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  • RAS
    RAS Posts: 36,288 Forumite
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    Hope you had a good time.

    Welcome back
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  • yupi3ti.gif I AM DEBT FREE ~ AGAIN yupi3ti.gif

    hi all i am back, and you guessed it the first thing i did was check my balances and i am debt free :rotfl: I had a fab time didnt want to come back, could have stayed there forever :) I now have to face a big decision and i only have really a week to decide... and i dont wanna :( just sorting out the amounts i have spent, i think i have overspent by £10 :p but and i will hide now, i did lend my mum £20... i know i know but it was one of those things, on the up side i did however get £10 back from the holiday park for my linen deposit :T all in all i had a fab time wish i could still be there :rolleyes:
  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    Welcome back Pap, huge congratulations for being debt free, £10 overspend is really not bad at all, and if lending your Mum £20 meant you had a great holiday, well, that's not too bad (as long as it was a one-off ;)).

    What's your big decision? Anything we can help with?
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
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  • welcome back, i am glad you had a great time.

    congratulations on being debt free!!!!!!!
  • slowlyfading
    slowlyfading Posts: 13,429 Forumite
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    Well done! :j
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  • Snaggles wrote: »
    Welcome back Pap, huge congratulations for being debt free, £10 overspend is really not bad at all, and if lending your Mum £20 meant you had a great holiday, well, that's not too bad (as long as it was a one-off ;)).

    What's your big decision? Anything we can help with?

    still havent tallyed up my spends yet will do it asap... and i know i will get the money back thursday so i have no problems :) oh and it is a one off :)

    my problem is my driving instuctor has found my dream car, now when we started i gave him a little run down of what i would like, not thinking anything of it but while i was on holiday he phoned me and found a fab car (on paper) not seen it yet... its a fiat 126 ~ white ~ 1991 (J) ~ 9,000 miles ~ new mot ~ 2 owners (mother and daughter) ~ no rust ~ as new ~ £1999.00. Now there are many problems with this and it kinda haults all my plans... here is a run down

    * will require a loan ~ debt :eek:
    * i can afford to go to college
    * be able to get back away camping without needing lifts/with someone
    * will be able to look into next year as my gap 6 months ~ as long as i past my test
    * freedom ~ away from my mother
    * costs involved ~ nearly £200 per month :eek:
    * cant move out
    * can find a better job
    * could get a better wage then afford to move out
    * can find a job with live in accomodation in the middle of nowhere

    anyways i have no idea what to do... i may not be allowed a loan to finance it but i am in a real pickle about it all, mum wants to take me to see it tommorow, but i dont want to go and see it fall in love with it then i cant have it for many reasons, its like showing a baby candy then taking it away :o

    opinions please :)
  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    I had a fiat 126 as my first car (well, it was my Mums car actually, I just borrowed it)....it broke down 13 times during the 12 months I had it :(

    But I suspect that was down to it being a complete lemon, and probably no reflection on fiats in general.
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
    :smileyhea
    9780007258925
  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    Having said that, they're great for parking!
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
    :smileyhea
    9780007258925
  • well i think i have talked myself out of it, whats the point when i dont think i will pass? whats the point in anything? i think i will just save and decide as and when what to do etc etc :rolleyes:
  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    I think you will pass PAP.....but I think your idea of just keeping saving for now and then making the decision when you've got some savings behind you is a good one. If you are not sure what you want to do now, hopefully things will be a bit clearer once you have the money to put one of your plans into action.

    Try not to feel as though there's no point - remember you felt that way just before your holidays too and then the moving-out-of-home plan was born and you were really positive again. Coming back off holiday can put you on a bit of a downer, but I bet you'll be feeling more enthusiastic about things in a few days time.
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
    :smileyhea
    9780007258925
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