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  • jamespir
    jamespir Posts: 21,456 Forumite
    Torry_Quine wrote: »
    I don't in any way lead a frustrated life but thanks for your concern. ;)





    Do we always have to act because something is 'natural'?


    Sorry but I disagree, sex should always include a partner and one with who you have a long term committed relationship.

    why shouldnt people play with them selves it's not like its harming anyone
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  • Torry_Quine
    Torry_Quine Posts: 18,873 Forumite
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    Purbeck wrote: »
    "Sorry but I disagree, sex should always include a partner and one with who you have a long term committed relationship. "

    Yes, probably in an ideal world... but what about when you don't have a partner? ( and I assume from what you say that you do) Is one to sublimate every sexual urge because the love of ones life, the person you thought you would be making love with 'forever' has gone?


    I can only speak for myself when I say that yes I do think that 'sexual urges' do not have to be acted upon.
    Lost my soulmate so life is empty.

    I can bear pain myself, he said softly, but I couldna bear yours. That would take more strength than I have -
    Diana Gabaldon, Outlander
  • bobajob_1966
    bobajob_1966 Posts: 1,058 Forumite
    Torry_Quine wrote: »
    No I never did before I married. To be absolutely honest it's not something I'd ever thought about.

    So you had not been exposed to !!!!!! or pressure from others as a result of !!!!!!, to the extent that it made you feel forced to do it?
  • Torry_Quine
    Torry_Quine Posts: 18,873 Forumite
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    jamespir wrote: »
    why shouldnt people play with them selves it's not like its harming anyone

    I would argue that it damages the sexual relationship as intended ie between one man and one woman.
    Lost my soulmate so life is empty.

    I can bear pain myself, he said softly, but I couldna bear yours. That would take more strength than I have -
    Diana Gabaldon, Outlander
  • jamespir
    jamespir Posts: 21,456 Forumite
    Torry_Quine wrote: »
    I can only speak for myself when I say that yes I do think that 'sexual urges' do not have to be acted upon.

    dont mean to be funny but i think your religion is clouding your judgment
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  • bobajob_1966
    bobajob_1966 Posts: 1,058 Forumite
    Torry_Quine wrote: »
    I would argue that it damages the sexual relationship as intended ie between one man and one woman.

    Who dictates that it is intended to be between one man and one woman?
  • Torry_Quine
    Torry_Quine Posts: 18,873 Forumite
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    bobajob_1966 wrote: »
    So you had not been exposed to !!!!!! or pressure from others as a result of !!!!!!, to the extent that it made you feel forced to do it?


    I hadn't been exposed to !!!!!! that I can remember, it is a long time ago. :o Never faced any pressure from others.
    Lost my soulmate so life is empty.

    I can bear pain myself, he said softly, but I couldna bear yours. That would take more strength than I have -
    Diana Gabaldon, Outlander
  • EchoLocation
    EchoLocation Posts: 901 Forumite
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    Torry_Quine wrote: »
    Do we always have to act because something is 'natural'?

    As you don't accept evolution surely it must be your god that gave us these natural urges to act on?
    Torry_Quine wrote: »
    Sorry but I disagree, sex should always include a partner and one with who you have a long term committed relationship.

    Give us one good reason why.
  • Torry_Quine
    Torry_Quine Posts: 18,873 Forumite
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    jamespir wrote: »
    dont mean to be funny but i think your religion is clouding your judgment

    The opposite actually.
    bobajob_1966 wrote: »
    Who dictates that it is intended to be between one man and one woman?


    You really don't know?;)
    Lost my soulmate so life is empty.

    I can bear pain myself, he said softly, but I couldna bear yours. That would take more strength than I have -
    Diana Gabaldon, Outlander
  • dirtysexymonkey
    dirtysexymonkey Posts: 1,471 Forumite
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    Torry_Quine wrote: »
    I would argue that it damages the sexual relationship as intended ie between one man and one woman.
    and what about two men or two women together? should that be banned in your mind?
    Hi, we’ve had to remove your signature. If you’re not sure why please read the forum rules or email the forum team if you’re still unsure - MSE ForumTeam
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