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XH(KH) gone a step too far now.. (UPDATED again)

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  • pigpen
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    ex husband and kn0b head respectively.

    Well done piggers you took the high road. x

    I normally can after running through the things I would LIKE to do lol
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  • CH27
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    Hope it all goes smoothly this weekend Pigpen:)
    Try to be a rainbow in someone's cloud.
  • pigpen
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    Updated post#1 again... ggrrrr
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  • bloomin heck PP! does he really not are about his kids health?!?

    can DS not go with you, OH and the girls to see OH's family? or can you meet half way for the day so its not so much travelling on your part with 2 wee ones?
  • pigpen
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    adamantine wrote: »
    bloomin heck PP! does he really not are about his kids health?!?

    can DS not go with you, OH and the girls to see OH's family? or can you meet half way for the day so its not so much travelling on your part with 2 wee ones?

    I honestly dont think he does .. far too busy being single I guess :(

    His dad works crazy hours so fitting in visiting his mum, his sister and his dad is tricky.. DS3 gets horrifically travel sick with medication so taking him 120 miles is not a good idea..
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  • Humphrey10
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    It sounds like he either does not care at all about his children, or he is too thick to understand how important it all is, either way I think you are sensible not letting DS3 go there again, not until you know 100% he will be cared for properly.
    Even if your ex told your DS3 to do the injection that's not enough imo, he's only 12 and has only recently started on insulin, he should be watched to make sure he does the injections.

    Get the nurse to explain correction doses to you, if she hasn't already.
  • Sound like solicitor is the way to go, you have tried, cancelling the nurse doesn't look good. Is he not that bright? If I was him I would've sat through her visit - even if my teeth were gritted.
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  • Mupette
    Mupette Posts: 4,599 Forumite
    omg what a KH

    how can a father be like that with his children and their health...

    i thought my ex was a KH, but... your certainly should wear that crown.

    at least with cancelling the nurse (make a note, get in in writing from the nurse, anything on paper so that if this goes to court proof of how stupid he is), he has put his children at risk yet again.

    come on girls where do we find these men....
    or is it nice men go bad when they are no longer loved...

    i think i would risk prison if someone put my boy's health at risk (ok he is 16 and capable of looking after himself, but he is still my baby)

    i can only think of suggesting what has been suggested to another poster on another thread on here, get a diary written, this may be needed in court if you have to go that far.. (who could blame you)
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