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  • 0^0
    0^0 Posts: 146 Forumite
    1940sGal wrote: »
    See i can't agree here. I don't want to read an essay but one line, to me anyway, smacks of not making an effort.

    I bit the bullet and signed up to OkCupid (just for a look, not after anything serious yet) and the messages I've had so far are woeful. One today couldn't be bothered with even basic grammar and he got my name wrong.

    Oh, and he put 'xxx' at the end :undecided

    How can someone spell "gal" wrong?:rotfl:
  • 1940sGal
    1940sGal Posts: 2,393 Forumite
    0^0 wrote: »
    How can someone spell "gal" wrong?:rotfl:

    Different user name :p haha
  • 0^0
    0^0 Posts: 146 Forumite
    1940sGal wrote: »
    Different user name :p haha

    Ahhhhhhhhhhhhh ok my mistake.:o
  • 1940sGal
    1940sGal Posts: 2,393 Forumite
    0^0 wrote: »
    Ahhhhhhhhhhhhh ok my mistake.:o

    But saying that it was still only 5 letters. Obviously too many! :rotfl:

    And he spelled it 'u' instead of 'you'. Huge pet hate right there! Txt speak a big no no with me!
  • ali-t
    ali-t Posts: 3,815 Forumite
    0^0 wrote: »

    Its far better to keep the emails short and sweet and more frequent. One liners are absolutely fine.:)

    I totally disagree with this. I tend not to answer one liner e-mails as I think it shows a total lack of effort.
    If you always do what you have always done, you will always get what you always got!
  • 0^0
    0^0 Posts: 146 Forumite
    ali-t wrote: »
    I totally disagree with this. I tend not to answer one liner e-mails as I think it shows a total lack of effort.

    Effort = Work:)

    Work = Lose interest;)
  • ali-t
    ali-t Posts: 3,815 Forumite
    0^0 wrote: »
    Effort = Work:)

    Work = Lose interest;)

    Haha, a girl likes to be woo'd and one line messages or copy and posted efforts don't win the lady.
    If you always do what you have always done, you will always get what you always got!
  • 1940sGal
    1940sGal Posts: 2,393 Forumite
    0^0 wrote: »
    Effort = Work:)

    Work = Lose interest;)

    So the ladies aren't worth some effort, eh?!

    :p
  • 267
    267 Posts: 82 Forumite
    1940sGal wrote: »
    See i can't agree here. I don't want to read an essay but one line, to me anyway, smacks of not making an effort.

    Meanwhile, on this side of the fence, I'm in full agreement with you.

    There seems to be an awful lot of ladies (probably men too) that either can't (or can't be bothered to) hold a conversation.

    I've pretty much given up looking now :(
  • 0^0
    0^0 Posts: 146 Forumite
    ali-t wrote: »
    Haha, a girl likes to be woo'd and one line messages or copy and posted efforts don't win the lady.

    Ahhhhhhhh right, so how much luck have you had then?
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