Ex missus wants to claim CSA off me

welshcakes

Quite honestly, I don't think the colour one wears hair, nails or clothes should influence others opinions. I personally wear alot of black cos it makes my bum look smaller!

What is important is that there appears to be an intact family unit into which epona's grand daughter is going to be born and that sites like this exist to provide free and very informative Q&As regarding ALL aspects of money matters that can be of use to everyone in the UK regardless of income or personal circumstances.

btw, Epona is a very nice tag name!

skintas_2

please let this thread die now................................

Anthillmob

mum you state youre not an emo.

well you wouldnt be would you as emo is a new thing applied to kids of your girls age. so why would you think we might think you were an emo?

are you on a wind up as well? most mums wouldnt have a clue what an emo was, take a look at some posts on here. people 25+ dont have a clue so why make an issue of it.

please tell me you are on a wind up. i expect you to start speaking in ext speak next.

Broken_hearted

epona wrote:

QUOTE both he and the mother are trying to post each other in a black way.

Thats not true in my case. I happen to be an adult with my own house and business, my own car. I work for my money I am not an EMO (thank goodness :-) ) and lead a perfectly normal life. Neither do I feel the need to lie publicly (or privately for that matter) thats why this will all be posted of as much of what Adam has said is slander and if he continues I will be seeking legal advice about the matter.

That says it all. Pregnant at 15 don't worry mammy will sue.:rotfl: LOOK AT YOUR CHILD if you look hard enough you might see her for what she is. Are you going to sue everyone shes slept with?

seven-day-weekend

skintas wrote:

please let this thread die now................................

I agree.

I would just like to say that if it is genuine there has been some good advice given.

If it is a wind-up, so be it. I'd rather be made a mug of than run the risk of turning away someone who is genuinely asking for help (even if they are very immature).

Bye now.

xlt_hunter

Zara33 wrote:

I think the jury is still out regarding the parentage don't hang the kid yet FGS!!

Very true - but like the other on the board said - he is 19 - he should bloody know better to say no.

However a bit of the twist in the tale, when you go down the local highstreet and look at the young women out there today - can you honesty say they are over 16 by looking at them? (epona this is not directed at your daughter.) I bet its like a ticket to screw a young lass.

Sorry - I had to do Jury service some time ago and in this case it was a 15 year girl and her step dad. He had the control and she was the one with the damaged for life (he got the prison sentence and lifetime on the sex offered list)

I am stopping now as its bring up details of that case (to me was horriable!)

(zips up mouth for the evening)

Bye....

epona_2

How about everyone stop going on about her bebo page all that doesn't really matter all teenagers talk about beer she barely ever goes out now hes gone

Zara33

epona did you let the OP live in your house, did you know the op was 19 as you have not answered already

shellsuit

I'm speechless!!

If it were my daughter on that Bebo page, the PC would be smashed with a hammer and my daughter would be locked up until she was 47!

I know kids talk crap to make themselves look bigger but I would be devastated to read my daughter posting stuff like that - I'd be having sharp words with her, surely the lad can wait until later - like after the baby is born??

The OP is obviously an immature 19yo and if Epona let them stay/sleep together under her roof, well........

welshcakes

I think going through the CSA (despite their reputation) may provide a better method of dealing with a DNA test and, if paternity proved, of arranging maintenance ; it seems that the less future communication between the parties, the better.

Private maintenance agreements are fine if there is a degree of civility and common objective between the parents however there's nothing to suggest that this is likely to be the case for Adam and Charlotte. There'll be plenty to occupy without any distractions once baby has arrived.