what are the best value dating sites?

zoesmummy_2006

just got back on, thanks for the replies!!! Its nice to have an outside opinion lol, and the male point of view on things too.

Believe me ive wanted to ask him out, but he always comes with a partner and I'd feel awkward asking him in front of her, but then I feel awkward cos sometimes when we're chatting away I feel like she's being excluded lol. Unfortunately the work card only has work details on, email and work phone number otherwise I def would have. Dont think its really appropriate to email him via work lol.

He knows I'm on fb, only issue there if he was to look for me is that im on under my maiden name since seperating but he knows me by married name, because my divorce wasnt finalised when I moved into the house!! Though I doubt he'll do that as he said he's not on there.

My cousin was asking about him this morning and she says she has a good feeling about this and I need to start decorating my house with mistletoe at every doorway for when he's next round-thats not a bad idea lol.

I shall gird my lions, pluck up my courage, bolster my confidence and do something.............

I shall report back when I have lol xxx

benb76

Nothing wrong with a friendly but flirty email to his work address. He's the only one that will read it!

Li0nhead

missmontana wrote: »

What's your username?!

Was not sure i wanted to post it on here but ah what the heck. Its Westyorksfish

System

Found 2 guys i'd like to message on okcupid, just trying to build up the confidence to do it! (I'm a little weary after last time!)

Scotty1.7

xXMessedUpXx wrote: »

Found 2 guys i'd like to message on okcupid, just trying to build up the confidence to do it! (I'm a little weary after last time!)

Go for it come on hun- she who dares, wins.


Am I one of them lol?

sapphireeye

Remember a while ago I asked about adding on facebook? Well that guy is the main guy I've been talking to and he was perfectly happy to wait for me to wait to add him on facebook and we're now facebook friends and have been messaging back and forth on there and have agreed to meet up over Christmas when I'm home from university. I just asked outright because I wanted to check that we weren't just getting into internet penpal territory! He's really nice and we have similar interests though we both have different interests too and I think we are both complete chatterboxes, we never seem to run out of things to talk about! However I won't place too much emphasis on that since I know from previous experience that it's not always like that in person. We also seem to have similar values and attitude to life in general and I think that's possibly more important than having common interests. He's met up with a few people before and has made a few friends out of it but hasn't met anyone that he's felt anything more for which is fair enough and to be honest I don't have loads of friends back home anymore now they're settling down/moving on with their lives so even if I just make a new friend out of it I'll be happy!

Anyway I just thought I'd update on things at my end, I've had conversations with other guys but they've either stopped replying or I've stopped replying because they've not given me much to go on. They probably stop replying to me because I have the opposite problem of having too much to say ;-) Either that or I message guys and they never reply but proceed to completely stalk my profile and view me several times a day but never reply...

dataprotector

In response to the title of this thread -
The best value one is one you dont have to go back to........

newcook

There are some really odd people on these sites – its easy to see why some of them are single!!

Saw a nice profile the other day so I sent him a message – the reply I got back was ‘ok what you after’

Li0nhead

newcook wrote: »

There are some really odd people on these sites – its easy to see why some of them are single!!

Saw a nice profile the other day so I sent him a message – the reply I got back was ‘ok what you after’

Such a deep and thoughtful response...:D

Write him off as a social retard.

Scotty1.7

well seems to have all gone quiet on here?

Have we all paired off for christmass?