Frump to Fab - Summer Solstice Sizzler

lizzie157

LL

Just as soon as I can I will free myself from the shackles of the DSS & DWP and go my own sweet way

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-me too only wish it had been possible earlier but I've got lots of ideas just need a bit of cash generated one way or another to get me on the way. Really sorry about your OH's father I knoe you could do without the stress- hope he's ok.

ww

It makes me mad - especially as Cameron's son had the same problems as my sister - he could afford extra help and lived the life he wanted to despite having a disabled son - almost everyone else can't do this!
Its not good for the disabled person or for the carers!

This is what annoys me they play on the we're are just like you bit sorry but they haven't a clue and probably never will have, and sorry but just can't stand the smarmy git.

BB
Life with a puppy means I am doing very little, not just fabbing but house work etc too.

Its hard isn't it when I'm looking after DS's dog I find myself really struggling to get anything done - it's getting better though and hopefully should be easier for you cos the DS's dog has had to get used to being in 2 different homes with different rules:rotfl:

Am afraid my fabbing will be on the back seat for a bit, can't sleep properly atm and its not a priority having said that won't let it go entirely.Did check my eyebrows and other facial areas :rotfl::rotfl:for stray hairs and am still sprucing before going oiut the door.

Back soon
x

maman

fedupandskint wrote: »

1. Fab exercise today with a 9.7 mile run after work. Mega tired now though!

:eek::eek::eek: That's amazing sparkles :T:T:T

lizzie157 wrote: »

and sorry but just can't stand the smarmy git.
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I'm with you there lizzie, I'm sure he must sorely regret the 'We're all in ths together' quote or maybe he doesn't care when he's sitting there on Millionaires' Row (aka Government Front Bench).:mad:

Sorry to hear so many of you having difficult times with government agencies and the like. I'd love to go off into a political rant about capitalism gone mad and public sector being made scapegoats for others mistakes and.... but I won't!!

Had lovely evening out yesterday, all fabbed up. Wore my 'new' (CS) rust velvet skirt with opaques, ballet pumps and a black jumper. You've got some great buys ww, particularly the cardigan. I need a new black one so will look in H&M.

Agree it's a good feeling when you don't need new glasses LW. I expect you were told, like me, that marginal difference if you want new glasses but not essential. LL, haven't forgotten that you asked about glaucoma test. The optician puts in these eye drops which (I think) dilate the pupils. Then he just checks with a torch (probably got a special name) the pressure in and behind the eye. I believe it's a screening test which if it didn't show normal they would follow up with other tests like the puffer. I'm like you and flinch so much wth the puff that it just prolongs everything and makes a simple eye test incredibly stressful. I dread the day when my current optician retires.

Hope everyone's having a good weekend.

findingmyway_2

Hi everyone

I have been rather quiet the last few days. Things just seem to be extremely busy in RL at the moment and have found I have very little time to do anything.

Sparkles :T:T:T congratulations on that long Friday run. You should be so proud of yourself, that really does show such dedication and motivation. Well done. :j I have actually just signed up for a running club, its only once a week, but its a start.

Adela31, WelshWoofer, LessonLearned and Lizie, I am so sorry for all the problems you seem to be facing and my heart truely goes out to all of you. I can only imagine the stress you are under. :grouphug:

I can relate to an extent. The main reason I am moving back to the UK is similar, my mum has a degenerative disease, and although she is alright now, eventually everything is going to fall apart. However, she doesn't know that my sisters and I know what is wrong, she has tried to keep it from us, presumably because she knows I will do exactly what I am doing, moving back to be closer to the family and she would hate to think she is the reason for it. Right now I am finding it incredibly difficult to cope with the news of her disease and have been trying to bury my head in the sand because there really is nothing that can be done in the long run. The future paralyses with me fear so I prefer to not think about it. Not exactly the best strategy I realise.

Fab wise, it has been the basics, shower, exfoliate, defuzz, moisturise and basic make-up. Today I am going to see if anything can be done to get my camera lense fixed, and then I think I will have a wonder around the shops.

Hope everyone has a lovely Sunday.

WelshWoofer

Findingmyway - so sorry to hear about your mum. I know how you feel with regards to moving back - I don't have to yet but will have to at some point in the future - scary isn't it?

Its funny isn't it - you think you're the only one in the position that you are in or will be in but as soon as you talk about it loads of others in the same boat crawl out of the woodwork. I think its great that we can all relate to each other's problems and help, if only with a friendly ear and some support.
Perhaps we should start a carers/future carers club?;)

Not much planned for today apart from sorting out the house a bit - I may even attempt resealing the shower cubicle:eek: Not sure how to do this but surely it can't be that hard? The sealant has gone all black and manky and no amount of cleaning will get it white again and there are a few tiny leaks - just a few drips but it needs doing. I can do it while I'm off on holiday and have time to have a bath in the morning rather than a shower.
I also need to touch up a few scuffs on the hall paintwork - won't take long and I have some leftover paint. The conservatory needs a good clean too.:(
And, then there's the car - the inside is like a mini mobile park with the dog bringing back a bit every time we go - must do this today.

After all that I'll need a bit of repair work to myself!
Hope everyone has a good Sunday - at least its not raining (yet!)

lessonlearned

WelshWoofer wrote: »

Hope everyone has a good Sunday - at least its not raining (yet!)

That was my theme today - but perhaps it's only here.

The sun shines on the righteous:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

Beautiful here today, I had a little walk around my garden, the buds are budding, leaves unfurling, snowdrops and crocus in flower, primroses all along the primrose path (to ruin???) tulips and hyacinths peeking through - all along with the overgrown lawn, paths that need weeding, shrubs that need pruning, dead leaves that need removing, gravel that needs raking.

But not today.

Today some old friends are taking me to lunch and then coming with me to visit OH.

Have just tackled a pile of ironing, now off to do some fabbing.

Have a lovely day.

BTW WW - love the clothes you bought - very classy and not a bit "mutton".:D

WelshWoofer

Well, you live and learn!
I never thought I'd be able to do little practical things around the house, years ago when I had lots of money I paid someone to do them and then exOH had a go at some things (not very well most of the time!) but there's just me now and needs must - I had a go at decorating in the summer and that turned out well and today I've decided to reseal the shower and bleed the radiators.
Was completely clueless so had a look on the web and found this really good site showing lots of little videos on how to do small practical DIY tasks.
http://www.ultimatehandyman.org

Lots of the videos are presented by a very normal woman and make things seem very easy.
So my fabbing for today includes learning something new and having the confidence to have a go.
Have already cleaned the car and refilled the water and oil (bit scared of tyre pressure so may leave that for dad to show me what to do), tidied the garden a bit, hoovered through, wiped down the skirtings with antibacterial stuff (mucky dog) and bought the stuff needed for the DIY.

Now all I need to do is start the shower! Will take the dog for a walk first though to make the most of the nice day.
Get me, Handy Andy!

Adela31

i also like this site http://www.diydoctor.org.uk/ , simply because I once saw the chap who started this site doing a demonstration, and signing copies of his book, and he had me in stitches. I bought a copy of his teach yourself DIY book too just because he cheered me up so much. I suck muchy at any form of DIY, but have always been determined to learn.

LameWolf

Massive amounts of coping vibes for all of you dealing with poorly loved ones.

It's something I worry about, I have to admit, but from the other side of the equation. At present, once Mr LW has got me up and dressed, I can manage while he goes to work - he calls to check on me twice daily, and he leaves everything so that I can do the day's tasks, and anything I can't manage, he helps with when he gets home.

I'm aware, though, that every flare I go through leaves me a little worse than before, as in I never manage to recover to quite the previous level, iyswim, and I worry about what will happen further down the line, as Mr LW is the only source of support I have.

I'm also very conscious of the fact that he's a decade older than me, and if anything happens to him, I'm well and truly... well, screwed, I think sums it up.

Maman thanks, yes I was pleased not to need to have new specs; they did indeed say I could have new ones if I was "bored with the current ones" I think was how they put it; but then, I have a similar style every time, so I'm not going to buy new ones just for a different look!:D

We're supposed to attend the local Moot tonight - haven't been for the last three months, as I haven't been well enough, but tbh, I'm seriously thinking of chickening out.:cool: I've rather lost my nerve for being in a room full of people. I'm unsure how bothered Mr LW is about going, also - if he's just going along for my benefit, there's no point, and we might as well stay home. Just ignore me - I'm waffling on here, to get my own mind in order, iyswim.;)

Rosetta92

WelshWoofer wrote: »

Have been shopping and bought some new make up (a mascara and blusher) and a neutral blazer type jacket, a biscuit coloured going out silky blouse top and a bright red lighweight knit cardigan. Get me and the colours!!
Went around with LL's words ringing in my ears - is this classy, elegant and sophisticated or will I look like an over grown teenager???!
Hopefully made some good choices.

Pictures (its not me by the way!!)
http://www.hm.com/gb/product/98737?article=98737-A
http://www.hm.com/gb/product/96990?article=96990-B
http://www.hm.com/gb/product/95968?article=95968-Ck from walking the dog between the hailstone showers and have had a 6 min sunbed for my psoriasis (which is getting much better).

Excellent choices - properly fab:)

Willow92 wrote: »

Hugs to all I have no advice for anyone coz I haven't been in any situation like the difficult ones above. Just gonna sit back and offer virtual hugs to everyone.

Thanks for the hugs - never underestimate the power of listening and hugs.

findingmyway wrote: »

I can relate to an extent. The main reason I am moving back to the UK is similar, my mum has a degenerative disease, and although she is alright now, eventually everything is going to fall apart.

Right now I am finding it incredibly difficult to cope with the news of her disease and have been trying to bury my head in the sand because there really is nothing that can be done in the long run. The future paralyses with me fear so I prefer to not think about it. Not exactly the best strategy I realise.

Allow yourself time to adjust. I had a similar experience with my DD and my MIL. Moving closer meant we could spend more time together, and there will be fun times as well as hard ones. From my experience talk to your Mum about all the things you've never said/ asked eg: memories when she was growing up, family history, how much you love her - eventually my DH couldn't speak. I'd asked lots but some things got missed Being nearer also helped me & siblings pull together at the end.

Hope everyone has a lovely Sunday.

Having the op next week so fab focus is - how to look good in hospital Steeped feet and tackled hard skin - will do hair and sort out most stylish PJs. Once its all done I'll get nail varnish & make - up brought in - not allowed pre-op.

Have a great week everyone. I may be able to lurk but probably not post for a bit.

Hugs to all having a hard time - keep fabbing it somehow makes things feel a bit better.

fedupandskint

I had a Fab Sunday with a great day out - a no spend day too. Nice 6 mile walk in the countryside in the freezing wind and bright blue sky and frosty ground. Blew all the cobwebs away and we completed the walk an hour quicker than usual as the fitness levels have improved since the last walk. Good day out, went way over kcal allowance but not too bothered as burnt off over 1300kcals instead of 200kcals today.

Time now for a bit of a pamper and a bath and a facemask to remoisturise and a good soak to repair my slightly sore leg muscles.

Next run is either Mon or Tues depending upon how legs feel tomorrow

Hope everyone had a lovely weekend and see you all tomorrow