiazapoxide and I was worried that I would relapse, _JUST_ to fend off the withdrawals, which the locum actually suggested. I took it upon myself to give myself a task an hour to complete as a distraction starting with working through Uncharted 3 on the ps3, 4 hours later, I turned it off and felt fine - YAY!
  • evilsquid1603
    evilsquid1603 Posts: 1,399 Forumite
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    last night was AF so one more for me please.

    DH got horrifically drunk whilst i was out. he was on tesco value gin and sprite. poured me a jd and coke but I've developed a massive dust allergy because all the moving stuff around to pack and move has stirred up all the dust in out flat so i felt awful and didn't want it. tip for you all - exposed brick walls and ceilings look lovely but everything will be covered in a completely insane amount of dust no matter what you do.
  • beckseven
    beckseven Posts: 877 Forumite
    Hi all-get well wishes shaggy and welcome to all the newbies. 15 afds for me please shaggy. I feel a bit of a fraud because it is absolutely no struggle at all to keep away from alcohol due to my op! (sure it won't last...)
    HSBC Visa-High interest-£2349.23 Nat West £2605.18
    My Overdraft-£1500
    Barclaycard-1089.77
    Marks and Spencer card- 3331.30 next 92.67
    Total was 11066.29 now £10,968.15
  • missrlr
    missrlr Posts: 2,192 Forumite
    19 AF days for me please in April
    2 birthdays and Easter will stretch the will power so best to aim for the other stuff and stick to the "no more than a bottle of wine" rule if I do drink
    Start info Dec11 :eek:
    H@lifax [STRIKE]£13813.45[/STRIKE] paid Sep14 paid 23 months early :T
    Mortgage [STRIKE]£206400[/STRIKE] :eek: £199750 Mortgage £112500
    B@rclays £[STRIKE]25000[/STRIKE] paid 4 years 5 months early. S@ntander £[STRIKE]9300[/STRIKE] paid 2 years 2 months early
    2013 8lb lost 2014 need to lose 14lb. Lost 4 so far!;)
  • Chloris
    Chloris Posts: 720 Forumite
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    28 AFD please Shaggy. x Glad you are feeling better. x
  • tracy_36
    tracy_36 Posts: 312 Forumite
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    bsg wrote: »
    Thanks for the welcome and the words of advice, 5 tea time means 72 hours for me :)

    I'm currently reading the Allen Carr book (god bless my Ebook reader and debit card) but will hold judgement on that until a few more chapters in.

    Yesterday started off a little bit iffy, with slight withdrawal symptoms. I was a bit concerned so phoned my GP who (luckily) wasn't working. The locum couldn't authorise a course of Chlordiazapoxide and I was worried that I would relapse, _JUST_ to fend off the withdrawals, which the locum actually suggested. I took it upon myself to give myself a task an hour to complete as a distraction starting with working through Uncharted 3 on the ps3, 4 hours later, I turned it off and felt fine - YAY!

    That sounds like a mammoth milestone for you :)
    You will have to start writing a list of things to do for distractions! When I first gave up, my garden had a mass going over, all the windows got cleaned etc etc - unfortunately I appear to have lost the urge to do things now
    maman wrote: »
    :Ttracy, you did well!

    I was tempted again earlier, not a craving as such I just thought it would have been nice to have a drink after a busy day. Fortunately, I needed to drive and by the time I got home the thought of missing my one last AF day for March spurred me on!

    I love the way the AF days chart spurs us on to not drink!!! Thank you Shaggy :)

    28 AF for me now please, and really not sure about April - still haven't decided whether to quit altogether, or just have a few occasionally. I suppose at least I am not drinking whilst I decide :D
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    Morning :hello:

    1 more AFD please Bearacus.

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    Shaggyx
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    bsg wrote: »
    5 tea time means 72 hours for me :)

    Hope it's still going well.....:T
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    March :-

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    spring_smiley_007.gif = 14 days AF

    Cloud_9.gif= 21 days AF

    angel-smiley-004.gif = 28 days AF

    10.gifSmileyIPB265.gif= 29 days AF

    animal-smiley-085.gif= target achieved


    Antonia 2/17
    Bearacus 21/TF
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    Beck7 15/14 small%2B%252821%2529.gifspring_smiley_007.gifanimal-smiley-085.gif

    Cheezypeas /20

    Chilli red /10
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    Mackeroo 18/16 small%2B%252821%2529.gifspring_smiley_007.gifanimal-smiley-085.gif
    Maman 12/10 small%2B%252821%2529.gifanimal-smiley-085.gif

    Markman /TF
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    Miss P 10/20 small%2B%252821%2529.gif
    Miss rlr 19/20 small%2B%252821%2529.gifspring_smiley_007.gif
    Shaggy 17/17 small%2B%252821%2529.gifspring_smiley_007.gifanimal-smiley-085.gif
    Peterbunny 17/TF small%2B%252821%2529.gifspring_smiley_007.gif
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    Scotdebs 2/12
    Pricey SOS 16/24 small%2B%252821%2529.gif
    Tracy_36 27/31 small%2B%252821%2529.gifspring_smiley_007.gifCloud_9.gifangel-smiley-004.gif

    Rachel
    3/TF


    wnjmurphy /14




    PLEASE PUT YOUR TARGET AFDs IN A BOLD RED FONT and good luck! (and if I've made any mistakes, don't be shy, please let me know!)

    EVERYONE WELCOME
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
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