you know when all you lovely people give advice...

CAFCGirl

heres mine

The greatest mistake you can make in life is to continually be afraid you will make one.

taka

Ohhhh i like that one... will print these out when I get home!!

postingalwaysposting

well all first day back at work today... it went as well as it could have 2 people wanted words from me but most of it was stuff that my line manager had taken out of context in a private meeting and feed back to them :eek: one is over the moon i am debtfree (she is also in big debt to the point where she cant retire) and another one isnt hsppy i still have a set restday from september to go to college :rolleyes: but i just srugged it off, if she has a problem with it then she has to go to the store manager who autorised it. I was more forth comming and confidiant today (i feel) and i wasnt worried when they went off wispering together (ui usually think its about me) i just let them get on with it :rotfl:

but i think my body needs gently working back into work :rotfl: shame i have to work 6 days on the trot now, as i finished work and was going to walk home but decided against it so i got the bus past my house (about 10 more stops) and walked through the woods, well at six ish i went to bed, now thats so unlike me normal days but i was soo tired and i have just woken back up :rotfl:

savings/college/ebay... all going well ebay is going steady and i have a few watcher... most of the stuff is ending tom morning and then more throughout the week, i just hope most of the postage will be cheap as i am running out of cash :rotfl: i am just about to print my college application forms out and fill them in ready for pay day to send off and my savings i have added a bit too but not much...

thats me for today and i need sleep :rotfl:

kathfisch

Well done for being more confident Pap! :T Any problems your colleagues have are just that, their problem, and you don't need to let it worry you. One of my colleagues was very rude to me today... actually she was horrible not just rude... but I just laughed. She was telling me off (when she's definitely not senior to me!) about something soooo trivial I couldn't do anything but smile - certainly shut her up!

x

CAFCGirl

Crikey PAP what a load of ossers you work work!

My question is why your line manager is telling anyone anything that was said in a private meeting!

'Wanna have a private word', how unbelievably childish!

Give them the mental finger hun, you're so obviously 10 times the people they are!

Good Luck with ebay bits, hope you get some cracking sales! Good Luck and just keep positive. You wont be there long hun, you're going places and fast!!!

postingalwaysposting

yes kath... i think most of them dont like it that i am getting on with my life now and everyone knows i am not going to be there much longer... it doesnt help that all but my line manager are girls/women so jelousy etc is very high in there. i do the smiling trick :rotfl: they hate it

cafc girl your guess is as good as mine :mad: i am quite angry about it really but he is that type of person and he will do anything to get his own way, he also like to play us all off against one another... i just think its petty for a grown man... well i hope to think i am i just think i have given up these last few years thinking that this was all i was worth but now i know thats most certainly not the case i dont care what they say/do now... :rotfl: i have a minamum of 9months there till i reach my finance goal, then as soon as i have hit that i will be looking for a new job just to get me through training as of next september, i certainly cant do this for more than another year, its getting to me badly now...

Thansk for the ebay encouragement, some ends tom then wednesday and then friday, with the last two i will be at work when they finish so i will get up early to see this lot finish... i love watching the end of my auctions :rotfl:

Snaggles

I can't believe someone has a problem with you having a set day off to go to college.....that's just petty jealousy....well done for not rising to it.

Whenever anyone behaves like this towards you, just smile and think 'Before long I'll be out of here, but you'll probably be here for the rest of your life, and that's why you don't like it'.

They'll probably wonder why you're smiling.....let them wonder lol!

Gemmzie

PAP, are you sure you don't work for the same company as me? :rotfl: Sounds identical!

I'm the same with mine - keep going, the light is at the end of the tunnel!

postingalwaysposting

snaggles i think thats just it, its the same peron that didnt like it when i started to learn to drive... i just smile, even when customers get me down i just smile (even if its just inside) and thinking of everyone on here and my goals gets me through the days there... not much longer

gem... :rotfl: work is ok its just the people :rotfl: but i suppose you get that anywhere... i just think i have to knuckle down and do what needs doing then hopefully i cant find a different more easier/relaxing job that will allow me to study for my main goal... i think its just the nessasary evil... ah well i will be smiling forever when i can leave there :rotfl:

postingalwaysposting

well my first set of auctions just ended (16 items) and 7 sold for a total of £22.36... not too bad but the end time was rubbish so i could have got better sales if they ended this evening... never mind... my next two end on different days at 8pm and 5pm... hopefully these will draw in more bids