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alias*alibi

MoreOn wrote: »

It always is about power, while men have some power so do women... As i've mentioned before the biases and behaviour that exist throught this thread are awful. Even with the quotes below some will deny it.....

MoreOn; don't waste your energy Hun! I've actually enjoyed tonight watching posters tying themselves up in knots at what a vile nasty woman I am and my husband being a spineless scum... Makes me laugh actually at the idiots who think they know best and throw aspersions and insults around like they know us personally. Water off a ducks back; after 22 pages of the same boring carp I've grown a thick skin :rotfl:

alias*alibi

DeeDee74 wrote: »

:eek::eek:well i hope u help protect children put in your care...

Ha ha; social services do a bloody good job with the limited resources they have. But as I don't work frontline how would I know the ins and outs of the nitty gritty stuff? Bit sad you having a dig at where i work; it just shows you as an ignorant idiot; like what my private life is like should have any bearing on my work life. Do me a favour and sod off. Or grow up.

whitewing

[QUOTE=alias*alibi;48071081
So is the tart who opened her legs to a married man and spawned an unwanted child... You're comments shows how one dimensional you are. Does this all hit a nerve with you or something DeeDee?????[/QUOTE]

I think this level of hatred towards the OW is extremely unhealthy for you, a*a.

alias*alibi

whitewing wrote: »

I think this level of hatred towards the OW is extremely unhealthy for you, a*a.

I dont actually care anymore to be honest. I'm dealing with it the best I can and if that means directing hated towards the OW then so be it.

To be honest I've now got to the point of posting what people are hoping to hear for the entertainment and comedy value. The whole thread has descended into mud slinging so I'm joining in.

DeeDee74

alias*alibi wrote: »

Ha ha; social services do a bloody good job with the limited resources they have. But as I don't work frontline how would I know the ins and outs of the nitty gritty stuff? Bit sad you having a dig at where i work; it just shows you as an ignorant idiot; like what my private life is like should have any bearing on my work life. Do me a favour and sod off. Or grow up.

Pointing out ss job is to protect children at risk, since u work for them that makes u negligent end of.............

DVardysShadow

alias*alibi wrote: »

I think YOU need to read my other posts where I clearly say I have no intention of letting her ruin my job. The CRB comment was made to show o am no threat; not to use against her !!!!!!!!!!!! But thanks for yet another vote in favour of a tart who already 'ruined' my life once. The vitorol on this thread towards me never ceases to amaze me.

Wind your neck in and turn down the anger. If you are taking what I wrote as being a vote for a tart, you really are being irrational to the point that you are not fit to take care of yourself if she cottons on to your vulnerability. Frankly your response to a friendly warning to look after yourself is downright insulting.

Get real, the CRB does not show that you are not a threat [simply put, anyone who was ever a threat once had a CRB - and plenty of people who are not threats won't get a clean CRB either]. Your CRB is not a strength - it is a weakness this woman can use to put you under. Particularly as you seem to wear it quite prominently.

I am not after an apology, I don't need or want one. But you are so far onto your high horse about this, that you will be vulnerable to this woman tripping you up until you accept that you are 180 degrees wrong in your interpretation of my post.

Oldernotwiser

*max* wrote: »

But there is a major difference here. If a woman puts a child up for adoption, the person who will ultimately have responsibility for the child will have chosen to do so, and will have freely decided to adopt the child and bring it up - in most cases, as part of a couple!
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But when you give up a child for adoption, you don't know that it will actually be adopted. Of course, a new born, healthy baby of the right race is likely to be placed at the current time but this hasn't always been the case.

Bumpmakesfour

alias*alibi wrote: »

DeeDee74 wrote: »

what a vile woman u r....[/QUOTE

So is the tart who opened her legs to a married man and spawned an unwanted child... You're comments shows how one dimensional you are. Does this all hit a nerve with you or something DeeDee?????

Wow...just WOW.Last time I checked your husband was there too during the "opening her legs bit":eek:
I haven't posted on here before because I've felt nothing but sympathy for the awful situation you're in OP..but that ^^^ comment shows how one dimensional YOU are.You are almost at the point of pitying your husband,the man JOINTLY responsible for "spawning" this "unwanted" child,after "22 pages of the same boring carp".
Honestly the whole way through me reading this thread for the past couple of days I've felt awful for you but the anger you're feeling inside for the OW(and yes I agree..she's absolutely in the wrong here too)is detracting from the fact that you cannot believe a single word that comes out of OH's mouth.
I have absolutely no idea how you can move forward from this..I know for me it'd be game over..but I hope you find the strength to move on and find happiness for you and your daughters sake x

alias*alibi

DeeDee74 wrote: »

Pointing out ss job is to protect children at risk, since u work for them that makes u negligent end of.............

OMG does it??????? You'd better write to my manager quick smart then! What you going to say? My husband has walked away from a child he doesn't want and I'm supporting him in his decision? Hell; they are going to throw the books at me for my negligence of a child which is !!!! ALL to do with me.

Grow up. I'd go to bed but the comedy factor is too compelling to turn off.

whitewing

DVardysShadow wrote: »

Wind your neck in and turn down the anger. If you are taking what I wrote as being a vote for a tart, you really are being irrational to the point that you are not fit to take care of yourself if she cottons on to your vulnerability.

the CRB does not show that you are not a threat [simply put, anyone who was ever a threat once had a CRB - and plenty of people who are not threats won't get a clean CRB either]. Your CRB is not a strength - it is a weakness this woman can use to put you under. Particularly as you seem to wear it quite prominently.

you will be vulnerable to this woman tripping you up QUOTE]

I agree with DVS. Your reaction to OW is something you need to address now with your counsellor because it is showing signs of getting completely out of control. I mean this in a way that supports you 100%.