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Ex missus wants to claim CSA off me
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Just make sure you get the DNA proof before you do anything. If SHE is the one whos telling you that she had sex with you in your sleep, then i'll bet my bottom dollar she is lying.
She can't put you as the father on the birth certificate if your not with her. Its ONLY if your married that she can do that.
You've been put on the register as a consequence of your actions so learn your lesson and don't do it again.
If you've always used protection and your sure shes been sleeping around (around the time she was pregnant), hen the chances of the baby being yours are slim to none.
If the baby was thought to be in any danger then i'm sure the authorities will know. The midwife and Health Visitor will be visiting your ex almost everyday for two weeks and the Health Visitor comes every few weeks for a couple of months after the baby is born. If they think the baby is in any kind of danger hen they will act. If after the baby has been born, you GENUINELY think the baby is in danger then report to Social Services.
I have to go as I have my own babies to look after and my husband will be home soon!!
Good luck.What the Deuce?0 -
If a man of 19 has sex with a child of 15, who he knew was 15 then he deserves locking up and the help of a good shrink.0
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Shedo-kuru wrote:Well if it helps im not either.. i dont wear make-up, i dont worship satan, i dont have any forms of percings, and i cant wear any jewelry as i have a metal allergy..
I just like to wear the clothing style, but during the 9 to 5 im the same as everyone else, denim jeans and a shirt
What's Deviant art? - noticed you have a profile on a message board named 'deviant art'? What's that?0 -
Taloola78 wrote:If a man of 19 has sex with a child of 15, who he knew was 15 then he deserves locking up and the help of a good shrink.Barclaycard 3800
Nothing to do but hibernate till spring
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pervy drawings probably0
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Graham_Devon wrote:And with all due respect your not talking in text speak which is good! Can't understand half the trash on her profile.
Shedo has turned it around, accepted responsibility and knows what he has to face. He does now sound a lot better than the thing he slept with! ......literally eh Shedo, slept....geddit!?
The only reason I stopped and helped was because you took it all and didnt shout abuse in our faces.
Well done mate, keep it up.
I don't abuse..i take everything at face value and read every comment posted, try to take in as much as possible..
And i myself barely understand text speak, lately my mother and father have been using it in SMS messages and it baffles me.
The only thing about my writing is i let my grammar slip, i have a B in English, a C in Literature and Grade 3 communication. I take pride in being able to converse understandably.
And thank you for saying I am better than her, i sympathise with her myself though, if she'd had better parents she would have been a lovely person i am sure..
And im afraid to say.. no i didnt get it :sad:0 -
robby-01 wrote:So people who sleep with underage girls and get them pregnant are naive and silly but not perverts.
OK then .
I imagine the person who responded to your original post was more concerned that it was a personal attack on a poster on this forum.
I agree that any adult who sleeps with anyone who is underage should be prosecuted & accept the consequences. It is wrong - irrelevant of the age differences (2yrs or 25yrs) and they should be punished. The fact that she may be 'very mature etc' for her age is also irrelevant.
As I said previously, people giving the excuse that they are immature is irrelevant. You still know the difference between right and wrong.Sometimes it's important to work for that pot of gold...But other times it's essential to take time off and to make sure that your most important decision in the day simply consists of choosing which color to slide down on the rainbow...0 -
!!!!!! wrote:What's Deviant art? - noticed you have a profile on a message board named 'deviant art'? What's that?
DeviantArt is a website, it has 15 million users worldwide and is the webs most popular art sharing community.
Its where i post all my artwork0 -
Taloola78 wrote:If a man of 19 has sex with a child of 15, who he knew was 15 then he deserves locking up and the help of a good shrink.
from what I can gather on another post she was 14 when they started sleeping together
as I said in another post its not just underage s*x - Shedo should be classed as a paedophile which for some strange reason Shedo didn't deny but did ask why people wont believe him that he was asleep...?
sounds like she could do with wearing a chastity belt after the baby's born...
I really have to go now - I will miss my bus!!!0 -
TROLL ALERT....!
Funny but pathetic.....Hi - im a member of the Debt Help UK FORUM...0
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