you know when all you lovely people give advice...

Gemmzie

She knows your ID so what she looks you up and checks every item you've sold and tallies up the profits? That's bloody disgusting.

Tell her no, and to sort her own finances and leave yours alone

postingalwaysposting

tes nothing if anything she has put half oif these bad thoughts into my head... i hate the girl... she still thinks shes everything and anything and she has to do everything before me to prove me wrong... grr i hate my family

cafc girl i aint giving it to her... i cant... i worked too hard for that money and i cant just give it away... it doesnt make sense... she can hate me forever i dont care, she is never there for me and i have asked for nothing from her.. its tough titty...

CAFCGirl

TOUGH TITTY

I Bl&&dy Love It!!!

tesuhoha

Remember your bright future is still out there for the taking as CAFCGirl says. Its in your hands Pap whether you reach out and grab it. We can only advise you and shout at you but you are the only one who can do it for yourself. You must be strong and take care of No 1 because its obvious that no one else in your family is going to. You have to be good to yourself and that means hanging on to whats yours and keeping your affairs private from now on.

postingalwaysposting

tes the id on this is the same main bit of my email address... i havent given it yet but my brother has it so if my sister gets it she may look on here, she has saw me surfing this site before

gem, yes and yes... she even text me if she doesnt like what i am selling... its beacuse she found ebay but didnt use it then i started using it buying and selling and i have made a go of it and she has been banned 3 times now... i guess she is jelaous... anyways no text yet... bet shes begging to someone else :rolleyes:

postingalwaysposting

CAFCGirl wrote: »

TOUGH TITTY

I Bl&&dy Love It!!!

:rotfl: thats my attempt at swearing... i dont swear but thats how i feel haha

tesuhoha

Well even if she knows about your ebay stuff, she cant get at it and thats the main thing. It isnt any of her business so try to be as secretive as you can from now on and tell her and your family nothing.

ZTD

postingalwaysposting wrote: »

my sister needs to know everything...

She doesn't need to know - she only *wants* to know.

postingalwaysposting wrote: »

she will prob hate me and i will get no xmas present now ~ thats what she is like...

Do you think she loves you because you give her stuff?

Buy your own christmas present - £200 goes a long way.

tesuhoha

Also, even if she sees this site and all that we've written, as long as you continue to say no, then she cannot change your answer. Its still no, even if she realises that youve been advised to say no. You wanted to say that to her anyway but you just needed some support.

postingalwaysposting

thanks tes, its just really annoying that i have to lie all the time because my family are so awful.. even my purchases are looked at... it does my head in... still havent changed my pins on my cards either, but i will do that this week (well on my spending card), i am cutting up my bills account card