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Ex missus wants to claim CSA off me

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  • epona_2
    epona_2 Posts: 45 Forumite
    No he never lived at our house as he claimed. he lived with his father who then through him out then he moved in with his mother who was perfectly happy to let them have the house to themselves from 4pm-10pm at night whilst she was at work. By this time I had put things in the hands of social services. They would not put her with foster parents as I requested. Instead they were happy for her to be there, because they were the police allowed it too. And yes you've guessed it AFTER he was on the sex offenders register.
  • Sounds like the SS they don't like to help it's too much paperwork.
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  • shellsuit
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    You wanted your daughter to go to into care??!
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  • shellsuit wrote:
    You wanted your daughter to go to into care??!
    Which proves my point that she is out of control.
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  • Zara33
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    did you know your daughters boyfriend was 19 ?
    Hit the snitch button!
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  • epona_2
    epona_2 Posts: 45 Forumite
    Broken hearted thats more or less what the police said (off the record) it would appear the police very much go along with what the SS decide. the SS did a core assessment in it they even had the cheek to say that I had cause a huge strain on my daughter and Adam's relationship! I wonder why!?
  • Quackers
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    skintas wrote:
    please let this thread die now................................

    Please?

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  • shellsuit wrote:
    You wanted your daughter to go to into care??!
    shellsuit, without knowing all the facts (and even if we did), that is not for anyone here to judge. It is not unusual and is often the only and last resort for many parents who have tried but been unable to get/keep a youngster heading in the right direction.
    Integrity is a dying art!:p
  • epona wrote:
    No he never lived at our house as he claimed. he lived with his father who then through him out then he moved in with his mother who was perfectly happy to let them have the house to themselves from 4pm-10pm at night whilst she was at work. By this time I had put things in the hands of social services. They would not put her with foster parents as I requested. Instead they were happy for her to be there, because they were the police allowed it too. And yes you've guessed it AFTER he was on the sex offenders register.

    But did you know she was alone in a house with a sex offender???
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  • epona_2
    epona_2 Posts: 45 Forumite
    Yes I knew he was 19 was I happy about it NO!

    I wanted my daughter to go into care? no again what I was trying to do was have her put in a safe place away from him till it was all under control to keep her safe.
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