you know when all you lovely people give advice...

beanielou

PAP~Ill goes against the flow as I have been known to do!!
IF it was me & I really felt in my heart it was the thing I wanted to do I would order a very basic shop from Asda.
i have to say that is only my personal opinion though.
Off to hide now!!

Link plse to your thread wth piccs on pretty please.

postingalwaysposting

beanielou wrote: »

PAP~Ill goes against the flow as I have been known to do!!
IF it was me & I really felt in my heart it was the thing I wanted to do I would order a very basic shop from Asda.
i have to say that is only my personal opinion though.
Off to hide now!!

Link plse to your thread wth piccs on pretty please.

mmm i see what you mean however i think ifn i give the more they will expect it and then it would be hard to say no... i have already said no to my mum and brother i dont want to take steps back...

http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.html?t=531308

CAFCGirl

Hey PAP!

Hope you're feeling better today.
Must confess to being in agreement with option e as many others, and I know it is very hard to say No to those you love...

But just imagine the difficulties you've had with saying No to your family, and the hell that could break loose if your family found out you'd lent/gave money to someone outside the family, then they'll all be sniffing back round you, and you'll send yourself 10 steps back!

That to me would be a great motivation to stay strong, with everyone irrespective of being family, friend, neighbours best mate's niece....

Say No to everyone, then noone can be upset! xx

postingalwaysposting

tad update ~

still with option e i dont think it will be good for them but sppically good for me if i give them money and or food. So i am going to let that settle. However i havent been to work today so i will see how she is feeling tommorow :rolleyes:

a good thing tonight is the college group has been split up and we are in a much smaller group. I think they have split them younger and older groups and i am in the older group and there are only 17 of us :j its a new teacher however he is doing it very slowly and he is helping much more. Its hard but we have been thrown in the deep end as we have to complete coursework before xmas :eek:

anyways i am off to bed soon ~ take care all

Gemmzie

Glad to hear the maths has improved, nice to be in the older group too

Sleep well PAP *hugs*

beanielou

Gosh , if you are in the older group I shudder to think which group they would put me in~ the vetrens one! lol

JET34

HI PAP Just thought I say HELLO as i've not seen you and have missed your post's. I am sure you've been busy working/ebaying/.... oh yea having a life!!!
anyhow HELLOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

jane

JET34

HELLO PAP

:wave::wave::wave::wave::wave::wave::wave::wave:

Kevicho

postingalwaysposting wrote: »

what would you do ~
a) buy food from tesco
b) buy food from tesco but dont pay the holiday
c) give them a little bit of cash (ie under £50)
d) offer them a 0% loan for up to £100 but get it back before the holioday with my best friend
e) do nothing i shouldnt bear others money problems

opinions please ~ i am posting and running as i am so behind i shall pop back later :A

Where is option f?
f) Get their butts on MSE and convert them

Kevicho

postingalwaysposting wrote: »

tad update ~

still with option e i dont think it will be good for them but sppically good for me if i give them money and or food. So i am going to let that settle. However i havent been to work today so i will see how she is feeling tommorow :rolleyes:

I agree with whats been said before, i think your being very unfair on yourself that you are considering giving up your hard earned money to other people, who may or may not deal with their money sensibly.


I think this should be their LBM and you should hint and nudge them along to it