what are the best value dating sites?

Lotus-eater

I'm tempted to put up a profile on POF and see if I get any nasty messages, or any messages!

But I don't want someone I might know, thinking I am cheating on my OH.

SailorSam

samuelthomson240 wrote: »

hi id like to join a site what is the best value site im on pof but dont really fancy it. what are the best paysites ? any advice on how to come up with a good profile would be grately appreciated. thanks for a reply john

There all a load of rubbish John just out for your money.
Stay on here you want get a date but we have a good laugh.

Northern_Princess

Lotus-eater wrote: »

I'm tempted to put up a profile on POF and see if I get any nasty messages, or any messages!

But I don't want someone I might know, thinking I am cheating on my OH.

I never got nasty ones, just unacceptable ones :rotfl: I remember sitting reading them and thinking oh goodness WHAT have I done :eek:

Lotus-eater

Northern_Princess wrote: »

I never got nasty ones, just unacceptable ones :rotfl: I remember sitting reading them and thinking oh goodness WHAT have I done :eek:

Oh, I wouldn't mind getting those

Northern_Princess

Lotus-eater wrote: »

Oh, I wouldn't mind getting those

:rotfl::rotfl: they were pretty detailed! Rule no I of dating sites (I learned very quickly) never post a profile pic of yourself on a horse. I'm sitting here laughing thinking about those mad messages now :beer:

LisaB85

Lotus-eater wrote: »

What a charmer!

Best out of that one then. The internet does allow people to be ruder than they would normally be.

Think he is just a psycho x

jdp1970

Scotty1.7 wrote: »

And its people like that that put seeds of doubt in every girls mind they meet, meaning those few guys who are decent and genuine don't get a chance- we all get tarred with the same brush

Thats very true Scotty!
In fact you get to the stage where you dont trust someone cos they're so nice!

LisaB85

Northern_Princess wrote: »

I never joined the free ones. I found if you paid to join then people were more serious about dating. Most paying sites you can't send a message unless your a paying member. I was on a few, Dating Direct, Match.com and Friends Reunited Dating. I found them all really good. I did try Plenty of Fish and cancelled my profile as I had loads of "unacceptable" messages on it that scared me a bit.

I joined Match no dates and very few messages, I also used another pay site where I saw pof members I had no dates just a few chats but had 2 dates off pof in the same month.

You need a thick skin online, I have some dodgy messages but I just ignore them I don't let it bother me unless it is funny and makes me laugh as lets face it some are hilarious.

jdp1970

LisaB85 wrote: »

I joined Match no dates and very few messages, I also used another pay site where I saw pof members I had no dates just a few chats but had 2 dates off pof in the same month.

You need a thick skin online, I have some dodgy messages but I just ignore them I don't let it bother me unless it is funny and makes me laugh as lets face it some are hilarious.

I had one guy say "I bet you look good naked"
(This was his opening message)
I replied "Shame you'll never see me naked..."

I got thick skinned to the remarks I received.

jdp1970

SailorSam wrote: »

So that's another lovely looking woman i've lost out on.
Good luck Julie and don't let him put his hand up your jumper on your first date.

Thank you!
If he does, he'll soon feel the palm of my hand round his face!