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  • kathfisch
    kathfisch Posts: 3,042 Forumite
    Snaggles wrote: »
    I wish I could join you for that drink at Makro - there's a few things I'd like to say to some of PAP's colleagues....but perhaps it's better that I'm nowhere near - got to think of the blood pressure you know lol!

    We'll pass on your regards, shall we?! ;)
    Don't stress, relax, let life roll off your backs. Except for death and paying taxes, everything in life is only for now... Avenue Q
    Official DFW Nerd Club - Member no. 003 :DProud to have become debt free... and striving to keep it that way
  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    kathfisch wrote: »
    We'll pass on your regards, shall we?! ;)
    Oh please do! lol
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
    :smileyhea
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  • kathfisch
    kathfisch Posts: 3,042 Forumite
    To be honest i think its a good job I don't have a makro card (I can't get in without one can I?!). I drive past there every day and sometimes I'm really in the mood to tell people what I think... :eek:

    Only kidding pap, I wouldn't come ranting and raving into your workplace, honest :o :rotfl:
    Don't stress, relax, let life roll off your backs. Except for death and paying taxes, everything in life is only for now... Avenue Q
    Official DFW Nerd Club - Member no. 003 :DProud to have become debt free... and striving to keep it that way
  • oh no :o i have these images of all of you coming into makro and giving my lovely work collegues an earfull... i would pay to see it though :rotfl:



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  • RAS
    RAS Posts: 35,726 Forumite
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    I am also cancelling this weeks driving lesson, i cant afford it so it will have to wait untill payday now :rolleyes:


    Posting.

    Really glad that you got support through the weekend. As for your sister, make sure that she knows that she knows that you had to cancel this week's lesson because you do not have the money.

    And drop little comments into the conversation with your family about how your overdraft is up to its limit, so they know that you are not in a position to help.

    I think you are being realistic about moving out but that the sooner you can do this the better.

    You will not solve the confidence thing in one go. It took me years so I am working on some thoughts about that behind the scenes, as I reckon it is one of the roots of debt. Hopefuly you will be able to pick something useful up and move faster than I did.

    Remember school sport lessons? The shame? Well when they were picking teams, I was the kid that got left standing after the largest kid in the class was selected. The absolute pits. Then I discovered that "she is a bit !!!!!!". Whoa that was why I was so useless. Still hurt but not as much and if someone called me spassie, I would turn round and claim the title for myself.

    Maybe you can explain your weight to people who you care about re PCOS, as that is a big reason for the problem.

    take care
    If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing
  • lynsayjane
    lynsayjane Posts: 3,547 Forumite
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    kathfisch wrote: »
    I don't have a makro card (I can't get in without one can I?!).

    don't worry kath I can get one through work and I'm fairly sure I can then use any makro ;) if you can guarentee I'll be back up here for 12 lunch on monday then I'll leave here sunday avo after work, longest lunch break in the world!
  • lynzpower
    lynzpower Posts: 25,311 Forumite
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    Ive got a makro card ladies :D
    :beer: Well aint funny how its the little things in life that mean the most? Not where you live, the car you drive or the price tag on your clothes.
    Theres no dollar sign on piece of mind
    This Ive come to know...
    So if you agree have a drink with me, raise your glasses for a toast :beer:
  • RAS
    RAS Posts: 35,726 Forumite
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    You winders!
    If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing
  • *zippy*
    *zippy* Posts: 2,979 Forumite
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    Hi PAP

    Keep a look out for vacancies at your local hospital too. I worked in a supermarket until Jan and alot of the staff who left went to admin jobs in our hospital. I could be that they are not too bothered about experience.

    Well done on the swimming :T

    I had a mini LB moment last month that part of my spending splurges was emotional and I was lonely, I have a family and know lots of people, but don't really have anyone I can call up and invite around. Its hard, but i'm trying to make new friends, I met up with someone off mse and had a lovely time. Sorry if i'm wrong, but think I read you are a christian??? Have you considered joining your local church as its a great way to meet up with people you have something in common with.

    You are doing so well love, be proud of yourself :T
    zippy x
  • lynsayjane
    lynsayjane Posts: 3,547 Forumite
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    RAS wrote: »
    You winders!

    who's winding???? dfw's I think we have just planned our next meet ;)
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