Reassure me I'm not being a heartless, witch, please!

foreign_correspondent

hey sqeeky, how's it going??

C_Mababejive

Get rid...

philb120

Take care of yourself, you are better rid x x

sqeeky

No calls since Christmas Day (and I didn't answer those either).

I'm going through a load of different cupboards to try and make sure I've found everything of his before I post it to his mother's house.



It's been lovely without the worry.

I suppose he's going to start again for New Year, but I'm trying to be prepared for that - I'll put his stuff out in the front garden once the bins have been collected and if he turns up unannounced, they're right in front of him. If he doesn't turn up by the time I've got it all packed, I'll post it. But as it's near the anniversary of his father's death, I expect he'll be too drunk to even manage to climb in the car for a few days yet.

I've enrolled in another course for my degree and made lots of other plans that will try and stop me feeling vulnerable.


I can do this.

kittywight

you are not a !!!!! in anyway at all

youve done the best thing for you, hes clearly lied for a long time and you gave him dozens of chances to change

you cant help someone who doesnt wanna help himself ....

good for you, move on and enjoy a better future ... xxx

londonsurrey

Wahey, well done that woman! :beer:

Caroline_a

I bet your shoulders feel a millions lbs lighter! I remember mine did..

msb5262

sqeeky wrote: »

No calls since Christmas Day (and I didn't answer those either).

I'm going through a load of different cupboards to try and make sure I've found everything of his before I post it to his mother's house.



It's been lovely without the worry.

I suppose he's going to start again for New Year, but I'm trying to be prepared for that - I'll put his stuff out in the front garden once the bins have been collected and if he turns up unannounced, they're right in front of him. If he doesn't turn up by the time I've got it all packed, I'll post it. But as it's near the anniversary of his father's death, I expect he'll be too drunk to even manage to climb in the car for a few days yet.

I've enrolled in another course for my degree and made lots of other plans that will try and stop me feeling vulnerable.


I can do this.

Brilliant, well done! I'm so pleased to see this news as I read the whole thread yesterday and couldn't help wondering how you were doing.

I'm delighted to wish you a very happy 2012 with a positive new start. Now you can start thinking about your own needs and wishes. You should be feeling very proud of yourself - and we're all proud of you too!

MsB

purple.sarah

You're not being a heartless witch. He wants you to think that because he's trying to manipulate you, because he's a user. What did you get out of the relationship? Block his number.

ContinentalDrift

Oh sqeeky

You are doing soo well, you definitely CAN do this.

I have popped over from my thead, and I have nothing but admiration for you.

I divorced my near alcoholic emotionally abusive X a couple of years ago, and I know how difficult it can be. However, the peace that you get afterwards is amazing.

I wish you luck, you are a very strong lady.