Ex missus wants to claim CSA off me

smellynelly_3

yep i agree, my daughters the same age and posts pretty weird stuff on her website. Kids of that age exaggerate wildly what they get up to.

This could be someone trying to blacken her name because she got pregnant. If he is telling the truth he has to face the consequenses of having sex with a minor in the first place.

charlotteS_2

Quackers wrote:

It took me ages to understand what she'd written on that Bebo site!!

What is this Bebo site thing that everyone is talking about?

smellynelly_3

it is where anyone can put their own website and post details about themselves. I think its mainly for teenagers so their friends can see what they have been up to. I dont understand it fully myself.

Zara33

charlotteS wrote:

What is this Bebo site thing that everyone is talking about?

Bebo is similiar to Myspace, bebo is used generally by schoolkids where they register what school they attend and they can chat to all their friends and as we can see many kids don't set their account to private so in theory everyone can view these kids accounts, :eek: scary when you think about it really

welshcakes

I still reserve comment on this having read the whole thread and taken a quick look at your list of bebo friends who include 14 yr old girls answering your online survey which asks questions like "would u -u-k me?".

For now can only say read and take note of the advise given by kelloggs.

epona_2

The girls mother here (and about time!)
I can't beleive the rubbish that comes out of your mouth so lets start with a few truths shall we!

You were never locked up you were only in a cell over night as I had you arrested and you were put on the sex offenders register. She fell pregnant because YOU talked her out of using condoms.
She never slept with ANYONE else during this time as you well know and you were quite happy to tell the police it's your baby.
I do not own 2 houses I own 1 2 bed house and her father is not a millionaire (he'd have a right giggle at that one have you seen his overdraft?!!!)
I certainly have no mental problems in fact I'm a therapist!
I was the one who got social services involved along with the doctor because we were concerned about YOU. My son is not a known drug user (though you took drugs whilst you were with my daughter) and has NEVER broken someones wrist!
Lets fling a bit back here TRUTH THOUGH
Who is it on the child sex offender register? who has since been looked into concerning sex texting a 13 year old, who then slept with another 15 year old and presently has another 15 year old girlfriend in the space of about 3 months.
Who tried to force his girlfriend into an abortion telling her ''feelings don't matter''. Doh! was it not you?

Raping you in your sleep OMG are you mad???? (must be :-) )

On the CSA I checked things out with them today. Apparently it is up to you to prove beyond a doubt that you are the father else you will have to pay. For this they require a DNA test which they tell me cost £300 and upwards. So basically its your choice.
And you're the one paying the price GET REAL I've just spent out £400 on baby gear what did you buy? Who will be helping bring YOUR baby up? ME!!!

You came very close to splitting up my whole family, you turned my daughter against me and manilulated her beyond beleif.
Now that you are out the picture I have a fantastic relationship with my daughter and am very much looking forward to helping her raise her child.
The only mistruths my daugher told to the police were the ones you told her to tell! and seeing as how well you controlled her she did it. Just like you asked the other 15 year old girl to lie on your behalf.

What are you on about the thing about wrongly accused men being sparked off by your case are you for real???? since when is what happens to you so important?

Maybe you should stand up and be a man (cough) admit your mistake and pay for your child instead of expecting tax payers too!

QUOTE I was a fool to love.... well maybe you'll use your brain next time then.

Just to set the record straight as she is 15 I am the one who has to claim child benefit on her behalf which means I'm the one who claims CSA. I work and pay for my kids so why should you be any different? You say you can't even afford a car... when I was 19 I had 2 children and 2 jobs, I worked hard passed my driving test and bought a car ALL PAID FOR BY ME. Now grow up!

welshcakes

... Epona, how extraordinary that you have found out about shedo-kuru's post on this site? My little grey cells are starting to work overtime and the cynic in me is growing.

DjSatansfury

LOL!

Posting in a legendary thread here.

It's like Trisha on MSE

welshcakes

I would like to point out that this is moneysavingexperts.

Saving £1 on a condom is a false economy.

Anthillmob

im sorry ive only read page on on this and i have to say

She was raping me in my sleep, i can't wear protection when im asleep

!!!!!!!!!!! are you telling me you are such a deep sleeper? or did she slip you some rohypnol?

why not go the whole hogg and call the jeremy kyle show, he'll do the test for free and you get to air your dirty linnen in public.

p.s. tell me when its on i could do with a good laugh