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Ex missus wants to claim CSA off me

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  • epona wrote:
    I posted my first post after reading only one page I've now read the lot.

    One of my daughters friends posted the link to this site.

    So, after reading the whole thing.

    I hope then that you have evidence about what you say about her father, myself and step father? rather slanderous don't you think? I'd be very careful if I were you Adam as this page WILL be printed off.

    If you were innocent then why were you arrested and put on the register? SIMPLE Adam BECAUSE you told the police you slept with her and that it is your baby. The doctor knew it and social services knew it BECAUSE you kept phoning them pestering them and trying to take control.

    Spent a few weeks in jail OMG ADAM this gets better and better! you were in a cell for one night, the night I had you arrested for underage s=x.

    For those who asked what EMO means it's short for emotional (bless!) Adam do you still wear black nail varnish and makeup or have you grown out of that yet?

    You seem to forget Adam that it is ME that is standing by my daughter ME that is paying out and ME who will be at the hospital holding her hand so stop feeling so damn sorry for yourself.

    You made a mistake, a lesson well learnt I hope.
    I think you need help for your daughter if she is seducincing older men and sleeping around. Although a long painful labour with an underdeveloped teenage body may help. You had a young lad thrown in jail because YOU can't control YOUR child. Parenting classes may help as you sound childish. I hope this whole thread is a wind up.
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  • Anthillmob
    Anthillmob Posts: 11,780 Forumite
    god i cant go to bed now...this is like an episode of 'sunset beach'

    whatever the truth is i sincerely hope a little baby wont be caught up in whatever crossfire there is.

    im going for a fag, my head hurts
    There's someone in my head, but it's not me
  • skintas_2
    skintas_2 Posts: 1,679 Forumite
    yeah just read bebo i like snake bit, snirnorf ice, carling,,,,,,, im 15 and getting my beely piereced for 4th time............................ i like jack daniels and alcohol was she drunk when she went with adam
    i will be debt free, i will
  • Anthillmob wrote:
    god i cant go to bed now...this is like an episode of 'sunset beach'

    whatever the truth is i sincerely hope a little baby wont be caught up in whatever crossfire there is.

    im going for a fag, my head hurts
    Agreed think I'll join you might have a glass of wine too
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  • Zara33
    Zara33 Posts: 5,441 Forumite
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    Quackers wrote:
    I noticed that but thought it was irrelevant. It doesn't matter who guided her towards the site at the end of the day.

    It is sometimes just easier to say it was a friend otherwise people start questioning who it was and then it all gets even nastier.

    It needs to be left alone really.

    I personally just think there is 2 sides to every story and both the OP and the mother are trying to paint each other in a very bad way, they should just get the DNA test done then they should take it from there.

    Both the OP and his ex-girlfriend are to blame not one of them are 100%innocent.
    Hit the snitch button!
    member #1 of the official warning clique.
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    Feel the love baby!
  • Zara33
    Zara33 Posts: 5,441 Forumite
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    Agreed think I'll join you might have a glass of wine too
    Wait for meeeeeeeee lol i'm gonna get a cuppa :j
    Hit the snitch button!
    member #1 of the official warning clique.
    :D:j:D
    Feel the love baby!
  • skintas_2
    skintas_2 Posts: 1,679 Forumite
    happiest when having a romp and gettin pist... ohg it gets better..............
    i will be debt free, i will
  • epona wrote:
    xtl hunter
    Thankyou , the baby will be very much looked after and loved. I actually find it very sad that Adam's parents have no interest at all in their grandchild. We've a lovely home here and a room full of baby things just waiting for the day :-)

    Well Done, I hope it all goes smoothy for mum and grandmum :)

    Adam - grow up and accept the fate - I bet the noose is a little tighter now that you have to make payments for the upkeep of your daughter when she arrives in this world.

    As for the figure paint - sorry but if you look at his photo - no way he looks like a goth - more chav to me. Thats a thought.
  • Zara33
    Zara33 Posts: 5,441 Forumite
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    skintas have you seen any other accounts because believe me this girl is not the only one who is like this, i think you will find several guys and girls under 16 chat like this on a regular basis. :eek: i don't want my son to turn into a teenager ever :(
    Hit the snitch button!
    member #1 of the official warning clique.
    :D:j:D
    Feel the love baby!
  • epona_2
    epona_2 Posts: 45 Forumite
    Broken hearted.
    My daughter does not sleep around at all thankyou very much! if you have read my previous posts you will see that myself and the doctor got social services involved BECAUSE we were worried about the control HE had over her.

    Someone said about my daughter being a goth. This was another part of his control, since shes not been with Adam, she dresses perfectly normally and smartly (cost me a fortune in a new wardrobe!) and she has dark brown hair not black.
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